Risks of Multiple Sex Partners?

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    Oct 13, 2010 12:56 PM GMT
    Lately I've had several hot sessions with a partnered couple. These two are my only sex partners so I've felt comfortabe.

    But now I realize that besides me they are having sex with several other guys. And one of the partners is BIG into rimming----which makes me very uncomfortable, especially when there are multiple partners involved.

    Am I right to back away from further sex with these guys? Does anyone have any practical advice on this, from their own experiences?
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    Oct 13, 2010 12:57 PM GMT
    Just remember, everyone they are fucking, YOU are fucking. If it makes you squeamish, leave them alone.
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    Oct 13, 2010 2:58 PM GMT
    NickFit saidJust remember, everyone they are fucking, YOU are fucking. If it makes you squeamish, leave them alone.


    Really Good Advice! ...and if you continue, safe sex only!! Rimming isn't safe when it comes to sexually transmitted disease.
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    Oct 13, 2010 3:18 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    NickFit saidJust remember, everyone they are fucking, YOU are fucking. If it makes you squeamish, leave them alone.


    Really Good Advice! ...and if you continue, safe sex only!! Rimming isn't safe when it comes to sexually transmitted disease.


    Well, if you want to be strict about it, there's no sexual activity that is 100% safe... I think you just have to use your own judgement and determine the acceptable level of risk for you personally. If you're having sex with just one or two people, but they are having sex with lots of people, then obviously that's riskier than if you have just one regular sex partner who doesn't have sex with anyone else.

    When it comes to rimming, there is a risk associated with it, not just from an STD perspective but also general disease - hence why a lot of guys are not into it casually. I have to admit, I did in the past rim guys when it was just casual, but this was not 'the norm' for me and I was careful with everything else and never had any problems.

    When it comes to your sexual health, my opinion is that you can't be paranoid and live your life wrapped in plastic, but neither should you do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. You clearly aren't comfortable with the situation you're in now, so it's time to extricate yourself from it. Find a regular fuck buddy who doesn't sleep around, perhaps.