Do you think relationships is only for good looking people?

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    Oct 15, 2010 1:37 AM GMT
    All my friends been counting boyfriends in there life, short term and long term but me never been on that level, I dont know whats wrong with me, I have very good life style, i dont smoke, I work out to be in good shape, i eat healthy food, i have good job. My question to everybody is this, is boyfriend just only for handsome, real jock or perfect body to be consider.
  • mondo_trasho

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    Oct 15, 2010 8:29 AM GMT
    After checking out your profile, I gotta say...ooooooh yeah it just might be you face...JK! Shut the fuck up! You aren't ugly, so don't be so desperate! I have been ther, and nobody want a desperate cock hungry bitch! I think you just need a little self confidence and a little slutty promisciousness! Be a slut! It does wonders for your confidence! You are only as pathetic as you percieve yourself to be! Look at Kid Rock. He is ugly as fuck and he dated Pamela Anderson. WHAT THE FUCK?! Get it together man!
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    Oct 15, 2010 8:32 AM GMT
    Have you gone out and made an attempt to get to know more people? Corny as it sounds, online dating is also a perfectly fine avenue. I'm totally not speaking from experience, so probably not the authoritative source on this.

    And there are many posts here on the exact same topic, so at least you have company. icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 15, 2010 4:03 PM GMT
    Hey mondo and chrixx, thanks lots man! For your wonderful advice. Anyway hopely I will survive and have more patient. I just wondering ther are 10 millions guys out there n can't find one for me. I'm good man but sometimes temptation is always there, but I really want somethings decent, I think its really hard to find now days. I'm not cravings of something wild and short time but I want something with feelings.Take care guys!
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    Oct 15, 2010 4:04 PM GMT
    ehm, no, having a bf is not for goodlooking ppl
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    Oct 15, 2010 4:06 PM GMT
    amar_m saidehm, no, having a bf is not for goodlooking ppl




    Yeah i agree
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Oct 15, 2010 4:06 PM GMT
    macartist saidAll my friends been counting boyfriends in there life, short term and long term but me never been on that level, I dont know whats wrong with me, I have very good life style, i dont smoke, I work out to be in good shape, i eat healthy food, i have good job. My question to everybody is this, is boyfriend just only for handsome, real jock or perfect body to be consider.



    You're kidding, right? I nominate this thread for the "Stupidest Thread Question of The Year" Award. Look around, there are plenty of guys out there who do not fit into the "handsome, real jock, or perfect body" mold you refer to who are in happy long term relationships. More importantly, there are tons of guys who do fit into that mold who are single.
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    Oct 15, 2010 4:10 PM GMT
    CuriousJockAZ said
    macartist saidAll my friends been counting boyfriends in there life, short term and long term but me never been on that level, I dont know whats wrong with me, I have very good life style, i dont smoke, I work out to be in good shape, i eat healthy food, i have good job. My question to everybody is this, is boyfriend just only for handsome, real jock or perfect body to be consider.



    You're kidding, right? I nominate this thread for the "Stupidest Thread Question of The Year" Award. Look around, there are plenty of guys out there who do not fit into the "handsome, real jock, or perfect body" mold you refer to who are in happy long term relationships. More importantly, there are tons of guys who do fit into that mold who are single.


    There is some really serious competition....
  • KnuxNole

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    Oct 15, 2010 4:12 PM GMT
    No of course not! There are straight couples and gay couples where the people are a mix of looks.

    If it was only for super hot people, well I would be single for the rest of my life...no magical wands in real life haha.
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    Oct 15, 2010 4:30 PM GMT
    Actually, all the couples I know are not hot and all the hotter guys I know are all single. Hopefully none of my "couple" friends don't read this. icon_redface.gif
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    Oct 15, 2010 4:37 PM GMT
    I know this is a very stupid question. Everyday in my life ,there always tears n my eyes, I want explore my needs sometimes but always scared to do something stupid. I don't even know how to su?? di??.I feel I'm living in the world thats fun is not allowed.
  • mybud

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    Oct 15, 2010 4:47 PM GMT
    Not sure if your serious but here it goes....True love isn't measured by outward beauty......It's measured by the size of your heart and your capacity to love.....You see man ....loving someone totally will be the most selfless thing you'll ever do...Some guys don't have it in them to be that selfless...this is hoping you find that kind of love and passion......BUD
  • Sk8Tex

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    Oct 15, 2010 4:47 PM GMT
    Relationships arent only for good looking people because someone out there keeps making some ugly ass babies...

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    Oct 15, 2010 5:39 PM GMT
    All those glitz and glamour dont work out for a normal life where heart is mattered.

    btw...you are handsome yourself;)
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    Oct 15, 2010 5:41 PM GMT
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    Oct 15, 2010 5:59 PM GMT
    I have seen some pretty fugly couples..
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    Oct 15, 2010 6:01 PM GMT
    I often find that homelier looking couples have better longer lasting relationships, probably because they aren't looking for looks, and weren't when they met.
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    Oct 15, 2010 6:04 PM GMT
    Anybody who has the commitment to be a in a relationship can be. But then again you might be either chasing wrong guys or haven't the might guy yet.
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    Oct 15, 2010 6:04 PM GMT
    SanDiegoNewbie saidRelationships arent only for good looking people because someone out there keeps making some ugly ass babies...

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    Ha ha that was mean LOL
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    Oct 15, 2010 6:05 PM GMT
    I don't see any correlation between how physically attractive guys I know are and whether or not they are in relationships. It tends to come down more to being relationship oriented and being willing to compromise on some things and not expecting the other guy to be perfect all the time - and on the other guy doing the same for you.

    As for the OP, you aren't ugly so don't worry so much about your looks. Just be open to meeting people and don't be afraid to be yourself.
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    Oct 15, 2010 6:07 PM GMT
    SanDiegoNewbie saidRelationships arent only for good looking people because someone out there keeps making some ugly ass babies...

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    this dude needs to go, needs to go
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    Oct 15, 2010 6:07 PM GMT
    I am kind of the in same boat..been out for 15years but only 2 major relationships that lasted each about a year. you need to look at quality v. quanity. would you really want to date someone who only wanted you for your body? A real relationship looks past the physical and into who the person is. As gay men we tend to forget that and many go with what looks pretty on there arm or what they can offer them.
  • dfrourke

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    Oct 15, 2010 6:07 PM GMT
    I found it incredibly difficult to maintain a relationship when I couldn't even bother to feel comfortable with my own company...it is a rare gift when people can and actively seek out being in the company of someone who is in pain [and that includes ourselves]...

    ...if you are lonely, depressed, and on the verge of tears daily...I have to say...you might have some "self work" to do before your energy is inviting to another person...

    ...relationships and dating are not easy work...[if they were easy, everyone would be in a relationship and counselors would be out of a job]...that work started with myself...and for a few years meant I needed to dedicate time just for me to feel comfortable in my own skin...once that happened...the people that came into my life were quality folks worth the effort of maintaining a relationship...

    ...but I have to emphasize...it starts with the relationship I have with myself...make the time you are single productive...and continue to find ways to improve yourself...those qualities are contagious...

    Good luck.

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  • nv7_

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    Oct 15, 2010 6:25 PM GMT
    The Jerry Springer Show, The Maury Povich Show, and the show Cops would indicate otherwise. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 15, 2010 6:28 PM GMT
    Nope, I know plenty of ugly couples that are happy and together as ever. I almost find it more the opposite: lots of ultra handsome guys are too selfish and up their own asses to fully participate in a real relationship.