Qualities That You Require To Have In Your Dream Man/Partner/Husband

  • metta

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    Oct 13, 2010 7:01 AM GMT
    Make a bullet list of the qualities you REQUIRE to have in your DREAM MAN!



    I have 5 and a statement on my list so far. I will post it in a little bit. Curious to see what others come up with. icon_smile.gif
  • metta

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    Oct 13, 2010 7:32 AM GMT
    oh well......I will post mine anyways.....


    My Dream Man
    • Attraction – I have to be physically & emotionally (see below) attracted to him.
    • Honesty – He has to be honest with me even when it is difficult to do so. I’m not interested in a relationship without that.
    • Integrity - He must live with integrity. His word and personal values must mean something. This seems to be pretty rare.
    • Respect – I have to have genuine admiration and respect for this person. Someone who is passionate and compassionate about what he believes in. Someone that I would be happy to introduce to my friends. I would never want to introduce someone that would add unnecessary drama to my friends’ lives. I expect him to have respect for me and for what is important to me. And he must have a healthy level of self respect as well.
    • Love – Mutual feelings. I can only feel close to someone when I can easily feel that they also care for or love me as well.
    • He could be the poorest man in the world or the richest; I really don’t care. Some of my most precious memories have been spending time with someone special in my life doing things that cost nothing. And some of the most costly things I have done often times ended up with unnecessary drama.
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    Oct 13, 2010 7:38 AM GMT
    to be nice to others, funny, to know how to show me his affection, mature and hairy chest icon_razz.gif
  • metta

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    Oct 13, 2010 7:53 AM GMT
    BuckYou saidto be nice to others, funny, to know how to show me his affection, mature and hairy chest icon_razz.gif


    If you find a guy that meets everything except the hairy chest, buy one of these:

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    Oct 13, 2010 8:05 AM GMT
    - Equally as fun to be around outside the bedroom as in.
    - Mutual physical attraction.
    - Mutual fetishes and kinks.
    - Must have some sort of income and solid career goals.
    - Must enjoy polygamy. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 13, 2010 2:30 PM GMT
    I would state the same metta8, and one additional

    Attraction
    Honesty
    Integrity
    Love

    Open Communication -meaning he is emotional capable of opening up on how he is doing, feeling, etc. Not afraid to feel vulnerable.

    Some guys really clamp down - shut down, is like pulling nails...it just drive me insane, which makes the communication and relationship extremely difficult.

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    Oct 13, 2010 2:30 PM GMT
    motivated
    compassionate
    active
    muscular
    romantic
    career minded
    kind
    no substance abuse issues
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    Oct 13, 2010 2:33 PM GMT
    Has a penchant for being as honest as one can be
    A brain
    Being a strong, true Christian
    A personality
    Relatively nice-looking
    Monogamously-inclined
    Able to communicate openly and honestly
    Emotionally expressive
    Is reliable and dependable
    Has a romantic, passionate side
    Treats me well
    Likes to stay active and in good shape
  • MuscleComeBac...

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    Oct 13, 2010 2:48 PM GMT
    Strength of Character
    Honesty
    Kindness
    Belief in Something Larger Than Himself
    Passion for Life
    Sense of Wonder About the Universe
    Understanding that Time Is Not the Enemy
    Optimism and Hope, Tempered By Realism
    Patience
    Humility and Ability to Laugh at Himself
    Tenderness
    Compassion
    Ability to Love and Let Himself Be Loved in Turn
    Willingness to Be Foolish
    Sense of Humor
    Fairness
    Courage
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    Oct 13, 2010 3:33 PM GMT

    For those who have never visited my profile, I will reply with this:

    Wait for the guy who thinks you're beautiful, not hot,
    Who calls you back when you hang up on him,
    Who stays awake just to watch you sleep.
    Wait for the guy who wants to show you off to the world
    when you're wearing sweats & holds your hand in front
    of his friends.
    Wait for the guy who constantly reminds you of how much
    he cares about you & how lucky he is to have you.
    Wait for the guy who carries you in his arms when you're sick
    or tired.
    And above all, never settle for anything less than you know you are worth!!
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    Oct 13, 2010 3:57 PM GMT
    Man of Character
    Fear God
    Goofy
    Love the Outdoors
    Humility and Ability to Laugh at Himself
    Compassionate Towards the Less Fortunate
    Into Running
    Aggressive
    Fear Nothing or No One
    Love to Travel
    Love to Have Sex
  • DiverScience

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    Oct 13, 2010 4:56 PM GMT
    A guy who has at least one big interest/hobby, it doesn't matter if it matches mine.

    A guy who's curious about the world.

    A guy with whom I have mutual physical attraction.

    A guy who loves me for my neuroses, not in spite of them.
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    Oct 13, 2010 5:12 PM GMT
    metta8 saidoh well......I will post mine anyways.....


    My Dream Man
    • Attraction – I have to be physically & emotionally (see below) attracted to him.
    • Honesty – He has to be honest with me even when it is difficult to do so. I’m not interested in a relationship without that.

    • ...

    This is what I'd say - PERFECTicon_exclaim.gif
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    Oct 13, 2010 5:16 PM GMT
    cmhoh1985 said
    A brain
    Being a strong, true Christian


    These are in tension.
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    Oct 13, 2010 5:47 PM GMT
    Gsus now THIS is tough....

    You mean something my dream guy MUST have or just something the guy of my dreams has???

    Shit, I dont have one anymore :-S... I did before, guy of my dreams that is, but norw theres just guys that I like

    Formerly it was:

    -into watersports (cause I am)
    -into spending long times in bed
    -good with finance (cause Im Jewish like that)
    -kind of a tough guy (like NOT into musicals or glee or pink unicorns)
    -appreciative of me at all times
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Oct 13, 2010 5:54 PM GMT
    Sweet, thoughtful, and Committed

    Honest

    Good Communicator & Fun sense of humor

    Health & Finess-minded

    Ambitious (has goals and a game plan how to achieve them)
  • swogdog

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    Oct 13, 2010 6:21 PM GMT
    Chemistry on both sides. As long as we have that and he's not an axe-murderer I'm good.

    Just Kidding.

    The chemistry thing is most important to me, probably because I'm a little shallow and maybe immature. My take is this: 80 years (if your lucky) goes by fast as hell. It's a roller coaster pace, really; and I hate boring, safe roller-coasters. I'll take the chemistry first, with intelligence and big heart running a very close second.
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    Oct 13, 2010 6:22 PM GMT
    Prince Charming =

    Good heart/character
    Respectful of others
    Sense of humor
    Fit
    No drugs or cigarettes
    Educated
    Professional
    Spiritual
    Honest
    Mutual chemistry
    Good conversationalist
    Within ten years of my age
    Wild to mild in the sheets but a gentleman in the streets
    Not afraid to show love/emotion
    Dependable
    Sense of adventure
    A guy who will let me give them all the love and affection my heart has to give them
    Loves to travel
  • UStriathlete

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    Oct 13, 2010 7:01 PM GMT
    Willingness to be a better person
    Communication
    Compassionate
    Lives in the present
    Athletic/competitive in a sport
    Knows how to love and except love
    Team player/compromise
    Caring
    dog lover
    knows how to forgive and forget
    sense of humor
    midfulness