Do you get a lot of attention from guys and girls?

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    Oct 09, 2010 12:15 AM GMT
    I read on the internet that apparently good looking people tend to be more successful...it even said that teachers tend to more pay attention to better looking people. I personally think this is a bit of bullshit. What do you think?

    Also do you think you get quite a lot of attention from people because of your looks? What does it feel like to be hot?

  • Midas426

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    Oct 09, 2010 12:18 AM GMT
    I wouldn't know how being hot feels.....but yeah even 20/20 did some story years back that said more attractive people made more money and would more likely receive attention if in distress.

    I know myself I allowed myself to listen to the spiel of this hunky guy at one of local malls who was trying to sell gym memberships. If it were someone less hot, I probably would've said 'I had no time' and kept walking.
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    Oct 09, 2010 12:22 AM GMT
    Can insanely hot people ever not know that they are? Would they not walk into the room and the whole room drools lol?

    Or is this notion totally blown out of proportion?
  • Midas426

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    Oct 09, 2010 12:29 AM GMT
    Gbob saidCan insanely hot people ever not know that they are? Would they not walk into the room and the whole room drools lol?

    Or is this notion totally blown out of proportion?
    Actually my best friend is a college professor and he's told me there are some very hot guys that because of economic circumstances (i.e. not growing up with many advantages) are socially awkward as young adults even though on the outside they are very attractive. But they may not be wearing nice clothes or drive a nice car....so they don't feel they're attractive.

    They would probably be oblivious to folks drooling around them or refuse to believe they're drooling for them.

    But most of those sexy MF's know they're hot as hell and take full advantage.
  • mizu5

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    Oct 09, 2010 12:41 AM GMT
    Hrm. I know that i've been hired simply for how i look, whether or not that Is good.

    I also know that all girls think I'm the ideal gay man, it would be lovely if gay men felt the same way! Ahaha

    I definitely know that my gay TA gave me better marks than i deserved in my english lit class.
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    Oct 09, 2010 12:42 AM GMT
    What's an MF?

    There was this really good looking guy in my year but he never really spoke much. I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but we all know when a guy is 'hot' (even if they're not our type) - this guy was, but not many people ever talked about him.

    Do you think part of being 'hot' is having that personality to go with it?
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    Oct 09, 2010 12:43 AM GMT
    mizu5 saidHrm. I know that i've been hired simply for how i look, whether or not that Is good.

    I also know that all girls think I'm the ideal gay man, it would be lovely if gay men felt the same way! Ahaha

    I definitely know that my gay TA gave me better marks than i deserved in my english lit class.


    What job have you got? Are you a model?

    lol about your TA!
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    Oct 09, 2010 12:48 AM GMT
    If you don't have personality you may as well just go sit in a corner. No one will care about you. I have been told in my life that I am hot.

    Do I have personality? No. I do, but no one gets to see it. I have serious issues with Obsessive compulsive disorder, depression, and a lousy history to boot. I am probably one of those guys that your professor mentioned. I had a really lonely and miserable adolescence...didn't fit anywhere and got bullied - but not for being gay..just for being awkward and shy.
    I struggle constantly, don't have much fun in life, infact I am suicidal often, and don't have many friends. People will give me attention until they realize that I am unavailable; in almost every single way. People don't like associating with you once they find out things like that.

    Life isn't easy for me at all because of how I look. I really don't even think I am "hot", but that's what I've been told by others.
  • Midas426

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    Oct 09, 2010 12:53 AM GMT
    Gbob saidWhat's an MF?

    There was this really good looking guy in my year but he never really spoke much. I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but we all know when a guy is 'hot' (even if they're not our type) - this guy was, but not many people ever talked about him.

    Do you think part of being 'hot' is having that personality to go with it?




    Personality does have a part in hotness but mostly once you get past the physical beauty and actually converse with that person.
  • jgymnast733

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    Oct 09, 2010 2:47 AM GMT
    I consider myself attractive inside and out but people only see the physical until they look deeper..Being attractive HAS opened doors 4sure... I recieve lots of attention from males and females, Str8 guys too now more than ever with more than just checkers on their minds....trust me...icon_cool.gif
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    Oct 09, 2010 3:39 AM GMT
    Gbob saidWhat does it feel like to be hot?
    Come feel for yourself. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 09, 2010 3:41 AM GMT
    I have light blue eyes. I get attention from pretty much anyone.
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    Oct 09, 2010 3:42 AM GMT
    Midas426 said...but yeah even 20/20 did some story years back that said more attractive people made more money and would more likely receive attention if in distress.
    That is SO fucking true.
    Example: News shows an "average-looking" person being attacked, and the viewers don't give a fuck. Same scenario with a mainstream "attractive" person (male or female) and viewers show all sorts of sympathy.
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    Oct 09, 2010 3:42 AM GMT
    Im tall and attractive and have financial success in my career, Im also intelligent, this could be based on better schooling and attention from teachers b/c I was a cute kid, so looks may impact more than we think, today attention is much moreso from women..... my favorite moment, when my assistant drunk texted me to come "fuck her in the ass", my mormon sis-in-law grabbed my phone off the counter and read it before I could. icon_eek.gif
  • alphatop

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    Oct 09, 2010 4:33 AM GMT
    Yeah, I get a lot of attention wherever I go. I am very tall, and therefore, like it or not, I draw attention of both guys and girls. I like to flirt, though, so I don't mind people looking at me, just sometimes, I wish that somebody see me for who I really am...
  • blkdevil66

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    Oct 09, 2010 7:11 AM GMT
    You mean all this time I thought it was my charm, sparkling personality and clever wit? It's this FACE?
  • HOTWEILLER

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    Oct 09, 2010 7:53 AM GMT
    Nobody likes me :-(
  • alphatop

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    Oct 09, 2010 7:59 AM GMT
    WRESTLINGGUY saidNobody likes me :-(


    I like uicon_smile.gif
    http://www.wrestleandfuck.com/indexFZ.php?inc=videos
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    Oct 09, 2010 8:05 AM GMT
    Guys not as much, in fact I find I scare gay guys off more than I attract em

    Girls yes

    Straight guys I dunno, but they seem to just like me, prolly not for my looks though

    And its true, that Ive had slightly more lenient treatment from some female bosses, but I think its also because of my open and friendly personality

    With male bosses, my straight ones are always awesome with me

    I think my male GAY bosses sometimes were not as nice to me because of my looks
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    Oct 09, 2010 8:08 AM GMT
    WRESTLINGGUY saidNobody likes me :-(


    Im nobody then???? , what the hell is wrong with you, how can you call me a nobody?? icon_razz.gif

    *hug and squeezes*
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    Oct 09, 2010 8:08 AM GMT
    breakers saidI have light blue eyes. I get attention from pretty much anyone.
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    *gulp* icon_eek.gif
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    Oct 09, 2010 8:11 AM GMT
    hahahahahahahahaaaaaaaa.........hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahicon_biggrin.gif
    attention? whats that?
  • HOTWEILLER

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    Oct 09, 2010 8:23 AM GMT
    Okay! antonomad and amar_m like me.
    So now i can die happy. Two nice guys like me.
    Suck that bitch!
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    Oct 09, 2010 8:24 AM GMT
    Yeah for sure. Good looking people get more attention which means more opportunities and that makes it easier to be successful.
    I know I tend to listen to the cute sales guys until they're done with their spiels.
    And then I say, awww sorry it's not for me because blah, blah... lol
    Instead of just "No thanks". icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 09, 2010 10:02 AM GMT
    i guess it workes for me. most girls find me attractive and try to make friends. so do gays. but about straight guys... no idea how they feel, they alwasy look so mysterious. (maybe they are not straight?) lol icon_biggrin.gif