Who do you get attention from?

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    Oct 10, 2010 3:50 PM GMT
    Do you ever feel like the only guys you get attention from are the ones you aren't attracted to?

    Frustrating :/
  • mizu5

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    Oct 10, 2010 3:54 PM GMT
    Last night I was in a bar filled with only hotties. The only person who hit on me was the only other twinky boy in the room. lol sad day.
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    Oct 10, 2010 4:43 PM GMT
    mizu5 saidLast night I was in a bar filled with only hotties. The only person who hit on me was the only other twinky boy in the room. lol sad day.


    omg lucky fucker. Last night I went to a bar full of flamers lol.
  • laxdude25

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    Oct 10, 2010 4:52 PM GMT
    i get attention from three types of guys: guys in their low 20's who are interested in a masc dad type; guys in their 20's-30's who are jocks/ very masc who i meet through sports and into the older/younger coach dynamic, and guys my own age who are fit/bi/sometimes married and totally chill about the gay aspect of their package. when it works and the attraction is mutal, no complaints from me at all.
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    Oct 10, 2010 5:07 PM GMT
    *sigh* i seem only to attract the 18-22 year olds who are looking for "stable" (i hate that word) guys - i.e. sugar daddies and the 55 year+ crowd seems to like me. I don't mind talking to guys in either age group, but i wouldn't consider either relationship material. Teens and early 20 year-olds are far too young for me and i'm really not into being with someone old enough to be my father. i'll go 10 years over or under my own age, but that's as far as i go. Can never seem to find guys in their 30's or any who express any interest in me. blah.
  • mizu5

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    Oct 10, 2010 5:11 PM GMT
    Gbob said
    mizu5 saidLast night I was in a bar filled with only hotties. The only person who hit on me was the only other twinky boy in the room. lol sad day.


    omg lucky fucker. Last night I went to a bar full of flamers lol.
    ahaha its jsut like 2-3 bars ehre in toronto like thaat.
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    Oct 10, 2010 5:14 PM GMT
    Guys in their 20s who like an older guy who's stable but seldom 30s or 40s until recently. Finally met a really nice 40 yr old! icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 10, 2010 5:18 PM GMT
    Lately, women in their 40's-60'sicon_evil.gif
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    Oct 10, 2010 5:24 PM GMT
    maine1057 saidLately, women in their 40's-60'sicon_evil.gif


    yeah, i get a lot of women in that age range telling me i'm cute. blah...
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    Oct 10, 2010 5:26 PM GMT
    maine1057 saidLately, women in their 40's-60'sicon_evil.gif
    Ok, you win, my life isn't so bad after all! LMAO
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    Oct 10, 2010 5:27 PM GMT
    Dayton31 said
    maine1057 saidLately, women in their 40's-60'sicon_evil.gif


    yeah, i get a lot of women in that age range telling me i'm cute. blah...


    Then I'll tell them I'm gay, if only I had a cameraicon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Oct 10, 2010 5:39 PM GMT
    18 year old twinkyish type.
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    Oct 10, 2010 5:40 PM GMT
    maine1057 said
    Dayton31 said
    maine1057 saidLately, women in their 40's-60'sicon_evil.gif


    yeah, i get a lot of women in that age range telling me i'm cute. blah...


    Then I'll tell them I'm gay, if only I had a cameraicon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif


    then they think i'm making it up to blow them off. one time i had to have a coworker vouch that i was gay. i guess i just don't give the vibe. oh well.
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    Oct 10, 2010 6:48 PM GMT
    i guess what got me started on this topic is that there is minimal overlap between my hotlist and those who have hot listed me. then again, i've noticed that with quite a few on here.

    additionally, those types of people (okay, more in the physical aspect - i promise i'm not shallow) on my hot list have never paid me any attention in real life.

    i guess i have to look like them to attract them. human nature i suppose.
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    Oct 10, 2010 6:49 PM GMT
    being this good looking is a curse!

  • owen19832006

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    Oct 10, 2010 7:09 PM GMT
    normally really old creepy men
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    Oct 10, 2010 7:16 PM GMT
    Dayton31 saidDo you ever feel like the only guys you get attention from are the ones you aren't attracted to?

    Frustrating :/


    Haha, I feel this way all the time - but then again, I live in Milwaukee. There's NOBODY here I am attracted to. icon_sad.gif
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    Oct 10, 2010 7:22 PM GMT
    It's a good idea to ask the hottest among us what kind of guys they are attracting. My guess is that although they get attention from the ones who are as attractive as they are, they still get lots (if not most) of the attention from the lower steps of the attractiveness ladder.
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    Oct 10, 2010 7:24 PM GMT
    I get attention from lots of different people.
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    Oct 10, 2010 7:27 PM GMT
    danielryan saidbeing this good looking is a curse!



    a cross I'm willing to bear

    although, I heard, someone needed the wood...
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    Oct 10, 2010 7:28 PM GMT
    bachian saidIt's a good idea to ask the hottest among us what kind of guys they are attracting. My guess is that although they get attention from the ones who are as attractive as they are, they still get lots (if not most) of the attention from the lower steps of the attractiveness ladder.


    I actually saw a show where they did a study on this. I forgot what it was called, I believe it was on Nat Geo, but they found that people tend to aim for people who are around the same level of attractiveness. They'd ask people to rate their looks on a scale of 1-10 then put a bunch of men and women into a room and ask them to pair up... it turned out that almost everyone paired up with someone less than 2 points away from what they rated themselves.

    However, it seems that gay men tend to rate themselves higher than they really should... so it might be interesting to repeat this study with gay guys and see how the results differ icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 10, 2010 10:22 PM GMT
    I get looked at, thats it, nobody gives me any attention (and if you feel like quoting this saying you would, dont bother, this is online, in real life, you probably wouldnt babe)

    Im the one who gives attention instead, sometimes its welcome, sometimes its not
  • brycetippe

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    Oct 10, 2010 10:23 PM GMT
    Guys I'm not attracted to, and girls. =/
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    Oct 10, 2010 10:26 PM GMT
    Same here women in their 40's to 60's
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    Oct 10, 2010 10:30 PM GMT
    yeah that is pretty much it.

    If you want to be happy for the rest of your life never make a prett-y woman (man) your wife (husband)

    LOL



    If you wanna be happy
    For the rest of your life,
    Never make a pretty woman your wife,
    So from my personal point of view,
    Get an ugly girl to marry you.

    A pretty woman makes her husband look small
    And very often causes his downfall.
    As soon as he marries her
    Then she starts to do
    The things that will break his heart.
    But if you make an ugly woman your wife,
    You'll be happy for the rest of your life,
    An ugly woman cooks her meals on time,
    She'll always give you peace of mind.

    Don't let your friends say
    You have no taste,
    Go ahead and marry anyway,
    Though her face is ugly,
    Her eyes don't match,
    Take it from me she's a better catch.

    Say man.
    Hey baby.
    Saw your wife the other day.
    Yeah?
    Yeah, she's ugly.
    Yeah, she's ugly but she sure can cook.
    Yeah?. Okay.