Talk about your man!

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    Oct 20, 2010 6:09 AM GMT
    Just curious about this:

    1. Where/How did you meet your guy?

    2. What do you do to show your guy that you love (or, at least appreciate, if you're not quite there yet) him?
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    Oct 20, 2010 7:28 AM GMT
    I met one of them in Yahoo chat over 7 years ago.
    I met one of them on adam4adam about 4 years ago.
    I met one of them in a bar in St Petersburg.
    I met one of them in the club on South Beach.
    I met two of them through work, but they both live in London and only visit here once or twice a year on business.
    I met another one through work, but he lives in Canada and only visits here once or twice a year on business.
    I met my latest at a club in Ft. Lauderdale a couple weeks ago, but that one probably won't last as long as the others 'cause he's wanting a monogamous LTR with someone, instead of polygamous.

    Edit: Oh yeah, and to show love, we simply stay in touch with other regularly and enjoy each other's company when we're together...sometimes sexually, sometimes not.
  • wander2340

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    Oct 20, 2010 12:24 PM GMT
    Found mine on Yahoo personals about 12 years ago.

    We both do small things everyday to show we care. Could be a chore around the house or snuggling in the bed.
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    Oct 20, 2010 12:31 PM GMT
    1. At work

    2. Probably not enough! We are buying a house together though so I'm sure he is aware!
  • nadaquever_rm

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    Oct 20, 2010 12:38 PM GMT
    1. nightclub

    2. share my life with him & let him share his life with me
  • Iakona

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    Oct 20, 2010 1:52 PM GMT
    1, We were both working on different cruise ships, met at a gay club in St. Petersburg, then had a date in every port that we ported together in.

    2. It's the little things that we do for each other that shows that we love each other.....and they always mean the most too.
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    Oct 20, 2010 1:58 PM GMT
    wander2340 saidFound mine on Yahoo personals about 12 years ago.

    We both do small things everyday to show we care. Could be a chore around the house or snuggling in the bed.



    Awesome! I met mine on the same place seven years ago next week!

    We also do small things. Little surprises here and there, and unexpected email or text saying something nice, an unscheduled massage. And then there are the things we do that aren't for public mention. icon_smile.gif

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    Oct 20, 2010 2:00 PM GMT
    never had one
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    Oct 20, 2010 2:35 PM GMT
    Current one in a night club (backroom ). Just started but going well.

    Keep in touch, am affectionate, cook for him, tell how much I enjoy spending time with him.
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    Oct 20, 2010 2:46 PM GMT
    wander2340 saidFound mine on Yahoo personals about 12 years ago.

    We both do small things everyday to show we care. Could be a chore around the house or snuggling in the bed.


    Just wanted to say thats a nice photo and I hope for that one day.

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    Oct 20, 2010 5:53 PM GMT
    We met on Gay.com over 10 years ago.

    I’m the romantic one in the relationship, so I do things almost daily: today I got up early so I could wash his car and fill the tank for him, because I know he won’t have time before work to do it.
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    Oct 20, 2010 8:32 PM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidWe met on Gay.com over 10 years ago.

    I’m the romantic one in the relationship, so I do things almost daily: today I got up early so I could wash his car and fill the tank for him, because I know he won’t have time before work to do it.


    Aww that's so sweet icon_biggrin.gif

    My heart just melted lol. icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 20, 2010 8:51 PM GMT
    1) At a local gay happy hour.

    2) Always making sure he's taken care of, from making him dinner to never missing a chance to tell him how much I love him, to scratching his back when there's an itch he can't reach icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 20, 2010 9:44 PM GMT
    Met one at BoyBar in 1986 (four years)
    Met next online - a NYC based gay-chat site in... hmmm. 95? (two years)
    Met last at 3:45am at Boiler Room Bar in NYC in '98 (11 years)

    Will meet my next one - if I haven't already and don't know it - god knows where. There is no pattern for me.

    What I love about NYC is that you can meet guys EVERYWHERE because you are not in an anti-social isolated car all the time. One is actually interacting with the world in various and random ways. Anything is possible. icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 20, 2010 9:46 PM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidWe met on Gay.com over 10 years ago.

    I’m the romantic one in the relationship, so I do things almost daily: today I got up early so I could wash his car and fill the tank for him, because I know he won’t have time before work to do it.

    Wow - that's almost TOO sweet. icon_twisted.gif
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    Oct 20, 2010 9:50 PM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidtoday I got up early so I could wash his car and fill the tank for him, because I know he won’t have time before work to do it.


    Very thoughtful -- and he had better have brought you home flowers or something sweet for that. icon_lol.gif My boyfriend can wash his own damn car!!! Oh, hmmmmmm, maybe THAT's why I'm single icon_eek.gif
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    Oct 20, 2010 9:59 PM GMT
    1. At an event at his church 7 1/2 years ago... I tell everyone we have an arranged marriage because our respective priests set us up.

    2. get and cook foods he likes, get the knots out of his back, brag about him, cuddling, etc.
  • thegr50

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    Oct 20, 2010 11:40 PM GMT
    It will work for you, just be a little patient & you'll get the man that you are looking for.....I am talking to a couple of guys and met them both on line.....so I think patients is the key. we are just dating now we just gonna see how it go's
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    Oct 20, 2010 11:42 PM GMT
    1) We met at a wedding

    2) I taught him how to drive in my beloved car.


    THAT'S love
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    Oct 21, 2010 1:18 AM GMT
    one of my all time favorite threads on RealJock
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    Oct 21, 2010 2:41 AM GMT
    RPMSoccer saidone of my all time favorite threads on RealJock


    Heh, thanks.

    I posted it because I just started my first relationship one to two months ago (depending on when one defines a relationship epoch). In this short amount of time, he has changed me from being the bitter, cynical guy that I once was, who thought that he was totally incapable of having feelings for others.

    I'm crazy about him, and now that I finally understand how relationships are important, I was wanting to gain insight from the relationships of others.
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    Oct 21, 2010 3:00 AM GMT
    I met my guy through mutual friends. We were acquaintances for a few years before we dated.

    As far as showing love, arranging "dates" for us to go on. Asking him what errands I can do for him when he is busy.
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    Oct 21, 2010 3:55 AM GMT
    1. We met here on RealJock!

    2. I try to be myself at all times, remain open, honest, communicative and trusting... And throw in a couple silly surprises here and there.
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    Oct 21, 2010 4:04 AM GMT
    Met my first bf through a mutual friend whose intention was to make us hook-up. we sure did but the relationship only lasted 3 months.

    Met my second bf at a "starbucks"; had a reunion with a group of friends and since then we dated for 6 months; broke up for 1 year and now recently he is knocking at my door again icon_smile.gif

    Whenever driving home from work we would hold hands and talk about the days activities; at the stop lights i would lay a wet kiss on him. the days we didnt kiss it would feel awkward hehe. Whenever it was pay day we would dine out; and i particularly liked going grocecy shopping.
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    Oct 21, 2010 4:12 AM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidWe met on Gay.com over 10 years ago.

    I’m the romantic one in the relationship, so I do things almost daily: today I got up early so I could wash his car and fill the tank for him, because I know he won’t have time before work to do it.


    if only all guys were like this...


    and btw never had a bf.