Fake guys here

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    Oct 07, 2010 1:38 AM GMT
    Alright so I'm mainly writing this because I just experienced this and I find it frustrating that someone would try to take advantage of me because that is one of my biggest pet peeves.

    So a few weeks back I had emailed this guy on here, simply being polite etc... we exchanged a few emails butt then fell out of touch. Just a few days ago he emailed me asking what I was doing for the holidays and we exchanged short emails where he tried to make himself look smart and witty but it came off douchey, but I excused him and gave him the benefit of the doubt. We then exchanged numbers and started talking but I started to notice the last coupe days that things did not add up with his stories and being blunt, I called him on it which he did not like. Iwas then told i was ridiculous and basically stupid because hee had assumed that I wanted a relationship with him (all his assumptions) and when I politely declined and said no, he was juust a friend type, he then put words in my mouth saying I wanted a relationship, I was fake (?), and again I was ridiculous... So I told him to never speak to me again.
    Sorry needed to vent. Nothing irritates me more than ppl putting words in my mouth and thinking I want something more from them when I don't.

    So cheers to all the real, and good guys on here... I wish you nothing but good fortune in your pursuit of happiness in life. I really think a lot of you are great. I'm writing this on my droid in the gym locker room I'm so frustrated so I guess a good wprkout is calling my name icon_smile.gif
    Rob
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    Oct 07, 2010 1:43 AM GMT
    Rob, careful about exchanging personal info with people on the net...We sometimes think because we have this little club here that it is safe. Yes, some guys have formed friendships past RJ but that is not always the case. Get to know them and be sure about them.....douchebags are douchebags.........it's that simple......Keithicon_cool.gif
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    Oct 07, 2010 1:49 AM GMT
    Keith I wish there was a like button for your posts icon_smile.gif I've met some bomb ppl on here but it was my gut that told me something wasn't right.

    Error in judgment and now I've lived and learned icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 07, 2010 3:21 AM GMT
    Communicate with people who are verified only. That solves the problem almost all the time.

    Out of curiosity, was this guy really hot? It seems that they're always the fake ones. But, people keep talking with them because they're hot and let things slide they normally wouldn't.
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    Oct 07, 2010 3:40 AM GMT
    halltd saidCommunicate with people who are verified only. That solves the problem almost all the time.

    Out of curiosity, was this guy really hot? It seems that they're always the fake ones. But, people keep talking with them because they're hot and let things slide they normally wouldn't.



    Just because you're verified doesn't mean you haven't been handed a PSYCHO membership card. Communication is key as it will always weed out losers verified or not. If you choose to communicate based on lks alone and perhaps not by reading someones profile to see some depth..... enough saidicon_rolleyes.gif
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    Oct 07, 2010 3:53 AM GMT
    Seriously,
    I'm pretty sure there is a guy on here that is a professor in the department next to mine on campus. However, he has pictures up that are different.

    Creepy
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    Oct 07, 2010 4:14 AM GMT
    Could someone think im not real because im not verified?
    I feel like my profile seems real even without the verified thing
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    Oct 07, 2010 4:25 AM GMT
    snowboarder saidCould someone think im not real because im not verified?
    I feel like my profile seems real even without the verified thing


    Yes. but what is even more absurd is the thought that being verified offers some sort of authenticity other than a face pic. Ppl can choose to be whoever they want to be online. If you wanna be a dick or a saint how you present yourself has nothing to do w/ verification.
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    Oct 07, 2010 4:43 AM GMT
    halltd said

    Out of curiosity, was this guy really hot? It seems that they're always the fake ones. ...


    Whew! Well that is real good news for me, now people can easily see that I am not fake. icon_smile.gif