Is asking for a nice guy asking too much?

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    Oct 14, 2010 1:59 AM GMT
    So I'm asking the question that so many have asked before... where are all the nice guys? I'm feeling a little emotional today, and feel like I need a good rant... so if you don't won"t to hear about it then don't read it...and I realize that I'm about to sound like a whinning teenage girl (not to gender stereotype)... but I dont give a fuck.
    Where are the guys that want to actually get to know me, not just get to know what I look like naked? What about the guys that want to come over, smoke a bowl and listen to me complain about the shit that happened to me that day? Where are the guys that want to stay over, not to fuck me, but to lay next to me.. and then are ecstatic the next morning because it wasn't a dream, they really are sleeping next to me! are there "masculine guys" that also like to cuddle?
    I feel like I have a lot to offer. I'm attractive, ambitious, and funny (at least I crack myself up). I've got a head on my shoulders, and am studying social work obviously not because I want to make money but because people fascinate me. Theres so many different sides to me, and I wish I could find someone who is willing to take the time to get to know each side.
    I love to people watch, and will never turn down a blunt. I also love watching seinfield and scrubs, and find myself laughing non stop while watching these shows... and I want someone who likes all that about me!
    Ugh, I'm just frustrated because I seem to only meet stupid people....
    I feel a lot better now, sorry if you took the time to read this, I realize its probably pretty boring... and I assure you I'm not usually so one to complain or be so emotional
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    Oct 14, 2010 5:15 AM GMT
    Asking for a nice guy to love him, care for, and please is not asking too much! but asking for a nice guy to just satisfy your needs and wants is indeed asking too much!


    Leandro ♥
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    Oct 14, 2010 6:16 AM GMT
    ALEZANDAR saidAsking for a nice guy to love him, care for, and please is not asking too much! but asking for a nice guy to just satisfy your needs and wants is indeed asking too much!


    Leandro ♥


    good tough, funny I just posted a thread about why is hard to find a non drug user grounded man. we all struggle with something it seems.

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    Oct 14, 2010 3:49 PM GMT
    Don't give up! Mr right is out there and it might take some trolling through the mud. But whatever you do, don't stop looking for him! You seem like a really nice guy and should be proud that you are looking for something of meaning. Just keep looking and don't stop.
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    Oct 14, 2010 3:52 PM GMT
    I know i am also looking for Mr.Right for a long time but nothing for me.
  • shirty

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    Oct 14, 2010 3:52 PM GMT
    You seem amazing to me icon_smile.gif Keep your chin up. Be patient. It's rare to meet people you click with... that's just the way it goes.
  • MuscleComeBac...

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    Oct 14, 2010 3:52 PM GMT
    All things in good time. Truly.

    Keep your integrity, faith, and a sufficient amount of hope in play and you'll be surprised one day - truly - when you least expect it. He's looking for you too, bucko. Trust me, he is.

  • BIG_N_TALL

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    Oct 14, 2010 3:52 PM GMT
    dj90 said
    Where are the guys that want to actually get to know me, not just get to know what I look like naked? What about the guys that want to come over, smoke a bowl and listen to me complain about the shit that happened to me that day? Where are the guys that want to stay over, not to fuck me, but to lay next to me.. and then are ecstatic the next morning because it wasn't a dream, they really are sleeping next to me! are there "masculine guys" that also like to cuddle?


    YES YES YES (well, minus the smoking part)

    I know what you mean... join the club icon_sad.gif
  • mondo_trasho

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    Oct 15, 2010 9:01 AM GMT
    Wow! We have so much in common! We are both awesome and don't turn down blunts! Haha! You seem like a chill guy, and deserve an awesome dude to fuck your brains out! I would say, don't get hung up on meeting mister right. Stay true to yourself, be positive and be open. Mr. Right wouldn't be worth it if he was easy to find, correct? Stay positive, you deserve a good guy to come your way and it usually happens when you least expect it.
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    Oct 15, 2010 9:12 AM GMT
    Im just a nice guy... problem is peeps like me really do finish last most of the time... most people arent as nice as I am I have found

    BTW I prefer a good cuddle-buddy over a fuck-buddy anyday, so yes, we do exist
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    Oct 15, 2010 10:08 AM GMT
    Nice, good guys do exist and they are actually everywhere but most gay men are so damn nit-picky, shallow and finicky when it comes to finding someone that they end up with nothing.
  • masculumpedes

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    Oct 15, 2010 10:19 AM GMT
    Perhaps you have too many hoops for us to jump through...icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 17, 2010 9:42 AM GMT
    Hmm.. Its not an uncommon problem. One has to wait and see. I have met a number of guys online, 99.9% guys were looking for sex. Yes I found 0.1 % nice guys. Who were not just looking for sex. We are friends now.

    Nice people do exist. But I think you are not just looking for nice guy, but bit more than a nice guy. ;) Good luck bro. May you find your man soon...