Are you competitive when it comes to picking up guys?

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    Oct 17, 2010 4:59 PM GMT
    Hey jocks,

    Ever been in a situation that you had to compete for a guy's attention? I hate this when this happens. If I see a highly attractive guy I try to ammediately take his fine self out of the club before any hungry whore tries to still him from me. If a strange guy approaches you when your outside that person already is viewed as a crazy person for coming up and bothering u on the street. I hate mating show downs but it happens and it's never cute when it does. What do you guys do when faced with this situation?
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    Oct 17, 2010 7:18 PM GMT
    ehm, no I dont even bother when a guy is so attractive he would get everyone's attention icon_eek.gif I dunno why, I find it a turn-off to think that person is getting hit on from all sides
  • Celticmusl

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    Oct 17, 2010 8:03 PM GMT
    Meh....I'm a bit coy and reserved and I like a guy that's a bit reserved as well. No drama scenes or show downs for me.

    Now, if I'm dating a guy and someone is making moves on him at a club, I would shut that down rather quickly. Usually it just takes a look.
  • coolarmydude

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    Oct 17, 2010 8:03 PM GMT
    I never have and never will compete with a guy for a hook-up. The engagement is mandatorily mutual.
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    Oct 17, 2010 8:07 PM GMT
    nope
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    Oct 17, 2010 10:12 PM GMT
    Well even if the attraction is mutual I have had guys come and try to dance in between or on the guy I was dancing with. Girls in packs trying to pick up the guy. Other black guys following me and the other guy in the club. A total mating battlefield. Some people say wait it out but also I wouldn't want to let a good thing pass me by.

    I remember a guy tapping me on the shoulder while I was making out with an A plus hottie. Total disrespect!

    Great looking guys are hard to keep it seems :-/

    Even if the guy likes you then you get people giving you a stink eye.

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    Oct 17, 2010 10:14 PM GMT
    Once. I won
  • Nayro

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    Oct 17, 2010 10:20 PM GMT
    silkrock saidWell even if the attraction is mutual I have had guys come and try to dance in between or on the guy I was dancing with. Girls in packs trying to pick up the guy. Other black guys following me and the other guy in the club. A total mating battlefield. Some people say wait it out but also I wouldn't want to let a good thing pass me by.

    I remember a guy tapping me on the shoulder while I was making out with an A plus hottie. Total disrespect!

    Great looking guys are hard to keep it seems :-/

    Even if the guy likes you then you get people giving you a stink eye.



    Good thing you posted this 3 times!
  • GQjock

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    Oct 17, 2010 10:23 PM GMT
    If I can't get a guy's attention just by being Me? ...... and him being interested on his own? I pass
  • jgymnast733

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    Oct 17, 2010 10:39 PM GMT
    I'm not bothered if someone attempts to steal my trade cause i know they wont win....
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    Oct 17, 2010 10:45 PM GMT
    Well I always believed that one should go after what they really want. Now after you get to make your introduction and they are still not interested let them go. It's just sometimes you get interupted before you get aquainted. That's no fair.

    I know it's not just me this has happened too?
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    Oct 17, 2010 10:48 PM GMT
    jgymnast733 saidI'm not bothered if someone attempts to steal my trade cause i know they wont win....


    shut them down boy! :-)
  • safety43_mma1...

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    Oct 20, 2010 12:06 AM GMT
    i just move on not worth my time. if i have to compete for a guys attention then i ask myself is it worth it. most of the time it isnt.
  • MrNomis

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    Oct 20, 2010 12:10 AM GMT
    What's the point of competing? Either you both are interested on each other or not...anything less is not worth it! I also say practice self respect...
  • 1AlanZSky

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    Mar 29, 2014 12:52 AM GMT
    No
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    Mar 29, 2014 1:15 AM GMT
    I would, really, but to be honest, I have no competition icon_cool.gif
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    Mar 29, 2014 1:28 AM GMT
    David3000 saidI would, really, but to be honest, I have no competition icon_cool.gif

    Oh my, smell you, girl!

    Yeah, I've fought for a guy I wanted. Sometimes lost the first round, but won the next.

    When I zero-in on a guy I never lose. My motto is taken from a lyric in the musical Damn Yankees:

    "Whatever Lola wants
    Lola gets..."


    And I do. I never lose.
  • safety43_mma1...

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    Mar 29, 2014 1:32 AM GMT
    Nope I am competitive in sports if I have to for a man and he likes it he is worth it
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    Mar 29, 2014 1:35 AM GMT
    Haha no
  • toastvenom

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    Mar 29, 2014 2:06 AM GMT
    chasing after somebody? Nobody deserves to have their ego stroked like that.
  • buddycat

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    Mar 29, 2014 2:48 AM GMT
    I agree, I would not compete for a guy in a club. I would prefer the one that mutually wants me as well. I am not into games. I also don't like how some people tend to run up to you when they see you are talking to a cute guy to meet them.