For who is bi (or started out that way...), when was your first time with a guy?

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    Oct 06, 2010 1:31 AM GMT
    QuadradicEquation brings up a good point in the "When did you lose your virginity" thread below -- guy or girl? First time with a girl for me was around 18, and it was so-so. First time with a guy I was almost 28. The guy was a hell of a lot better!
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    Oct 06, 2010 1:35 AM GMT
    When you say lose your virginity when it comes to males, do you mean solely Anal? If so, that still hasn't happened for me.
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    Oct 06, 2010 1:42 AM GMT
    Ah good question. I guess whatever it means to you -- top, bottom... whatever. For me 28 was the first time I even touched a naked guy icon_eek.gif
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    Oct 06, 2010 1:49 AM GMT
    Alrighty, well if those are the parameters... then about a couples day after I started dating guys, at 23 ( 3-4 months ago). I regret not going more slowly icon_neutral.gif .
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    Oct 06, 2010 2:06 AM GMT
    Lost my virginity with a girl when i was about 8-ish and it was good stuff! First time i had sex with a boy i was 12 and it was even better than with the girl + I had sex with girls all through my teenage years but it did nothing for me atall, but the first time i had sex with a guy/man was....last friday icon_redface.gif I had only came out to people that night then this hot guy comes out of nowhere an we went back to his and it was HOT!
  • rioriz

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    Oct 06, 2010 3:38 AM GMT
    Hmm 2004 during Hurricane Charley...had nothing better to do with the roommate but bone...
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    Oct 06, 2010 4:00 AM GMT
    ah well i was 19 and it was with a 27 year old the good days
  • OklahomaBreak...

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    Oct 06, 2010 4:29 AM GMT
    rioriz saidHmm 2004 during Hurricane Charley...had nothing better to do with the roommate but bone...


    Ha that's hilarious. I posted on the other one, but variety of answers to these posts always fascinate me. The first time I was with a guy bottoming was this past summer, so I was 25. I plan on toping soon though icon_smile.gif
  • joxguy

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    Oct 06, 2010 6:07 AM GMT
    With a girl 16 in my car, was difficulty was exciting. WIth a guy 24, was great but i got off way too fast. Still enjoy both
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    Oct 06, 2010 6:11 AM GMT
    with a guy... I had to of been 16, and he was a couple years older then me... I hit my teenage years hard, and I guess you can say somewhat wild.. I remeber I had just gotten my license, and drove out to hangout with him, after a few drinks shit happens...I still consider him one of the most intriguing people I've ever met
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    Oct 06, 2010 11:28 AM GMT
    the last year of my marriage....seven years ago....touch and be touched by a man!
    Haven't had intimacy with a woman since then
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    Oct 13, 2010 7:32 PM GMT
    High School with my best friend...
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    Oct 14, 2010 5:04 AM GMT
    sucking each other off: 13 or 14
    fucking a girl 19
    getting topped: 35
    topping : 36
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    Oct 15, 2010 11:37 PM GMT
    I'd say I lost my virginity with both a guy and a girl right around the same age. I was 13 or 14. both so so experiences. the girl was a friend from school, and the guy, we were friends since we were little.
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    Oct 16, 2010 7:31 AM GMT
    17
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    Oct 16, 2010 8:55 PM GMT
    Messed around with a girl for the first time at 17, lost my "girl virginity" at 21.

    I haven't lost my "guy virginity" yet but the first time I messed around with a guy was when I was 22.

    (I'm 24 now)
  • rnch

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    Oct 16, 2010 9:59 PM GMT
    a wild thanksgiving night 3 way with my best friend and his wife did it for me.

    when he got enough alcohol in him, he became bi-curious. after his wife passed out on us; we started in on each other.

    5 or 6 hours later that morning, when i woke up wrapped up in his arms and legs, both of us with blue steel boners, i "figured things out". icon_cool.gif



    he's now been "clean and sober" for 6 years. glad that he got his life together; but no more "fooling around" with him.
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    Oct 16, 2010 10:01 PM GMT
    Since I am a pure homosexual and never lost my virginity to a woman! Does this make one a virgin?
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    Oct 16, 2010 10:10 PM GMT
    First Time with a Women.....about 14 on a beach with a friend of my sister.....never will forget that timeicon_razz.gif

    First Time with a Man, about 16 with a buddy. Then later in life when I was 30 with some hiking budsicon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif
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    Oct 16, 2010 10:18 PM GMT
    First time with a girl I was 16 in band camp, it was weird because it was kind of an orgy thing

    First time with guy I was 17 and it was my substitute teacher. I didn't like that experience but I poured my heart out to another guy on the wrestling team. He was my 2nd time with a guy and it was awesome.
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    Oct 16, 2010 10:18 PM GMT
    Age 36. It's a hot story.
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    Oct 16, 2010 10:19 PM GMT
    NNJfitandbi saidAge 36. It's a hot story.


    do tell
  • laxdude25

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    Oct 16, 2010 10:20 PM GMT
    first time with a woman. i was 14, and my 15 yo gf came on super strong, and we fucked in my own bed in my own house. all the time i was saying, "are you sure? are you sure," and boy, was she sure. i then had a series of sexually voracious gf's through college, which i think kept me preoccupied so i never really thought about m2m stuff until my best friend at college (rowed varsity crew, i played soccer) came on to me spring term. i declined, since i was living with my current gf. after graduation i was living solo in dc, he came down to row at georgetown, stayed with me, tried again and this time i let it happen. but no fucking. still fireworks. i decided i was gay. we flip fucked about 2 months later. so i was 22.

    btw, after 12 months or so with my first guy, it was clear he was into getting as much different dick as possible, which was not my idea of life. so we went separate ways, i tried men and women for the next few years until i met my wife.
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    Jan 15, 2011 10:55 AM GMT
    I'll tell you when. Lemme track this thread. Check back in a week.
  • LuckyGuyKC

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    Jan 15, 2011 12:19 PM GMT
    I was 18 when I first f*cked a woman.

    Once in my thirties I got a blow job and some frottage from a man - but the chemistry was bad and I wasn't into it.

    So I really didn't start having sex with men until I was getting a divorce at age 46. icon_eek.gifSo do I win the late bloomer award?