Your IDEAL Guy.....

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    Oct 06, 2010 11:39 PM GMT
    So what would be your Ideal guy to be with if you could create him in a factory to your specifications?

    Here are the things to consider when thinking about this

    1. Age Range
    2. Height
    3. Weight
    4. Body Type
    5. Ethnic Preference (example:Brazilian, German, American etc)
    6. Personality
    7. Intelligence
    8. Family(his family)
    9. Education and Accomplishments
    10.Sexual Aspect


    Here is mine in the I listed above

    1. 30-42
    2. 5'10 - 6'3"
    3. 175 - 225
    4. Looks like he works out routinely but not ripped or serious muscles
    5. Irish and German Mix
    6. Easy to get along with but somewhat strong willed
    7. Smart enough to know what he is talking about and not try to seem like he knows everything in the world.
    8. Family that accepts him for who is and myself and love doing things as an entire family.
    9. At least a college degree and have a Career not a Job(yes there is a difference)
    10. Versatile (No debate)


    So what is your ideal guy!?


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    Oct 06, 2010 11:48 PM GMT
    1. Age Range: Legal +
    2. Height: I don't give a fuck.
    3. Weight: Proportional
    4. Body Type: Hot/defined2ripped
    5. Ethnic Preference (Brazilian, German, American etc): I don't give a fuck.
    6. Personality: I don't give a fuck.
    7. Intelligence: I don't give a fuck.
    8. Family(his family): I don't give a fuck.
    9. Education and Accomplishments: I don't give a fuck.
    10.Sexual Aspect: Yes.
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    Oct 06, 2010 11:51 PM GMT
    Paul, you need to lower your standards, you'll never find someone if you're that picky. icon_wink.gif
  • mizu5

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    Oct 06, 2010 11:53 PM GMT

    1. Age Range 23-40 (mostly)
    2. Height 5'5+
    3. Weight 160+ (160 if you are 5'5 lol)
    4. Body Type thick. as msuclar as I can get. beefy too. I even liek some chub icon_razz.gif
    5. Ethnic Preference (Brazilian, German, American etc) Ummm caucaisan, altin, middle eastern?
    6. Personality outgoing, and very easygoing.
    7. Intelligence just dont act stupid, unless its my dumb jock fantasy ngiht ; D
    8. Family(his family) dont care
    9. Education and Accomplishments at least university.
    10.Sexual Aspect vers bottom.
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    Oct 06, 2010 11:54 PM GMT
    KardioKing saidPaul, you need to lower your standards, you'll never find someone if you're that picky. icon_wink.gif
    I thought that's what every guy looked like.
    On Sobe. icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 07, 2010 12:08 AM GMT
    1. 25 to 48
    2. 5'8 to 6'6
    3.weight, proportioned
    4. Swimmers build toned. ( not into the professional body builder types)
    5.Ethnic Preference White,Brazilian, Latino
    6.Personality, laid back
    7.Intelligence, The basics but not a know it all
    8. Family, Out to his family, Good relationship with them. introduces me to the family
    9.. Education and Accomplishments: has a job capable of supporting himself.
    10. Sexual Aspect, Bottom
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    Oct 07, 2010 3:56 AM GMT
    1. 23-30
    2. 5'11-whatever
    3. that kind of depends on height. 190-225 i guess
    4. big but not defined.
    5. no preference.
    6. the kind of guy that teases/makes fun of you but while its pissing you off its really turning you on. if that makes any sense... kind of hard to describe. dominating, i guess.
    7. smart enough to take home to mom and dad without embarrassment..
    8. i don't care. my father will never accept me and will subsequently never know. if he has to live with the same kind of thing then i feel for him. other ppl accepting him have nothing to do with how ideal he is to me.
    9. i don't care. you never know what circumstances led them to have a crap job and as long as they contribute instead of mooching or keeping all their money to themselves cuz they're richer than you, you couldn't ask for more.
    10. top!

    all this perfect guy stuff is a little too daydreamy for me so i'm gonna add stuff about him that's not perfect so he resembles a real person.

    flaw: occasionally arrogant and immature

    what he's bad at in bed: won't give BJ's, is a somewhat selfish lover.

    something he does that annoys the hell out of me: he puts the coffee away in a different spot every time he uses it, so that when i need it in the morning i have to search the kitchen in a semi conscious state. also drinks all the milk without leaving me a splash for my coffee.

    one of my friends hates him, and it all started because: we were all drunk on new years or canada day or something and he spat on the piece of pizza she shotgunned cuz he wanted it more.

    as he gets older: he develops a bit of a beer belly. but i forgive him for it cuz at least he's warm and cuddly for watching movies.
  • dreamer121

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    Oct 07, 2010 4:18 AM GMT
    Disclaimer: This is what turns my head and seduces me, not always what steals my heart.


    1. 23-32 (it gets broader if I don't worry about the *'s in #icon_cool.gif
    2. 6'1-whatever (prefer taller than me)
    3. 190+
    4. Athletic/Muscular. Don't care about Six-pack, but do care about my ABC's (Arms, Bubble Butt, Chest)
    5. No Ethnic Preference, But I do tend to fall for guys that have blonde/brown hair and light eyes. But handsome is attraction, not a race.
    6. A "protector." I want the guy who's joyful and smiling, outgoing around close friends. A little shy sometimes is great. Polite. Inspiring. Trustworthy: I can be very go-go-go and assertive, sometimes too tense. I want the guy who can just engulf me in his arms and I let down all my walls. (basically tell me to 'calm the heck down')
    7. Smart enough to have a serious conversation... I really care more about their "drive" than their pure intelligence
    8. I would love a strong family, but if i can't pick my own family, i can't pick his.
    ****If we're talking about raising a family together... I have a life goal of either seeing the world, or raising a big family, if I can manage both, i'd die a very happy man... ****
    9. I don't care... I care that he has passion for life and has dreams he wants to pursue... A college degree is nice, but if he has worked hard in a trade, or like personal training, or whatever... more love for him.
    10. I'd love to find a really horny aggressive bottom, and a sensual romantic top all wrapped up into one guy.
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    Oct 07, 2010 4:19 AM GMT


    I just turned 39 4 weeks ago and I'm amazed how much more receptive I am now, compared to a few years ago. I don't wanna say I've lowered my standards or have settled but the importance just seems to be naive and not that big of a deal so much anymore....


    1. Age Range 35 and older
    2. Height 6 foot or taller
    3. Weight Beer belly's wrk on certain guys but HWP
    4. Body Type Footballer, Athletic
    5. Ethnic Preference (example:Brazilian, German, American etc) Don't care
    6. Personality Funny, sarcastic, witty, passionate, honest, kind
    7. Intelligence Doesn't have to have a Mensa membership but hold dwn a reasonable conversation. A mix of street smarts and book smarts
    8. Family(his family) Cohesive
    9. Education and Accomplishments Hmmm, secure job and happy w/ his career
    10.Sexual Aspect He Gotta Flip
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    Oct 07, 2010 4:25 AM GMT
    f*ck numbers! i just want a guy who makes me shiver icon_wink.gif
  • scorpiodncr

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    Oct 07, 2010 5:17 AM GMT
    1. Late 40's to early 50's...about 49 would be ideal, give or take about 5 years...but a good balance of maturity and being young at heart (OK, tip it just slightly toward young at heart).

    2. Somewhere between 5'10" and 6'.

    3. Hm, not certain I could be so specific on this, I'd estimate between 180 and 220, but it depends on the next question...

    4. I like solid and beefy, so ideally a mesomorph, leaning towards a well fit endomorph; but an ectomorph with good muscle tone and a little mass in the chest/shoulders/arms could work for me too. Six-pack optional, but no 'disco tits on chicken legs'.

    5. I try to be open minded, but I'm really much more into white guys than latinos/asians/blacks (but I wouldn't kick Jesse L Martin outta bed, either). Bonus points for being Scots/Irish (extra bonus points if he's actually from the UK/Ireland, or anywhere in Western Europe), red/blond, blue-eyed, and/or lightly hairy.

    6. Confident but relaxed. Able to express his thoughts and feelings with consideration for my own. Demonstrably affectionate but not floridly romantic. NOT clinically co-dependent or passive-agressive. A bit of style and good grooming wouldn't go amiss, but not a total Fashion-Fascist. Musical (not necessarily Classical) or at least a keen interest in the arts would be helpful.

    7. School smarts is great, but only if it's complemented with rich and varied life experience. A streetwise guy with an open, inquisitive, working mind would do, as well.

    8. If he's out to his family, and they're supportive, that would be good; I'm out and loyal but not suffocatingly close to my own family (despite their best efforts!).

    9. See 7, above, but bonus points if he's got a Bachelor's or Master's degree (as long as he's not a career academic, or at least not habitually pedantic), and extra bonus points if he works in a field related to his education. Actually, he could work as a retail store manager for all I care, as long as he's fairly happy and doesn't bring his work home with him all the time.

    10. Yes please...lots and varied, so versatility and a slightly-more-than-healthy sex drive is a must. We could occasionally be recreationally polyamorous (groups, FWB's), but still very much into being with each other. I'm not a size queen but...gimme something to work with! Bonus points for being uncut and multi-loaded/orgasmic (as long as I'm wishing).
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    Oct 07, 2010 5:38 AM GMT

    1. Age Range - 30 to 45
    2. Height - 180cm or taller
    3. Weight - 80kg or more (not overweight)
    4. Body Type - Truly ripped, swimmers body
    5. Ethnic Preference - Gypsy nomad, Latino, Balkan guy, Turkish, Middle Eastern, Chinese, Asian
    6. Personality - Extrovert, adventurer, open minded, smart
    7. Intelligence - Only above 100 IQ ( mine is 120 )
    8. Family(his family) - Don't care
    9. Education and Accomplishments -Intelligent nomad, PhD doesn't matter, life is the best university, experienced
    10.Sexual Aspect - Top, so we can "fight" who is going to bottomicon_smile.gif




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    Oct 07, 2010 6:26 AM GMT
    1. Age Range: 18 to 35
    2. Height: 1m70 to 1m90
    3. Weight: 60kg to 90 kg
    4. Body Type: athletic or slightly heavy
    5. Ethnic Preference: white (celtic-germanic)
    6. Personality: cool
    7. Intelligence: not important
    8. Family(his family): not important, I just hope hes close to them
    9. Education and Accomplishments: not important
    10.Sexual Aspect: very horny, long stamina, and up for anything
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    Oct 07, 2010 6:56 AM GMT
    1. 18-35
    2. 5'10"-6'4"
    3. 250lbs or less, but if it looks good on them, whatever.
    4. Anything from extremely fit, slim/slender to average.
    5. Intelligent American. Hahaha.
    6. Witty and lax, but not too lax. Nerdy but relate-able.
    7. Intelligence is a high value on my list. Keeps me intrigued.
    8. Hopefully not too many family issues, but I wouldn't ask me, I can't speak for much on that.
    9. Diploma and wanting much more.
    10. Very sexual. Not expecting sex much less than habitual...but actually wanting to sex because they want the other person to be in it with them.
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    Oct 07, 2010 7:11 AM GMT


    1. 21+
    2. 6'0 - 6'7
    3. 190 - 250
    4. In shape but not too ripped
    5. hmmm I really have no pref here
    6. Sweet guy who is comfortable being his nerdy self icon_smile.gif
    7. Moderate to exceptional intelligence
    8. Kind and 100% supportive of our relationship
    9. College education and at least a list of goals and a plan for achieving those goals
    10.Top

    Some of these things are not terribly important to me but hey.



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    Oct 07, 2010 7:56 AM GMT
    ShinyToyTrev said1. 18-35
    2. 5'10"-6'4"
    3. 250lbs or less, but if it looks good on them, whatever.
    4. Anything from extremely fit, slim/slender to average.
    5. Intelligent American. Hahaha.
    6. Witty and lax, but not too lax. Nerdy but relate-able.
    7. Intelligence is a high value on my list. Keeps me intrigued.
    8. Hopefully not too many family issues, but I wouldn't ask me, I can't speak for much on that.
    9. Diploma and wanting much more.
    10. Very sexual. Not expecting sex much less than habitual...but actually wanting to sex because they want the other person to be in it with them.


    WOOHOO I pass icon_razz.gif

    Especially nr ten ;)
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    Oct 07, 2010 8:03 AM GMT
    i hate these kinds of threads, it's very narrow minded and limiting especially on unimportant aspects, i prefer surprises
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    Oct 07, 2010 12:23 PM GMT
    PrinceOfArya saidi hate these kinds of threads, it's very narrow minded and limiting especially on unimportant aspects, i prefer surprises



    then don't comment icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 07, 2010 1:02 PM GMT
    PrinceOfArya saidi hate these kinds of threads, it's very narrow minded and limiting especially on unimportant aspects, i prefer surprises


    +1 Just wait for the next thread " Why is my ass still single?!" icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Oct 07, 2010 1:07 PM GMT
    Thank God I didn't have a list. I never would have met him.
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    Oct 07, 2010 1:27 PM GMT
    If I could meet an intelligent, well adjusted, comfortable in his own skin, nice-looking, sexy, good job, has in life in order to a large degree, faith-based, likes to cuddle and talk and kiss MAN, I'd be pretty damn happy!


    1. Within 5 years, up or down, of my current age, usually
    2. A bit shorter or taller than me; although I do prefer taller men
    3. Preferably not overweight or underweight
    4. I have a weakness for muscular/beefy men, but it's certainly not a requirement
    5. Prefer white/Caucasian men but it doesn't really matter
    6. Honest and easy to get along with who has a sense of humor but who can be serious when needed and who likes to express his emotions
    7. Is intelligent/learned with a sensible, street smart streak to him
    8. Warm and loving and caring family who loves and accepts him and his partner and family and friends
    9. Hopefully a college degree of some type; but having a degree doesn't make you a genius or mean that you don't have a good paying job. Also a general idea of what is happening in the world and the ability to discuss things intelligently and someone who has an opinion about things and doesn't follow 'convention' and the 'norm'
    10. Will be discussed in the appropriate time, place, and manner
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    Oct 07, 2010 1:32 PM GMT
    I'm not looking 'cos I'm happy with my man, but if I had to start from scratch and it was my ideal (which never exists) then I'd go for:

    1. Age Range

    30-35 (I'm 27)

    2. Height

    5'8-5'11 (I'm 6' and like to be 'the tall one')

    3. Weight

    Whatever, not important.

    4. Body Type

    Well-built, not too lean, hairy chest/stomach but not back! No below waist piercings, no facial piercings, not heavily tattooed.

    5. Ethnic Preference (example:Brazilian, German, American etc)

    Not sure German is an ethnicity! I suppose I have a preference for Caucasian.

    6. Personality

    Easy-going but focused and dedicated, fun and warm and giving, honest, respectful, kind, thoughtful, calm.

    7. Intelligence

    Not quite as intelligent as me but very close to it, and clever in different ways to me so that we complement each other.

    8. Family(his family)

    Similar to mine.

    9. Education and Accomplishments

    Preferably educated to at least 18 but as long as they are solvent and have some qualifications that's fine.

    10.Sexual Aspect

    Vers bottom, little bit kinky/dirty but not too much, likes to have fun and experiment, similar sex drive to mine.
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    Oct 07, 2010 1:34 PM GMT
    Genuine, honest, friendly, sexy, mature, and a black-belt cuddler...
    the rest is fluff.
  • BronxvilleNY3...

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    Oct 07, 2010 2:15 PM GMT
    VERY intelligent.
    Honest
    Decent shape
    Healthy
  • mizu5

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    Oct 07, 2010 9:04 PM GMT
    Ahaha cmon someone has to be into shorties like me! icon_razz.gif