Looking for a hot muscle guy to date

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    Oct 08, 2010 2:05 PM GMT
    i like what i like some say I'm shallow ,but in my opinion 50 percent of a relationship is physical attraction. niw you cant just be hot you also have to have substance I need someone I can talk to ,and someone who will just hold me at night.... Please only serious guys
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    Oct 08, 2010 2:17 PM GMT
    iconjordan saidLooking for a hot muscle guy to date
    Join the crowd.
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    Oct 08, 2010 2:21 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    iconjordan saidLooking for a hot muscle guy to date
    Join the crowd.


    It seems like all the good ones are tken or straight lol
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    Oct 08, 2010 2:24 PM GMT
    iconjordan said
    paulflexes said
    iconjordan saidLooking for a hot muscle guy to date
    Join the crowd.


    It seems like all the good ones are tken or straight lol


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    Oct 08, 2010 2:34 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    iconjordan saidi like what i like some say I'm shallow ,but in my opinion 50 percent of a relationship is physical attraction. niw you cant just be hot you also have to have substance I need someone I can talk to ,and someone who will just hold me at night.... Please only serious guys


    And what do YOU bring to the table iconjordan?


    Well alot i am very mature guy for my age. I am very sweet ,and intelligent love to have fun with a guy in ,and outside the bedroom. I'm really easy to talk to ,and will be there to listen.

    I'm an artist currently in school i want to be an art teacher. i'm abit of a nerd ,but very active ,and social. so any morwe questions handsome?
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    Oct 08, 2010 2:51 PM GMT
    You live in Cinncinnati, for Christ's sake. Give it up. Resign yourself to a life of miserable solitude.
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    Oct 08, 2010 2:56 PM GMT
    Caslon16000 saidYou live in Cinncinnati, for Christ's sake. Give it up. Resign yourself to a life of miserable solitude.
    I mknow cincinnati really sucks ughh need to get out of here
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    Oct 08, 2010 3:25 PM GMT
    who here is NOT looking for this type of guy? icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 08, 2010 4:07 PM GMT
    Caslon16000 saidYou live in Cinncinnati, for Christ's sake. Give it up. Resign yourself to a life of miserable solitude.


    Always a kind word

    LOL
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    Oct 08, 2010 4:11 PM GMT
    beneful1 said
    Caslon16000 saidYou live in Cinncinnati, for Christ's sake. Give it up. Resign yourself to a life of miserable solitude.


    Always a kind word

    LOL

    It's kinder than stringing the poor kid along. Giving him hope...knowing all along it's going to be crushed and ground to dust...now that's cruel! icon_wink.gif

    Hey, I didn't rub it in with lousy weather and massive urban pollution. I get no credit! *sigh* You just can't be nice on here. Sheesh. icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 08, 2010 5:39 PM GMT
    This site has more than a handful of what you seek...take ur pick
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    Oct 08, 2010 6:16 PM GMT
    beneful1 said
    Caslon16000 saidYou live in Cinncinnati, for Christ's sake. Give it up. Resign yourself to a life of miserable solitude.


    Always a kind word

    LOL


    he spreads joy from the richness of his inner life.
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    Oct 08, 2010 6:22 PM GMT
    iconjordan said
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    iconjordan saidi like what i like some say I'm shallow ,but in my opinion 50 percent of a relationship is physical attraction. niw you cant just be hot you also have to have substance I need someone I can talk to ,and someone who will just hold me at night.... Please only serious guys


    And what do YOU bring to the table iconjordan?


    Well alot i am very mature guy for my age. I am very sweet ,and intelligent love to have fun with a guy in ,and outside the bedroom. I'm really easy to talk to ,and will be there to listen.

    I'm an artist currently in school i want to be an art teacher. i'm abit of a nerd ,but very active ,and social. so any morwe questions handsome?


    that's 50% of you. Since you brought the topic of physical attraction, where is the other 50% i.e. your muscles and looks and all those other superficial but very enticing factors ?

    don't take this seriously, teasing you mainly :p
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    Oct 08, 2010 6:25 PM GMT
    What does he bring to the table? He's 19 with a pulse and internet access. (Says this creepy middle aged dude.)
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    Oct 09, 2010 5:24 PM GMT
    Caslon16000 saidYou live in Cinncinnati, for Christ's sake. Give it up. Resign yourself to a life of miserable solitude.


    Now now, Cincinnati isn't all that bad. You just have to know Cincinnati beyond its obvious traits.
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    Oct 09, 2010 5:30 PM GMT
    iconjordan saidi like what i like some say I'm shallow ,but in my opinion 50 percent of a relationship is physical attraction. niw you cant just be hot you also have to have substance I need someone I can talk to ,and someone who will just hold me at night.... Please only serious guys


    Yeah, it might sound shallow... But at least you're honest. We all want a hot muscle dude, but that ain't happening!
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    Oct 09, 2010 5:32 PM GMT
    Gotta be what you wanna attract...if you are not beefy... Chances are that they are interested in the same thing you are.
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    Oct 09, 2010 5:36 PM GMT
    iconjordan saidWell alot i am very mature guy for my age. I am very sweet ,and intelligent love to have fun with a guy in ,and outside the bedroom. I'm really easy to talk to ,and will be there to listen.

    I'm an artist currently in school i want to be an art teacher. i'm abit of a nerd ,but very active ,and social. so any morwe questions handsome?


    Wouldn't it be fair if this muscular guy you want rejected you for the same reason you want him? Why would you not expect him to want another muscular guy like himself?
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    Oct 09, 2010 5:44 PM GMT
    bachian said
    iconjordan saidWell alot i am very mature guy for my age. I am very sweet ,and intelligent love to have fun with a guy in ,and outside the bedroom. I'm really easy to talk to ,and will be there to listen.

    I'm an artist currently in school i want to be an art teacher. i'm abit of a nerd ,but very active ,and social. so any morwe questions handsome?


    Wouldn't it be fair if this muscular guy you want rejected you for the same reason you want him? Why would you not expect him to want another muscular guy like himself?


    Exactly. Its one of the many reasons I work out...mainly for self-development and stress relief. Gotta be willing to figure out what it takes to get what you want.
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    Oct 09, 2010 5:57 PM GMT
    Another winey-ass skinny guy thinking that because he wants it he'll get it. Most muscle heads I know are attracted to folks like them, but, of course, there's always an exception.

    It's pretty pathetic how the skinny, soft spoken, wheeny guys, somehow feel they get the wrong end of The World, when they're rejected even if ever so eloquently.

    Remember, if big, strong, gay, muscle guys wanted to date a girl, they would.

    Most well-adjusted folks are looking for other well adjusted folks with similar interests / passions / abilities and not adoration.

    Now, as I said, there are exceptions with folks who go after fat folks, smokers, amputees, terminally ill, etc., but, you shouldn't bank on those exceptions being productive.

    I'm so sick of the the "I think you're hot, so therefore you should date me and like me, and treat me like the girl that I am, and, if you don't I'm going to say that you're unreasonable and hateful and mean and judgmental and selfish." Life just isn't that way. Get a clue.

    What on earth would make you think that a muscle head wouldn't want another muscle head?

    It's o.k. to dream, and it's o.k. to get into something dysfunctional if you understand it for what it is, but, those muscle heads have a level of physical attraction, and, most days, it's not to tiny, skinny, insecure, guys who aren't athletes. That's the facts of life. Now, as I said, there's an occasional needy muscle head, but, that's dysfunctional, and doomed to failure. bachian, and agri-sci understand this and you should, too.
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    Oct 09, 2010 6:13 PM GMT
    iconjordan saidi like what i like some say I'm shallow ,but in my opinion 50 percent of a relationship is physical attraction. niw you cant just be hot you also have to have substance I need someone I can talk to ,and someone who will just hold me at night.... Please only serious guys


    I don't mean to be harsh, but you are looking for someone of 'substance'? I assume you mean intelligence. You need to learn to better present yourself. Look at this and your other posts in this thread. We are all sometimes guilty of typos, but every one of your posts is filled with typos, misplaced or missing punctuation, spelling errors, and incorrect capitalization. You say you want to be a teacher and that frightens me.
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    Oct 09, 2010 6:16 PM GMT
    Lack of ambition; lack of attention to detail; I, I , I, me, me, me; unrealistic expectations; no plan for change; functionally illiterate. It's always fun to see how much you can learn about someone just by casual observation.

    No profile completed; no exercise; trolling a jock site. No rule against it, but, certainly not a plan for success, and very telling.
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    Oct 09, 2010 6:21 PM GMT
    iconjordan saidi like what i like some say I'm shallow ,but in my opinion 50 percent of a relationship is physical attraction. niw you cant just be hot you also have to have substance I need someone I can talk to ,and someone who will just hold me at night.... Please only serious guys


    50% relationship is attraction?
    So half of what makes a relationship is what you can gain from it.
    Is that what you are saying?
    So 'Love' is a matter of gain?
    Love is pleasure? or is Pleasure a result of love?

    See, this is exactly one reason why most relationships fail. We never investigate what is a Real Relationship. We all have this idea that relationship is something from which to gain. Attain pleasure, sex, security and so on. So is love merely a matter of gain?

    Or, the man that investigates what a relationship is - sees intelligently the right place for 'preferences'. Does not expect anything but going into a Right Relationship - 'gains' without seeking.
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    Oct 09, 2010 6:39 PM GMT
    rnch saidwho here is NOT looking for this type of guy? icon_wink.gif


    I'm not looking for a very muscular guy, I prefer slim and thin athletic builds: swimmer, cyclist, runner, etc. Not into the big muscular builds.

    Of course it's the person's personality and attitude that matters most, but i want to be attracted to them also. Big heart and great personality combined with physical attraction=hot
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    Oct 09, 2010 6:57 PM GMT
    Maybe you should try Manhunt or Adam4Adam icon_rolleyes.gif





    or Craigslist