chat with crush

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    Oct 09, 2010 3:27 PM GMT
    hey guys. I recently found out that the guy at my gym i have a crush on is gay, but im still in the closet and my personal trainer is also his personal trainer, how do i start a conversation with my crush so he can notice me?
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    Oct 09, 2010 3:49 PM GMT
    How did you find out he was gay?

    Maybe pretend you don't know he's gay and ask him if he has a girlfriend. Then he might slip out that he is too, and then you can say that you are. And then afterwards flirt with him.

    Lol, I don't know, I'm hopeless at this kind of thing.
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    Oct 09, 2010 6:47 PM GMT
    well there's your answer. you both already have something in common - you both share the same personal trainer. so you can start a conversation saying how much of a hard-ass he is on your sessions.

    Phineas_Furb saidhey guys. I recently found out that the guy at my gym i have a crush on is gay, but im still in the closet and my personal trainer is also his personal trainer, how do i start a conversation with my crush so he can notice me?
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    Oct 10, 2010 2:05 AM GMT
    You have your trainer in common, so I agree that's a way to start a conversation. However, if you're in the closet it's gonna be hard to let him know you're interested, plus how are you going to date someone who's out while you aren't?
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    Oct 10, 2010 3:04 AM GMT
    Wow if I knew the guy I like at the gym was gay I would buy him a drink, shit I would buy him dinner! Well first I'd ask him if he'd want to hang out sometime.
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    Oct 10, 2010 3:05 AM GMT
    I usually start conversations with "hi". Talk to him to find out if you are attracted to more than just his body.
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    Nov 07, 2010 1:41 PM GMT
    So, what'd you do and how'd it go?
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    Nov 07, 2010 1:46 PM GMT
    Tell your personal trainer to tell him that you want to tap it. then tap it. tap it real good.
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    Nov 07, 2010 2:12 PM GMT
    Where something slutty!