Why Are Hott Guys So Hard To Talk To?

  • Joeyphx444

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    Oct 09, 2010 9:02 AM GMT
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    WHY??
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    Oct 09, 2010 9:05 AM GMT
    Jmuscle33 saidIn real life and online icon_razz.gif
    WHY??


    Are YOU hard to talk to? There's only one way to tell ... icon_smile.gif
  • Midas426

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    Oct 09, 2010 9:16 AM GMT
    Jmuscle33 saidIn real life and online icon_razz.gif
    WHY??
    Cause a lot of guys are trying to talk to them? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 09, 2010 9:19 AM GMT
    Jmuscle33 saidIn real life and online icon_razz.gif
    WHY??


    Are you hard to talk to ? I hope not icon_smile.gif

    Im easy to talk to, but for some reason I find gay guys very hard to talk to as well
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    Oct 09, 2010 9:24 AM GMT
    (1) because you are too intimidated
    (2) because they know that a lot of people find them hot and have become arrogant and superficial as a result.


    That mostly covers it. Next question!
  • Midas426

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    Oct 09, 2010 9:24 AM GMT
    They can't hear you with all the whistling around them. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 09, 2010 9:26 AM GMT
    amar_m said
    Jmuscle33 saidIn real life and online icon_razz.gif
    WHY??


    Are you hard to talk to ? I hope not icon_smile.gif

    Im easy to talk to, but for some reason I find gay guys very hard to talk to as well


    Hey! We've chatted and you should know I'm not hard to talk to. Right? Right? icon_lol.gif You are definitely easy to talk to.
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    Oct 09, 2010 9:27 AM GMT
    well, i guess they are busy talking to each others icon_sad.gif
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    Oct 09, 2010 11:59 AM GMT
    I have no trouble talking to myself.
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    Oct 09, 2010 2:11 PM GMT
    Haha -- there's a Seinfeld episode where Jerry explains that sex is a consequence of awkward conversation. If the conversation is too engaging, you never get around to sex.

    So the obvious conclusion is that guys are making conversation difficult because they want to sleep with you. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 09, 2010 2:12 PM GMT
    Great queston friend i am wondering too
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    Oct 09, 2010 2:17 PM GMT
    Jmuscle33 saidIn real life and online icon_razz.gif
    WHY??


    Nah that's a major generalisation. Of course some whom we typically see as goodlooking are very difficult to talk to, but equally there are a lot of 'normal' (looking) people who are as hard to talk to as well.

    Perhaps sometimes when we see a very cute guy or cute girl we automatically set a higher expectation of them because we find them attractive whereas if it were any other person, we wouldn't be so sensitive to their response (or lack thereof)
  • grnranger99

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    Oct 09, 2010 2:28 PM GMT
    Because no one talks to them they never learn how to have a conversation
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    Oct 09, 2010 2:30 PM GMT
    itsmourning saidThey're not hard to talk to. It's just hard getting a decent response from them.


    or any response at all.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Oct 09, 2010 2:33 PM GMT
    I've never had an issue.
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    Oct 09, 2010 2:35 PM GMT
    OH YEAH apparently one theory is that they have bad communication skills cos they just spend all day looking in a mirror

    HAHAHAHAHAHA (sorry, but I found that funny!)
  • alphatop

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    Oct 09, 2010 2:42 PM GMT
    Jmuscle33 saidIn real life and online icon_razz.gif
    WHY??


    Not true. Try me.
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    Oct 09, 2010 2:43 PM GMT
    grnranger99 saidBecause no one talks to them they never learn how to have a conversation


    or they've never learned cos they don't need to talk much to get laid
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    Oct 09, 2010 2:47 PM GMT
    Imagine being a star in a room full of people trying to get your attention.. If they are hot... The amount of people doubles, triples, depending on the scale. and us as humans we tend to think that we are better then the next guy so they should want us, but the next guy is thinking the same thing.. So usually, its like you are candidate trying to get a job! You need something striking to get their attention. Oh and also, they usually look for someone hotter then them so the cycle never ends...... Our generation is really doomed...LOL but its fun to watch....lolicon_razz.gif
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    Oct 09, 2010 2:48 PM GMT
    They're not hard to talk to... but they can be hard to get a response from.
  • rnch

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    Oct 09, 2010 2:52 PM GMT
    all too often, "Pretty People" have spent their entire lives getting by only by using their surface attractions. they have not developed any Pleasing Personality traits, inclucing emphathy and the art of conversation.

    they expect YOU to make 99.9% of the effort.
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    Oct 09, 2010 2:59 PM GMT
    chrixx said
    amar_m said
    Jmuscle33 saidIn real life and online icon_razz.gif
    WHY??


    Are you hard to talk to ? I hope not icon_smile.gif

    Im easy to talk to, but for some reason I find gay guys very hard to talk to as well


    Hey! We've chatted and you should know I'm not hard to talk to. Right? Right? icon_lol.gif You are definitely easy to talk to.


    LOL LOL Yes! Yes! But on RJ that is common knowledge ;)
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    Oct 09, 2010 3:02 PM GMT
    Jmuscle33 saidIn real life and online icon_razz.gif
    WHY??


    Not to put you on the spot! but I think you are hot!! ironically I remembered giving you a very nice compliment about your eyes in the past on the forum but you never responded back to me!? so there!!!


    Leandro ♥
  • Comicmuscle

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    Oct 09, 2010 3:06 PM GMT
    probably because many hott gay guys are also incredibly mean or douchey and that moment before contact leaves you in a state of uncertainty..."Is he gonna be mean to me and make me feel like shit for no reason?" "Is he gonna be nice to me?"...it's not a lot of fun to stew about, but...is a part of the process.
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    Oct 09, 2010 3:13 PM GMT
    I KNOW EH?