Conversing with guys over chat... I think I seem a bit boring...

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    Oct 09, 2010 3:23 AM GMT
    Whether he or I start the conversation, it usually ends up falling flat 99% of the time. People seem to be far more interested in me once I reach a point where I'm comfortable giving out my number... But it seems like most of the time the conversation just DIES.

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    Oct 09, 2010 4:02 AM GMT
    Unless you're chatting to A) Get Off or B) Actually wanting to get involved in some way, a lot of chats will die.

    The depth of a person can't really register unless they're truly genuinely interested in you... in which most guys (assuming that's what you mean) just really aren't. So many IM's I've gotten just about fucking and stuff and it dies off...why? Because that's all we have in common for that point in time... and even then, if it's an unwelcomed conversation where it strikes an awkward point, it usually just cuts it off entirely.

    My best advice? Just keep typing or trying. Don't wear yourself thin, if you feel you're on a fail kick where all you keep finding is the wrong kind... just stop for then and continue at a later point.
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    Oct 09, 2010 4:19 AM GMT
    I wouldn't worry about it, sometimes the chemistry isn't there. Remember there's another person involved in your chat, so don't blame only yourself for the lack of conversation.

    I know I tend to edit what I want to say when chatting, and it's difficult to carry a conversation with type than it is in person.
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    Oct 09, 2010 9:23 AM GMT
    I must be the 1% who actually wants to chat for the sake of having a chat.
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    Oct 09, 2010 9:24 AM GMT
    Your title made me go "awwwww" icon_smile.gif