Just came out to my crush

  • tallguy86

    Posts: 39

    Oct 03, 2010 10:58 PM GMT
    I just came out to my crush who is bi also in the closet. He said he has been in 2 relationships with guys in the past and they were both messy so he isn't looking to be in a relationship but was really supportive and is as awesome as ever in my eyes.

    It was really great talking to someone about it in person and he had already picked up on it all. While he isn't looking for a relationship he seems to still be looking for everything I am in a relationship (casual, room to be independent, someone there to compliment your life not be an appendage, etc.) and now after the talk realize it is going to be hard to move on right away.

    He also suggests I start experimenting and trying new things but I don't want to start going to clubs and stuff and be fully out because I am still not 100% sure. Any suggestions on how to keep things quiet while exploring sexuality or any suggestions how to help me move on?
  • tuffguyndc

    Posts: 4437

    Oct 04, 2010 1:14 AM GMT
    WOw, that is great buddy. That is good you have someone like him. I have a similar buddy like your friend so I can relate 100%. However, this how I explored the gay scene and without having to come to anyone. I actually met guys via the internet. I got experience with guys that way and I didn't have to worry about others finding out. As for your friend, just keep it as it is and if it is meant to be more trust me when I say this it will be more
  • safety43_mma1...

    Posts: 4251

    Oct 04, 2010 4:17 AM GMT
    that is soo cool not to many guys like that left out there. he is a great friend by the sounds of it. so keep the friendship it is worth it.