When in a longtime monogamous relationship...who hasn't thought about....THE FREEBIE!

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    Oct 19, 2010 7:43 AM GMT
    I just saw the new trailer for THE FREEBIE and couldn't help but ask myself the same question. Watch here...


    The deal: one night of freedom, no strings attached, no questions asked. This film is gonna be quite interesting! What would you do?
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    Oct 19, 2010 7:55 AM GMT
    I'd hit it.
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    Oct 19, 2010 12:08 PM GMT
    I know a long term married couple that do almost exactly that. He goes away fishing for 4-5 days and she always goes on a cruise with the girls. And they have a dont ask dont tell policy and have for years.
  • Timbales

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    Oct 19, 2010 12:27 PM GMT
    I have a "Honey, You'd Just Have To Understand List" but it's for celebs.
  • redrocketmpls

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    Oct 19, 2010 12:37 PM GMT
    No way! Afterwards you have to wait 6 weeks and get tested again... Not worth it.
  • commoncoll

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    Oct 19, 2010 3:10 PM GMT
    Why change when it's going good for you?
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    Oct 19, 2010 3:20 PM GMT
    redrocketmpls saidNo way! Afterwards you have to wait 6 weeks and get tested again... Not worth it.

    I would hope you're both mature enough and love each other enough that you would minimize such risks. HIV is not as easy to contract as many may think. Just don't be a kamikaze dick. As for other stuff... well... hard to say.

    Honestly though - all that said - I think this may be the #1 or 2 reason I was monogamous for 11 years. Just simpler/less risky.
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    Oct 19, 2010 4:31 PM GMT
    No way, it'll just open the door for more drama in the future. I can already rationalize doing it more often than once. For instance, if it was okay the first time and no harm was done, why can't we do it again? A simple answer to this can be further expanded.

    I would keep away from this if I wanted to keep my relationship monogamous. However, this would be a good idea if I was considering opening my relationship. I am not in a relationship right now so everyday is an open relationship. Whoa what a slut.
  • BlackBeltGuy

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    Dec 09, 2010 9:40 PM GMT
    I have a "celebrity pass clause" in contract.