How do you know that you are good at sex?

  • awayfromtheci...

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    Oct 04, 2010 5:19 PM GMT
    Noticed in a recent thread about sex vs. romance that some answers were...I am better at sex. My question is, "how do you know that you are better at sex"?

    Or how do you know that you are good at sex? Because he tells me does not count....really, how do you know?
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    Oct 04, 2010 5:25 PM GMT
    If you have to ask, you probably aren't icon_cool.gif
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    Oct 04, 2010 7:46 PM GMT
    I always took repeat business as a sign that I was at least doing something right.
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    Oct 04, 2010 8:38 PM GMT
    It´s like knowing if you are a good cook. They thank you after and want seconds.
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    Oct 04, 2010 9:29 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]sfinthecity said[/cite]Noticed in a recent thread about sex vs. romance that some answers were...I am better at sex. My question is, "how do you know that you are better at sex"?

    Or how do you know that you are good at sex? Because he tells me does not count....really, how do you know?[/quote

    Being a top....most of the time, I'm invited to come back again icon_razz.gif

    Especially if I was able to tickle their prostate!icon_twisted.gif
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    Oct 04, 2010 9:32 PM GMT
    Top ranking in the Duke University F**k List?
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    Oct 04, 2010 9:34 PM GMT
    like the fuck list would be interesting or entertaining to know what the other person really does think of you..good or bad lol
  • Ironman4U

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    Oct 04, 2010 9:40 PM GMT
    When they moan and groan and go crazy and tell you it was the best sex they've ever had (not the same as telling you you're good). And then they can't get enough and they want you again and again.

    Seriously, if you are an excellent lover you know it. And you will get the above reaction. But you have to be there to fulfill the other guy's fantasy (whatever that is) and not just focused on getting off.
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    Oct 04, 2010 9:40 PM GMT
    I've been told I am however I was told by two guys who I never heard from again so I don't really know. Ha ha. I'm adventurous though so that' usually a good start. icon_cool.gif
  • owen19832006

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    Oct 04, 2010 9:45 PM GMT
    agree with ironman4u....when they moan and groan and you that reaction or when you make them cum without touching themselves you knowyou have hit the spot and hence you are fab!
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    Oct 04, 2010 9:56 PM GMT
    Because I get callbacks for round two...giggity giggitty goo!icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 04, 2010 9:57 PM GMT
    when he comes like a volcano? Spouting it like a yard away? Is that a good sign? Or does that only mean he's just really turned on and been dry too long?
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    Oct 04, 2010 9:58 PM GMT
    He comes back for more.
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    Oct 04, 2010 10:00 PM GMT
    amar_m saidwhen he comes like a volcano? Spouting it like a yard away? Is that a good sign? Or does that only mean he's just really turned on and been dry too long?


    yum amar! icon_twisted.gif
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    Oct 04, 2010 10:06 PM GMT
    Well - about a hundred years of experience, and requests for encores!
  • rnch

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    Oct 04, 2010 10:13 PM GMT
    guys have used their sick leave and vacation time for repeated performances with me. icon_eek.gif
  • rnch

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    Oct 04, 2010 10:15 PM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidWhen they come back to bed from tossing the condom and just ONE Kiss gets em' HARD again and they say, can I do that to you again?....
    Good One!! icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 04, 2010 10:17 PM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidWhen they come back to bed from tossing the condom and just ONE Kiss gets em' HARD again and they say,
    can I do that to you again?
    MMM.. something about round 2 that's Extra HOT to me!...icon_cool.gif
    My guess is you got it going on in the sack if they want more dessert!


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    Oct 04, 2010 10:17 PM GMT
    compliments and repeat business are the best indicators!
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    Oct 04, 2010 10:19 PM GMT
    If he can't talk while you're sexing him and he asks for more minutes after you finish a round...
  • cityguy39

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    Oct 04, 2010 10:21 PM GMT
    If your randoms keep your number and want to hookup again, I think that tells the story. If guys really enjoy the sex with you, they will come back.
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    Oct 04, 2010 10:24 PM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor said
    Hermes63 said
    TheGuyNextDoor saidWhen they come back to bed from tossing the condom and just ONE Kiss gets em' HARD again and they say,
    can I do that to you again?
    MMM.. something about round 2 that's Extra HOT to me!...icon_cool.gif
    My guess is you got it going on in the sack if they want more dessert!


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    ... and YES.. there WILL be THIRDS for you Sexy! O_O ..!


    yeah..yeah..promises...promisesicon_rolleyes.gif
  • laxdude25

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    Oct 04, 2010 10:30 PM GMT
    easy. as many of the guys point out, when they keep coming back for more, no matter how challenging the logistics might be. (you ever tried making plans with a married guy who has kids, who puts his family first, second and third, and is also pretty engaged in work??!!). icon_cool.gif
  • JESIE

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    Oct 04, 2010 10:31 PM GMT
    when you get that text that says "i want that ass"
    from more than just ONE guy ;D
  • JESIE

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    Oct 04, 2010 10:39 PM GMT
    LOVALOT said
    JESIE saidwhen you get that text that says "i want that ass"
    from more than just ONE guy ;D


    i think we're talking about being GOOD in sex, not being plentiful.


    well..if i wasn't good at it, then i would be a one hit wonder. but if im getting plenty of texts that want some, then im doing something good icon_razz.gif