Oct 02, 2010 8:23 AM GMT
Question: you meet a guy that strikes you as smart, interesting, and funny, but he is Very out of shape, yet a very cool guy... Where does he fall in the spectrum?
maine1057 saidIt's how YOU feel about him being overweight. However, you gotta ask if someone doesn't take care of his body, can he take care of you? Not physically, but emotionally...
Timberoo saidIf you find him sexy and are attracted to him, then that's all the matters.
Honeydew saidWell as i hear on a daily basis it seems. (because of that god awful song)
You can't have sex with a personality.....
EccentricStud saidQuestion: you meet a guy that strikes you as smart, interesting, and funny, but he is Very out of shape, yet a very cool guy... Where does he fall in the spectrum?
4travel saidIt depends if he sends out vibes about wanting get back in shape and you beleive him. Even if it has nothing to do with physical appearance it ends up being a compatibility issue. Imagine being married to a dude that bitches to you about "all the time" you spend at the gym, doing sports etc when you could be sharing more romantic meals at the all you can eat buffet.
Now about the physical appearance...if you think he is attractive with the extra weight, he will be hot if he buffs up for sure.
sashaman saidJust depends on what is important and negotiable or non-negotiable for you.That's really the best answer.