Best Places to Meet other Masculine Men

  • brownbear787

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    Oct 18, 2010 1:16 AM GMT

    Hey Guys,
    So I feel like (at least in my area), most of the gay men I meet are really effeminate or socially awkward.

    I am really chill, laid back and can be social with other people. Lately, I feel like that I want to make new friends because I realized that I really don't have many. I usually hang out with the same people.

    As of right now, I think I'm not going to focus on using these gay dating/personals sites to meet other guys. (I've had a low success rate)

    Where are some places you have met average masculine men that you have developed either long term friendships or relationships with? I am struggling here. I'm not out to everyone (that may be the problem- only to close friends) and I don't want to just go to gay bars/clubs to meet guys. I go to the mall, my school, gym, and to happy hours but I don't meet many people.

    Then there is that thing- you think the guy is cool but he may be str8 or homophobic What are some gestures or signs that you or other guys make make towards you to generate interest?

    Please, share you stories or experiences. Any suggestions or specific places you've met some of your best friends would be great.


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    Oct 18, 2010 1:22 AM GMT

    What ever hobbies or activities interest you, lk online and see if there is a local gay chapter.
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    Oct 18, 2010 2:47 AM GMT
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    Oct 18, 2010 2:48 AM GMT
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    Oct 19, 2010 6:32 AM GMT
    local sporting events work
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    Oct 19, 2010 6:35 AM GMT
    There are no places to meet masculine men. All gay men are fem, and even the straight guys are quickly becoming fem. They call it metro, but they ain't foolin no one.

    Soon the straight women will be the manliest thing around. and Mary Poppins will be considered barbaric.
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    Oct 19, 2010 6:39 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidThere are no places to meet masculine men. All gay men are fem, and even the straight guys are quickly becoming fem. They call it metro, but they ain't foolin no one.

    Soon the straight women will be the manliest thing around. and Mary Poppins will be considered barbaric.

    Liking Lady Gaga = The first step to admitting a good dick in your mouth is hot.


    Jus' sayin'.
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    Oct 19, 2010 6:43 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidThere are no places to meet masculine men. All gay men are fem, and even the straight guys are quickly becoming fem. They call it metro, but they ain't foolin no one.

    Soon the straight women will be the manliest thing around. and Mary Poppins will be considered barbaric.


    We are progressive like that. It's evolution.
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    Oct 19, 2010 6:46 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidThere are no places to meet masculine men. All gay men are fem, and even the straight guys are quickly becoming fem. They call it metro, but they ain't foolin no one.

    Soon the straight women will be the manliest thing around. and Mary Poppins will be considered barbaric.


    I think they are called 'Lesbians.'

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  • brownbear787

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    Oct 20, 2010 4:32 AM GMT
    okay...

    so fare I have heard social groups and sporting events....any others? Not really into sports that much and don't have any hobbies that social groups start from.
  • MagillaNectar

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    Oct 20, 2010 4:40 AM GMT
    Volunteer? I'm in the same situation more or less. I want to tell my only local female friend i'm gay but i know she'll just introduce me to the most falmboyant gay guy she knows. If i tell my guy friends - they wouldn't care but they wouldn't care so much they wouldn't help me meet other gay guys.
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    Oct 20, 2010 4:47 AM GMT
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    Oct 20, 2010 5:03 AM GMT
    brownbear787 saidokay...

    so fare I have heard social groups and sporting events....any others? Not really into sports that much and don't have any hobbies that social groups start from.


    What about?

    The Sierra Hiking Club in your area, there is usually a Gay and Lesbian chapter...hiking is a relaxed way of meeting other guys in common setting, and best of all you never know what to expect on each hiking trip. Hiking trips are noted per mileage.

    The Gay and Lesbian Tennis League...is another option.

  • brownbear787

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    Oct 21, 2010 12:55 PM GMT
    Volunteering sounds great but with work and school, I can't commit to anything unless it's on the weekends in the evening or nights. Hiking- I will look into it.
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    Oct 21, 2010 12:59 PM GMT
    ShinyToyTrev said
    paulflexes saidThere are no places to meet masculine men. All gay men are fem, and even the straight guys are quickly becoming fem. They call it metro, but they ain't foolin no one.

    Soon the straight women will be the manliest thing around. and Mary Poppins will be considered barbaric.

    Liking Lady Gaga = The first step to admitting a good dick in your mouth is hot.


    Jus' sayin'.
    I wanna skip to the third step.
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    Oct 21, 2010 1:09 PM GMT
    brownbear787 said
    Hey Guys,
    So I feel like (at least in my area), most of the gay men I meet are really effeminate or socially awkward.

    I am really chill, laid back and can be social with other people. Lately, I feel like that I want to make new friends because I realized that I really don't have many. I usually hang out with the same people.

    As of right now, I think I'm not going to focus on using these gay dating/personals sites to meet other guys. (I've had a low success rate)

    Where are some places you have met average masculine men that you have developed either long term friendships or relationships with? I am struggling here. I'm not out to everyone (that may be the problem- only to close friends) and I don't want to just go to gay bars/clubs to meet guys. I go to the mall, my school, gym, and to happy hours but I don't meet many people.

    Then there is that thing- you think the guy is cool but he may be str8 or homophobic What are some gestures or signs that you or other guys make make towards you to generate interest?

    Please, share you stories or experiences. Any suggestions or specific places you've met some of your best friends would be great.



    Maybe you are not as chill as you think you are if you are pissing all over yourself cuz a guy is socially awkward or fem, in your opinion. A really chill guy would take people as they are and roll with it. Also maybe you are coming across as stuck on yourself cuz you think you are such a cool dude and others are turning off their gay broadcasting until you pass by. Your statement above really does come across as "I love me. Who do you love?" You might want to REALLY chill and get over yourself first. And then maybe someone will want to meet you.
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    Oct 21, 2010 1:33 PM GMT
    Masculine gay men are everywhere. You just have to open your eyes.

    If you want a better chance of meeting masculine gay men, think about what masculine men like to do (and i am gonna generalize here)...Play sports, be outdoors, drink beer, lift weights, etc. So unless you are doing those things, you will have a lower chance of meeting these guys.

    The first thing you need to do is open yourself up to all people.
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    Oct 21, 2010 1:46 PM GMT
    So you are looking for guys who you can´t really tell are gay, and then you complain that you can´t really tell if they are gay.

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    I sympathise with what you are getting at, but the way you set this up is

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    Oct 21, 2010 3:25 PM GMT
    GAYBIGMACHODUDE is also looking more big masculine guys to bike around town in Wisconsin.
  • str8hardbody9

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    Oct 21, 2010 3:29 PM GMT
    I would say go to Prague, Czech Republic I met so many hot masculine guys over there. I'm often in Europe but Prague blew them away! HOT HOT MEN!!
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    Oct 21, 2010 3:32 PM GMT
    str8hardbody9 saidI would say go to Prague, Czech Republic I met so many hot masculine guys over there. I'm often in Europe but Prague blew them away! HOT HOT MEN!!


    I concur that men in Prague are hot as hell.

    I find the US expression 'chill' hilarious. You guys use it like "I am chill" which makes no sense - it should be "I am chilled" surely? Crazy yanks icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 21, 2010 3:32 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidSo you are looking for guys who you can´t really tell are gay, and then you complain that you can´t really tell if they are gay.

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    I sympathise with what you are getting at, but the way you set this up is

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    BWAHAHAHAHHAHAHA!!! dammit lostboy! i spit out my tea laughing as i read your post! i'm just glad i wasn't facing my computer.

    will you stop being so damn clever and sexy already?!

    (no. not really. icon_biggrin.gif )
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    Oct 21, 2010 3:45 PM GMT
    brownbear787 said
    Hey Guys,
    So I feel like (at least in my area), most of the gay men I meet are really effeminate or socially awkward.
    Where are some places you have met average masculine men





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    Oct 21, 2010 3:51 PM GMT
    Can I save my breath and have those of you who've read my previous responses to anti-femme diatribes just give this guy the Cliff Notes? icon_rolleyes.gif