Have you ever been treated like a piece of meat?

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    Oct 05, 2010 6:42 AM GMT
    So, in my lame attempts at putting myself in the single and available club and actively looking to start a relationship, I've been getting messages, advances and all sorts of looks that are sexually-suggestive in nature. I feel like a piece of meat in a meat market sometimes and it just feels oh so aggressive. It's like they want a piece of me, but don't want to talk with me (or aren't really paying attention to whatever I've got to say). So much pressure...
  • alphatop

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    Oct 05, 2010 7:08 AM GMT
    It's fine, let them treat u that way...U r the one to say YES or NO, right? I've been treated like a peace of meat, but I was working boy years ago, so it was part of my job...today, well....I don't care that much what others think of me...I know who I am, and that is only that matters...
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    Oct 05, 2010 8:10 AM GMT
    Yes, definitely. Sometimes, I even sort of liked it, but then I think that might have been because I didn't have much self esteem and I found it somewhat of a boost.

    I remember one encounter with a guy that I really did feel like a piece of meat, I basically felt like I was treated as a human dildo and he just wanted some dick, not the rest of me. That made me feel pretty crap.
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    Oct 05, 2010 1:29 PM GMT
    Yes and its awesome
  • Aquariandy

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    Oct 05, 2010 1:33 PM GMT
    Using this whole site makes me feel this way, pretty much. I can honestly say I've never felt this objectified before, and I'll admit part of me finds it a little flattering and even exciting. But then it also gets kind of annoying and disheartening. And even kinda dull. I guess its nice if you need to feel a certain validation, but it certainly isn't going to replace genuine interest from people you interact with in the physical world.
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    Oct 05, 2010 1:49 PM GMT

    I wish. Sounds hot!

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    Oct 05, 2010 1:52 PM GMT
    Well it happens all the time, esp in gym sauna, steam room and showers. But it doesn't bother me anymore. Just ignore them if you feel he isn't worth it.
    Did meet a guy once and all he wanted was to do blow me. Nothing else, no touching at all. Didn't feel so good, so nothing happened.
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    Oct 05, 2010 1:56 PM GMT
    NickFit saidI basically felt like I was treated as a human dildo


    I Know, Right!
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    Oct 05, 2010 2:07 PM GMT
    have i ever been treated as a piece of meat?

    Only by every gay man i've ever met.

    I too feel like a dildo, a sex toy, theres no emotional satisfaction to it. I do all the work, the other guy gets all the pleasure, and when he comes, its a wrap. My needs come second, but I don't mind that so much because I am a performer in bed.

    I'm a high performance trick.
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    Oct 05, 2010 2:12 PM GMT
    Possibly but it was a long time ago. I'm not what most here would call "VGL" and don't really move in the bar/club circles too much. Chances are if someone is paying attention to me it has to do with something other than looks/sex.
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    Oct 05, 2010 2:14 PM GMT
    Pretty sure I ask for it.
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    Oct 05, 2010 2:17 PM GMT
    I don't know why you guys find that as a great thing honestly for me. I hate that feeling. Always want someone to look at you as a person, interested in the person ,your ideas, and thoughts and dreams. You pretend to do it for a client why not do it for someone who you plan to give an STD too. I say keep your lame sexual advances to yourself and come correct.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Oct 05, 2010 2:27 PM GMT
    The pressure is what you put on yourself. Have I been treated like a piece? Sure, it happens frequently, but I recognize whats up and you just move on...
    Are you a piece of meat or are you something more? You define yourself in the eyes of others. I can say that those who may have treated me that way don't now.. if they know who I am and whats up. For those who don't, they are probably off looking for other pieces of meat... LOL
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    Oct 05, 2010 2:27 PM GMT
    It might be an amusing novelty once in a while but I can see why it would get old. Not that I wouldn't put up with it if that was the cost of having model looks.
  • rnch

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    Oct 05, 2010 2:38 PM GMT
    perhaps 15 years and 30 pounds ago.... icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 05, 2010 2:40 PM GMT
    Swaggerjock80 saidI don't know why you guys find that as a great thing honestly for me. I hate that feeling. Always want someone to look at you as a person, interested in the person ,your ideas, and thoughts and dreams. You pretend to do it for a client why not do it for someone who you plan to give an STD too. I say keep your lame sexual advances to yourself and come correct.



    Clients? STDs? What???

    Look at your profile pic. Look at your headline "Sweating for all the hotties." I'm sorry, but I'm not buying your post. At all.

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    Oct 05, 2010 2:46 PM GMT
    DJdorchester said
    Swaggerjock80 saidI don't know why you guys find that as a great thing honestly for me. I hate that feeling. Always want someone to look at you as a person, interested in the person ,your ideas, and thoughts and dreams. You pretend to do it for a client why not do it for someone who you plan to give an STD too. I say keep your lame sexual advances to yourself and come correct.



    Clients? STDs? What???

    Look at your profile pic. Look at your headline "Sweating for all the hotties." I'm sorry, but I'm not buying your post. At all.



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    Oct 05, 2010 2:47 PM GMT
    Tell me about it. but then again, I'm the one who's been flashing my abs. I'm such a strip tease. icon_redface.gif
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    Oct 05, 2010 2:56 PM GMT
    Yes - its wutever. icon_neutral.gif
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    Oct 05, 2010 3:00 PM GMT
    CaliBoySwag saidhave i ever been treated as a piece of meat?

    Only by every gay man i've ever met.

    I too feel like a dildo, a sex toy, theres no emotional satisfaction to it. I do all the work, the other guy gets all the pleasure, and when he comes, its a wrap. My needs come second, but I don't mind that so much because I am a performer in bed.

    I'm a high performance trick.


    Your more a "Side of Beef" than a piece of meat. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 05, 2010 3:01 PM GMT
    frenchatheart saidTell me about it. but then again, I'm the one who's been flashing my abs. I'm such a strip tease. icon_redface.gif


    Well, it's fun for the first 5 minutes or so, but the thing is, there should be a balance of both being able to interact normally and also being sexually-attractive. I guess that's the kind of perfection a lot of us yearn for but the latter bit is an easier target.
  • giojameson

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    Oct 05, 2010 3:01 PM GMT
    Well I used to be a stripper/prostitute and it definitely felt that way...I don't mind it though.....one of my boyfriends now is into humiliation and gagged me so hard with his dick that I threww up then he smacked me and shoved it back in...kinda scary but what ev.....
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    Oct 05, 2010 3:02 PM GMT
    frenchatheart saidTell me about it. but then again, I'm the one who's been flashing my abs. I'm such a strip tease. icon_redface.gif


    No one should assume because u are showing your abs that you are looking to be treated like a piece of meat. People should learn to respect others period, We are all a whole lot more then our exterior. The hot exterior is icing on the cake....icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 05, 2010 3:03 PM GMT
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    frenchatheart saidTell me about it. but then again, I'm the one who's been flashing my abs. I'm such a strip tease. icon_redface.gif


    Well, it's fun for the first 5 minutes or so, but the thing is, there should be a balance of both being able to interact normally and also being sexually-attractive. I guess that's the kind of perfection a lot of us yearn for but the latter bit is an easier target.


    I totally agree......

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    Oct 05, 2010 3:03 PM GMT
    giojameson saidWell I used to be a stripper/prostitute and it definitely felt that way...I don't mind it though.....one of my boyfriends now is into humiliation and gagged me so hard with his dick that I threww up then he smacked me and shoved it back in...kinda scary but what ev.....
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