Oct 13, 2010 1:22 PM GMT
The subject came up over dinner with some friends last night. Here's the premise: when the excitement and "new-ness" ware off and the everyday realities start appearing, what's your litmus test for dumping someone?
Jockbod48 saidMy litmus test for considering dumping someone is simply to draw a line down the center of a page. I list the reasons to keep going with the relationship on one side, and the reasons to put an end to thing on the other. I find it enlightening and clarifying to read and think about all the data on the page. This has always helped me make my decision to go or stay.
Every one of my relationships have had some good things, and some not so good. Each guy I've been lucky to have been with had a lot of pluses, but sooner of later I've gotten an itch to make a change.............until now. My present relationship is going to be "the ONE".
paulflexes saidI don't dump the guy I'm seeing. I just add more to the list.