Finding the right man, or men...or just a group of men to truly connect with

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    Oct 03, 2010 1:14 AM GMT
    I am very frustrated and lonely. For years I have wanted to connect longeterm with a buddy or buddies, but no one is willing to in my local area. 'Cept for some tennis buddies that I play competitive tennis with...there is no social engagement. I am the only single guy. Are there any men within a few hundred miles I can connect with for REAL? How do I go about meeting the right guys on Real Jock? There are thousands of potential friends and partners here? How do I break it down and not lose my mind hoping for some real connection?
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    Oct 03, 2010 1:25 AM GMT
    Well, post more often in topics. That way others can get a feel for the kind of person you are.

    For an example, in your profile you state you're christian. This can mean many things, some good, some quite terrible, depending entirely on the kind of christian you are.

    RJ Chat and IM is another way. Instead of seeking deep connections, simply be friendly and enjoy the company here (which isn't always easy in respect to tempers and flame-wars, lol).

    -Doug and Bill


    PS the deep connections will simply happen.