How to lose youre virginity..

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    Oct 09, 2010 4:19 AM GMT
    im a 24 year old virgin in every sense of the way.... any advice?
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    Oct 09, 2010 5:30 AM GMT
    dude just find somebody and go for it...go on adam...grindr...wherever...it's not that hard to meet someone. first time is usually somewhat akward and it gets so much better after that
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    Oct 09, 2010 8:54 AM GMT
    sanddunes saiddude just find somebody and go for it...go on adam...grindr...wherever...it's not that hard to meet someone. first time is usually somewhat akward and it gets so much better after that


    Those sites don't help much if you want to do it meaningfully. I understand what the OP is facing, but there really aren't any quick solutions to it. You just have to meet a lot of people and somewhere along the way hopefully find someone compatible. Much better than hot, meaningless sex, I hope?
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    Oct 09, 2010 10:15 AM GMT
    it's all about finding the right guy. don't do anything stupid to regret it later. you can't just go out and have sex with strangers.
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    Oct 09, 2010 12:04 PM GMT
    Marcobthm saidHow to lose youre virginity..
    Hire a prostitute. That way when you get with your first guy, he won't have to show you everything.
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    Dec 16, 2010 9:11 PM GMT
    stay that way for a long time. BELIEVE ME.
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    Dec 16, 2010 9:33 PM GMT
    My advice...see your virginity as this special thing you want to share with someone who truly cares for you....Don't view it as a causal right of passage...You'll end up hurt and regret everything...BUD
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    Dec 16, 2010 9:39 PM GMT
    i kind of disagree with the whole "waiting for the right guy" business... I mean, I was waiting and waiting and finally when I was really drunk when I was 25 I was approached by a guy and it just happened... all the waiting made it into some intoxicated, not very fun experience... I would recommend you dont wait for the "right" guy, just try and meet ppl, even online, that you feel good enough about to do it with...

    Prostitutes are actually what most {straight} guys on the island lose it to... to get some experience before they sleep with their girlfriends, so as not to disappoint those "special" ones you see.. so I wouldnt worry too much about the first time being "special"... even better (in our culture) if you have some experience so when you're with someone special you know what you're doing
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    Dec 16, 2010 10:02 PM GMT
    amar_m saidi kind of disagree with the whole "waiting for the right guy" business... I mean, I was waiting and waiting and finally when I was really drunk when I was 25 I was approached by a guy and it just happened... all the waiting made it into some intoxicated, not very fun experience... I would recommend you dont wait for the "right" guy, just try and meet ppl, even online, that you feel good enough about to do it with...

    Prostitutes are actually what most {straight} guys on the island lose it to... to get some experience before they sleep with their girlfriends, so as not to disappoint those "special" ones you see.. so I wouldnt worry too much about the first time being "special"... even better (in our culture) if you have some experience so when you're with someone special you know what you're doing


    Someone had a sip of hate juice, just because you waited and waited then ELECTED to get humped and dumped by some bar guy...
    doesn't give you the right to take away someone else joy.
    I waited and lost my virginity with my then BF.
    I'm glad that I was in a relationship, because that's what I wanted.
    I never wanted it to be a hookup for the first time or something that I'd regret forever. I'm glad that it wasn't like, oh, let's say...your situation, drunk and desperate.

    have another drink!


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    Dec 16, 2010 10:06 PM GMT
    It's *your* btw lol icon_wink.gif

    I'm sort of still a virgin myself, although I'm only 19. No need to rush things...it's not like you're a 40 year old virgin...
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    Dec 16, 2010 10:12 PM GMT
    Craigslist, a bathhouse, adult bookstore, prison... all are wonderful ways to provide a romantic meaningful experience that will result in the loss of your virginity.
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    Dec 16, 2010 10:23 PM GMT
    KardioKing saidCraigslist, a bathhouse, adult bookstore, prison... all are wonderful ways to provide a romantic meaningful experience that will result in the loss of your virginity.


    Sounds like *somebody* is speaking from experience icon_razz.gif
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    Dec 16, 2010 10:30 PM GMT
    Tazo995 said
    KardioKing saidCraigslist, a bathhouse, adult bookstore, prison... all are wonderful ways to provide a romantic meaningful experience that will result in the loss of your virginity.


    Sounds like *somebody* is speaking from experience icon_razz.gif


    And I assumed he was being sarcastic an or condescending.
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    Dec 16, 2010 11:01 PM GMT
    iLover said
    Tazo995 said
    KardioKing saidCraigslist, a bathhouse, adult bookstore, prison... all are wonderful ways to provide a romantic meaningful experience that will result in the loss of your virginity.


    Sounds like *somebody* is speaking from experience icon_razz.gif


    And I assumed he was being sarcastic an or condescending.
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    Haha, Nah to both of you! I was just messing around. Guess I should of added an emoticon for clarification. icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 16, 2010 11:18 PM GMT
    mybud saidMy advice...see your virginity as this special thing you want to share with someone who truly cares for you....Don't view it as a causal right of passage...You'll end up hurt and regret everything...BUD


    This is the right answer.

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    Dec 16, 2010 11:40 PM GMT
    KardioKing said
    iLover said
    Tazo995 said
    KardioKing saidCraigslist, a bathhouse, adult bookstore, prison... all are wonderful ways to provide a romantic meaningful experience that will result in the loss of your virginity.


    Sounds like *somebody* is speaking from experience icon_razz.gif


    And I assumed he was being sarcastic an or condescending.
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    Haha, Nah to both of you! I was just messing around. Guess I should of added an emoticon for clarification. icon_lol.gif


    yea right.. so have you done either of, or all the above?
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    Dec 16, 2010 11:43 PM GMT
    iLover said
    KardioKing said
    iLover said
    Tazo995 said
    KardioKing saidCraigslist, a bathhouse, adult bookstore, prison... all are wonderful ways to provide a romantic meaningful experience that will result in the loss of your virginity.


    Sounds like *somebody* is speaking from experience icon_razz.gif


    And I assumed he was being sarcastic an or condescending.
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    Haha, Nah to both of you! I was just messing around. Guess I should of added an emoticon for clarification. icon_lol.gif


    yea right.. so have you done either of, or all the above?


    I'm going to assume you're joking around as well. icon_razz.gif
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    Dec 17, 2010 12:03 AM GMT
    Don't let anyone pop your cherry. Stay celebate like a monk. You'll regret ever having the mind blowing orgasm that nailing a hot stud will cause or having the cum fucked out of you by some monster hung hoss. Not worth it!
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    Dec 17, 2010 12:05 AM GMT
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    mybud saidMy advice...see your virginity as this special thing you want to share with someone who truly cares for you....Don't view it as a causal right of passage...You'll end up hurt and regret everything...BUD


    This is the right answer.



    There is no right answer to this, it is decided on a case by case basis with the person who has their virginity.

    I, for one, "wasted" it on some random guy. When I meet someone special, I want to know what Im doing, not be clueless in the sack. It means something different to different people.
  • DarkSensation

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    Dec 17, 2010 12:12 AM GMT

    Have an older man like 13 older you to pop your cherry. Older guys are more Gentle and Toughtful
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    Dec 17, 2010 12:23 AM GMT
    It's your* not you're*

    I guess that's why you deleted your account- the shame would have destroyed me as well. icon_cry.gif
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    Dec 17, 2010 12:35 AM GMT
    A1EX saidIt's your* not you're*

    I guess that's why you deleted your account- the shame would have destroyed me as well. icon_cry.gif



    I will give him credit for correctly using "lose" instead of "loose". That seems to be a common mistake in Real Jock forums.
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    Dec 17, 2010 12:37 AM GMT
    You shouldn't want to lose it, you should want to give it.
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    Dec 17, 2010 12:47 AM GMT
    KardioKing saidCraigslist, a bathhouse, adult bookstore, prison... all are wonderful ways to provide a romantic meaningful experience that will result in the loss of your virginity.


    HAHAHA. What about those glory hole things?

    On a more serious note to the OP I think you shouldn't be in such a rush to do it. I mean once you do it its over with and you don't want to end up regretting it.
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    Dec 17, 2010 12:51 AM GMT
    KardioKing said
    iLover said
    KardioKing said
    iLover said
    Tazo995 said
    KardioKing saidCraigslist, a bathhouse, adult bookstore, prison... all are wonderful ways to provide a romantic meaningful experience that will result in the loss of your virginity.


    Sounds like *somebody* is speaking from experience icon_razz.gif


    And I assumed he was being sarcastic an or condescending.
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    Haha, Nah to both of you! I was just messing around. Guess I should of added an emoticon for clarification. icon_lol.gif


    yea right.. so have you done either of, or all the above?


    I'm going to assume you're joking around as well. icon_razz.gif


    Nope...I already know that you know, that i know that you know....