getting to know you

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    Oct 23, 2010 7:03 PM GMT
    so, i was contacted by a guy he left me his phone number i called, he's cute he's slim he's fem, now here's the rub. i am new to the scene and i told him this as well as the fact that i am really just looking for someone to hang out with, you know make a friend and see where it goes, the conversation went good and he said hed like to talk more this evening after he gets off work, now he did make a statement that threw me off a tad,he said "if you find a fem you should just snatch him up and take it. dont worry about the friendship stuff" now i am naive at times but eh,..well considering he's the first guy i have spoken to since i left my wife i dont know what to think, i think he was refering to the area at which we live but i dont know, what do you guys think?
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    Oct 23, 2010 7:16 PM GMT
    charliefaust said...what do you guys think?

    Don't over-analyze. Go with the flow, see how it works out. Maybe good, maybe bad. All part of the learning experience.

    Being new to the scene, you need these lessons. Obviously use some common sense, don't get involved with a total jerk. But if he seems half-way decent, just see what happens.

    Every guy you meet educates you for the next one. You learn by meeting guys, not by avoiding them, the good ones and the bad ones. Until the day comes when Mr. Right crosses your path. And trust me, you'll know when that happens.
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    Oct 23, 2010 7:17 PM GMT
    aye good point
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    Oct 24, 2010 4:38 AM GMT
    "Until the day comes when Mr. Right crosses your path."


    ...and sometimes (but thankfully not always!) it takes a few Mr Wrongs to learn how to tell when Mr Right shows up.

    -Doug