Caslon16000 saidAsk him how he feels.
Im a tad hesitant to ask him how he feels cos its like revealing an insecurity that may very well bite me back in the arse in future. Also, if he is gonna say that he does indeed like bigger dicks that wld really be the end?
Lostboy saidThere is only one person whose opinion matters at the moment: his.
As an insurance policy, do squats and learn to bottom
A prime example, the guy with the smaller dick becomes the bottom. Not that this is a bad thing, but I think im more of top/vers than anything.
If you are more top then be top. Size has some relevance, but actually if you can use it skilfully then you win. Most people are pretty terrible tops actually: in, out, lose erection because of condom, done in 5 mins. Yawn. Use your imagination to find different ways of doing it: rhythm, speed, depth of penetration, whether you use your whole body or just your hips, angle. Work out whether the curve of your dick makes it better for you to go doggy style or with the guy on his back. Do you know if doggy with your left leg up over his is more intense than with your right leg up over his? You should. Then make combinations, work out positions you like, practice controlling ejaculation so that you can last for hours, not minutes, use your strengths, think about the way that gentle teasing and stroking fits with rough and wild... There is SO much to it and most tops are DULL... and the bigger boys often rely on their size to make up for total lack of skill. BORING.. really...boring. Have you made a guy cum without him touching his cock?.. work towards it. Have you made a guy lose his mind and have to lie on the bed for 5 minutes afterwards as he can´t process information any more? Work towards it. Have you made a guy moan and scream, not from pain, but because that is the only response he can find to the intensity of what you are doing to him? Do you know how to instruct your bottom so that he gets the most from it? Do you know how to do foreplay so that he is so desperate for cock that he is literally begging for it? I am overwhelmed
at how dull most tops are.