Whay do some guys think its better to not replay to message then to write somthing like saying thay are not interested or somthing.

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    Oct 08, 2010 6:04 PM GMT
    I haw answerd to any guy who has send me a message ewen if i am not interested.
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    Oct 08, 2010 6:08 PM GMT
    I know, its just being polite right?
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    Oct 08, 2010 6:12 PM GMT
    Get used to the fact that the norm is just not replying. Sometimes you get nasty answers from people when you send an uninterested reply and many people can´t be bothered to invite that into their lives. Absofuckinglutely nothing to do with "being classy".
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    Oct 08, 2010 6:12 PM GMT
    Yes my friend we could be that polite at least here.
    What is wrong with people when some guy says hi on the street you say hi.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 08, 2010 6:15 PM GMT
    No. Not always. You have a choice: you can get upset because some people don´t reply or you can just accept it.
  • Nizzo

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    Oct 08, 2010 6:37 PM GMT
    I always tell someone when I'm not interested. I think its just polite.

    It stings when you're rejected but it happens. On to the next one, haha.
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    Oct 08, 2010 7:24 PM GMT
    Any replay is better than nothing.
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    Oct 08, 2010 10:34 PM GMT
    I always reply, at least initially. It's a sign of strong character.
  • jgymnast733

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    Oct 08, 2010 11:33 PM GMT
    Some people are brought up
    and
    some people are dragged up...
    Which catagory was your rearingicon_question.gif
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    Oct 09, 2010 12:25 AM GMT
    Because if you reply in any form that's not a flat out rejection, the fuckers keep emailing you back. So you end up in a penpal situation that you dont want.

    And if you tell them your not interested, you get a nasty flaming reply and they bitch on the threads that you rejected them for whatever reason. Especially if you are Caslon.

    It's better to just let them wait til they realize that you arent responding. Hopefully, by then they will have gotten over you and started emailing somebody else.

    I think it is rather cheeky to think that an email from you obligates anyone to respond. Rather you should feel complimented if you get a response, but not all knicker-twisted if you don't. It's just like if someone knocks on your door or calls you on the phone. You are not obligated to answer either.

    And I'll bet that if we ran this electronic epistles past the proverbial Emily Post, she would shit bricks.

    If you're gonna get so totally pissified if you dont get a response, dont write in the first place.
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    Oct 09, 2010 1:12 AM GMT
    I always reply but it has come back to bite me in the ass. Iv been called names verbally attacked just because I told someone I wasn't interested. I personally would rather get an email back saying not interested than no response at all. maybe it varies with city but in my experience most of the guys in Atlanta won't bother responding if not interested.. so much for southern hospitality
  • Nizzo

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    Oct 09, 2010 1:18 AM GMT
    I've been cursed out before as well. It's always the gym rats with the biggest egos. Like, I'm suppose to drop everything to go suck you off because you have a six pack or what not, shit.

    Also, I love how older men thank me for replying back when I'm not interested.
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    Oct 09, 2010 1:23 AM GMT
    I could get cursed out every time and I would still respond back. Most don't say anything if I say not interested. But you get those that go off the deep end call you every name in the book. I normally won't contact anyone under 30. If someone in their 20's ask me out i'll sometimes go but i let them approach me.
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    Oct 09, 2010 2:21 AM GMT
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    Oct 09, 2010 2:24 AM GMT
    It's like sometimes u get so many messages u cant even keep up Photobucket


    so dont get ur feeling hurt if u dont get a msg sent back to u. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Oct 09, 2010 2:38 AM GMT
    I always reply "As if!"
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    Oct 09, 2010 2:47 AM GMT
    The only ones I don't reply to are the ones who are blatantly trying to stalk me.
    And even then, sometimes I just reply with my paysite URL and tell them to STFU and join/pay if they wanna see more of me. icon_lol.gif