does anyone else feel like


  • Oct 06, 2010 2:25 AM GMT
    they will never find the right guy or it will never work out? kinda giving up over here. due to me only attracted to older guys this fucking blows icon_sad.gif
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    Oct 06, 2010 2:28 AM GMT
    You've only been on the site two days.
    Relationships aren't like microwave popcorn.
    You have to wait longer than that.
    Sometimes.

  • Oct 06, 2010 2:33 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidYou've only been on the site two days.
    Relationships aren't like microwave popcorn.
    You have to wait longer than that.
    Sometimes.

    yea ive been on the site for two days but what does that mean.. its not like ive been dating for two days.
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    Oct 06, 2010 2:48 AM GMT
    From what it says you live in New York City and you are only 20? ... icon_rolleyes.gif
    Gay mecca of the world almost...

    I'm sure you'll find some older guy who's in to having a relationship or w/e it is you are looking.
  • Crucializer

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    Oct 06, 2010 4:39 AM GMT
    Consider yurself lucky ... I live in IDAHO . . . icon_confused.gif
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    Oct 06, 2010 6:18 AM GMT
    lol I lived in Amsterdam and Paris for ten years, barely even met gay people, let alone available.. I think some ppl are just cursed, I stil think everything is possible, even good things, but yeah, being celibate forever is also a viable possibility if you thik that way
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    Oct 06, 2010 8:18 AM GMT
    Maybe you should just appreciate being single and get out and live your life. You live in nyc and you're 20? You have so much life yet to experience, and so many more mistakes to make before you are at a maturity level that is probably high enough for a long term healthy relationship. So why sit and feel sorry for yourself, go live! nyc is like a freaking playground and life will happen as it's meant to
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    Oct 06, 2010 8:28 AM GMT
    Yea I know the feeling man juss hang in there and try to think on the bright side I been single for 2 yrs almost cus most guys r not ready or on my mind setting but o well
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    Oct 06, 2010 2:16 PM GMT
    Mate i totally understand what its like. i dont have a boyfriend too, but doesn't mean i won't get it at all! Just keep looking around and keep your eyes wide open.I do too and btw..older men i guess they wont take you for a ride and leave you stranded after sex.
  • masculumpedes

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    Oct 06, 2010 2:39 PM GMT
    I don't understand why so many younger guys worry about finding someone. When I was in my 20's ( I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 23) I thought I had all the time in the world to find a guy, therefore I concentrated more on a steady career, obtaining a home and other things.....When I accomplished all of that...then I took finding a man a little more serious. I wish you the best and hope you will find the guy you are looking for. icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 06, 2010 2:48 PM GMT
    I do at times but then I realize that I have it pretty damn good. I have a pretty darn good job, a nice place to call home, my looks and health, a great church, and wonderful friends and family. And to be honest, a relationship is/should be the last thing on my mind until I become comfortable being a single, gay man.
  • JESIE

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    Oct 06, 2010 2:49 PM GMT
    advice: don't look for mr right. In time he'll come to you. When things happen and are in the right place it'll happen
  • rioriz

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    Oct 06, 2010 2:50 PM GMT
    (insert the same response I have given for the 50 other threads about this same topic)

    search is your friend...


  • Oct 06, 2010 3:01 PM GMT
    thanks for the comments guy. and yea im not gunna let it bring me down in a way i just feel lonely sometimes it kinda sucks. but o well what can i do not gunna commit suicide over a dumb thing haha. im off to class ttyl
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    Oct 06, 2010 3:02 PM GMT
    UnknownPleasures said
    paulflexes saidYou've only been on the site two days.
    Relationships aren't like microwave popcorn.
    You have to wait longer than that.
    Sometimes.

    yea ive been on the site for two days but what does that mean.. its not like ive been dating for two days.

    oh feisty!
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    Oct 06, 2010 3:04 PM GMT
    VenkyJock saidMate i totally understand what its like. i dont have a boyfriend too, but doesn't mean i won't get it at all! Just keep looking around and keep your eyes wide open.I do too and btw..older men i guess they wont take you for a ride and leave you stranded after sex.

    oh puleeze! Two days ago you were crying your eyes out! ... icon_rolleyes.gif

    Remember:

    I just dont know what i am doing with my life. I am 27. Working all the day in the morning, evenings before my laptop searching for a soulmate. I am not having fun. I am a totally committed guy. I cannot make work a relationship work not even a boyfriend to share my feelings. I am so heart broken and crying..........my eyes have gone dry..........i need love..............Dont know what to do with my life...................all my human sex feelings and passion are buried very deep. I have not had a passionate sex not even once(this feels hard when i am writing it) but this fire inside me is still burning enough to fear if i will go slut someday. I dont do one night stands/casual sex either.Just watching some porns and cooling me down every other day. My health is also getting spoiled.Fuck I cannot think about a girl either! I am planning to come out but I am so afraid about the gay life ahead! I will die if its only sex and no love for the rest of my life.

    i need hug

    venky





    Is this generation a bunch of emos?
  • Sk8Tex

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    Oct 06, 2010 3:06 PM GMT
    Just wait til your 21st birthday and go to a gay bar, you find the best things when your not actually looking for them.
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    Oct 06, 2010 3:09 PM GMT
    Caslon16000 said
    VenkyJock saidMate i totally understand what its like. i dont have a boyfriend too, but doesn't mean i won't get it at all! Just keep looking around and keep your eyes wide open.I do too and btw..older men i guess they wont take you for a ride and leave you stranded after sex.

    oh puleeze! Two days ago you were crying your eyes out! ... icon_rolleyes.gif

    Is this generation a bunch of emos?



    I think that many guys here posted on Venky's topic and gave him ...Tah-dah! ..a new and optimistic outlook. So on this topic we see evidence of it. It's all good. icon_wink.gif

    -Doug
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    Oct 06, 2010 3:09 PM GMT
    SanDiegoNewbie saidJust wait til your 21st birthday and go to a gay bar, you find the best things when your not actually looking for them.

    In a gay bar??? ... icon_eek.gif
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    Oct 06, 2010 3:12 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    Caslon16000 said
    VenkyJock saidMate i totally understand what its like. i dont have a boyfriend too, but doesn't mean i won't get it at all! Just keep looking around and keep your eyes wide open.I do too and btw..older men i guess they wont take you for a ride and leave you stranded after sex.

    oh puleeze! Two days ago you were crying your eyes out! ... icon_rolleyes.gif

    Is this generation a bunch of emos?



    I think that many guys here posted on Venky's topic and gave him ...Tah-dah! ..a new and optimistic outlook. So on this topic we see evidence of it. It's all good. icon_wink.gif

    -Doug

    Oh pfiffle! They're a bunch of sob-sisters attention whores.
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    Oct 06, 2010 6:04 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    Caslon16000 said
    VenkyJock saidMate i totally understand what its like. i dont have a boyfriend too, but doesn't mean i won't get it at all! Just keep looking around and keep your eyes wide open.I do too and btw..older men i guess they wont take you for a ride and leave you stranded after sex.

    oh puleeze! Two days ago you were crying your eyes out! ... icon_rolleyes.gif

    Is this generation a bunch of emos?



    I think that many guys here posted on Venky's topic and gave him ...Tah-dah! ..a new and optimistic outlook. So on this topic we see evidence of it. It's all good. icon_wink.gif

    -Doug


    Ha. you got iticon_smile.gif thanks for being there the other day dougicon_smile.gif
    Venky
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    Oct 06, 2010 6:05 PM GMT
    You're 20. You've hopefully got a long life in front of you. Calm down

  • Oct 07, 2010 1:21 AM GMT
    TheIStrat saidYou're 20. You've hopefully got a long life in front of you. Calm down

    i am calm geesh
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    Oct 12, 2010 1:46 AM GMT
    UnknownPleasures saidthey will never find the right guy or it will never work out? kinda giving up over here. due to me only attracted to older guys this fucking blows icon_sad.gif


    Ive been single for a year, and yes i feel lonely at times but i see it as time to build the person u are to have the one you want, and that means love you first, because if you dont, who will. Also stay positive, many people shy away from negativity.icon_idea.gificon_idea.gificon_idea.gificon_idea.gif
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    Oct 12, 2010 1:53 AM GMT
    Most guys suck. And when you do meet someone, it's still work. You are dealing with their past and your past! All you can do is jump in and hope for the best. There is no exact recipe for making things work icon_sad.gif. If not we'd all be happy and off with a mate. Sorry