Had to stop work for this! I am disturbed what do I do.. Str8 friend from work shocked the crap out of me.

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    Oct 06, 2010 3:24 PM GMT
    Hey guys,

    I need advice about this. I have posted about this guy before he just shocked. Mike and I from work have been friend from a while. We always had same interest in fitness and shared supplements etc. He is a good dude and we would text back and forth at work. The texting did get out of work and even late at night sometimes. He always bugs me to go to the gym with him or hang out. He specifically said. I want you to be my gym partner...icon_confused.gif and I have been skeptic because he is str8 and I am a lil heterophobic sometimes because I don't want them to feel like I am interested in them so I keep my distance unless we are close friends but we remained closed at work. I have met his girlfriends and all... So today here is what happened.:

    This girl at work started harassing me saying she wants to get with me and I started feeling uncomfortable about it because people are susceptible to believe women over men and I don't want her to go crazy and cos I told her no i don't date people at work to call hr and tell them that I started harrassing her, I have seen this done before, so I wanted to reach out to someone and keep track in case this becomes an issue. Him being my friend. So he says: " Is it because she a girl or because she is harrassing you? " I am like what the fukk dude? why would you say that now he says.. I have known your secret for 3 years and its cool with me!!!!

    I mean I am freaking shocked.!!! what do I do now? and why did he say that? I dont want him thinking that I want him or something. And now, I am assuming he wanted to say this before. but was looking for the opportunity.. This is a guy who compliments me all the time and I worry about sometimes about him liking boys himself- So I am just so shocked and taking a break to think this through. I need your advices guys..This is bothering me...icon_cry.gif




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    Oct 06, 2010 3:26 PM GMT
    Your buddy sounds like a cool guy and even a good friend.
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    Oct 06, 2010 3:31 PM GMT
    Relax.
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    Oct 06, 2010 3:32 PM GMT
    If he's known "Your Secret" for 3 years and still has been cool with you during this time, it's a win/win isn't it? Tell the girl to bark up another tree, hang out with your buddy, let him be your wing man and enjoy life ;-)....There are so many other pressing issues in life man. Enjoy your friend and be an advocate for serious pressing issues that need great people to bring solutions to them.
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    Oct 06, 2010 3:33 PM GMT
    Ok, so the gay community has been fighting for acceptance since forever, and now that someone says he accepts you for who you are, you are gonna get all knicker-twisted in anticipation that maybe someday, possibly, perhaps, it could happen, he might hit on you??? icon_eek.gif

    Chill, dude. Take your paranoia pill. Be happy he is a friend.

    Emos and attention whores, is that all there is in this generation? Can't any of you just function in life?

    Nice ass, btw.
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    Oct 06, 2010 3:47 PM GMT
    I'm shocked that your shocked...
    Nobody hides it as well as they think they do.

    Sounds like Mike just took your friendship to the next level...good on him.
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    Oct 06, 2010 4:01 PM GMT
    I am really heterophobic.. I need to work on that!! icon_sad.gif