Being Single is....BORING!

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    Oct 25, 2010 5:35 PM GMT
    You know its true...

    I feel like even when I was dealing with bullshyt guys, it at least helped me pass the down time...LOL...Getting the text messages and calls throughout the day and going out for drinks or watching movies together...There's a void left when that is gone...

    Don't get me wrong, I don't mind being single and I'm cool with enjoying my own company...but its the occasional loneliness that just gets boring...

    Oh cool, my favorite meal...alone...

    Wow i love watching this movie....all by myself...

    Oh look, my phone isn't ringing....at all...

    I don't have new dates lined up every other night and I don't get much out of random anonymous hookups so that means many nights alone...

    Anyone else relate?
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    Oct 26, 2010 2:44 PM GMT
    All too well.
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    Oct 26, 2010 2:48 PM GMT
    Me too my friend and for whole my life hehe but i have my friends so not that much boring icon_biggrin.gif
  • Stephan

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    Oct 26, 2010 2:48 PM GMT
    Gee, the story of my life! lol
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    Oct 26, 2010 3:01 PM GMT
    Welcome to my life. Always, and forever.

    I don't know, though. I'm so used to being on my own, as it is all I have ever known, that I think I would be an awful person to date anyway. I would have no idea how to be with anyone else, and I might end up being frustrated by a lack of total independence.

    but who knows, right? Time will tell, as with all things.
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    Oct 26, 2010 3:05 PM GMT
    Being single is...EXCITING!

    Oh cool, my favorite meal...with a friend.

    Wow I love watching this movie...with a friend.

    Oh look, I missed 3 calls from friends while taking taking a shit.

    Although, I do have a date lined up for tomorrow with the barback I've been eyeballing for the past three years.
    Yay! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 26, 2010 3:05 PM GMT
    sighhhhh. yup I understand.
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    Oct 26, 2010 3:06 PM GMT
    Why do we always look at the negative side of being single? Does it suck at times? Sure. I've been single for quite some time and I do get down some days about being single like we all do. But lets look at the positives of being single:
    -Answering only to yourself
    -Doing as you please
    -Eating where and how you want
    -Cooking meals to your liking
    -Not having to worry about your spouse/partner/boyfriend
    -Focusing on and spending time with your friends and family
    -Being able to flirt with whomever you please
    -Not feeling guilty for looking at a hot man
    -Being able to find out who you are and what you want and hope for in life
    -Learning to be happy with yourself
  • kennyj08

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    Oct 26, 2010 3:07 PM GMT
    Not exactly... Yeah it would be nice to share the good times with some one special but if you have your family and friends thats all that should matter. No need to eat alone or watch a movie by yourself when you have people in your life, like your friends/family, that can eat/watch with you. icon_smile.gif

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    Oct 26, 2010 3:18 PM GMT
    I will agree it is boring
  • natsimjac1988

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    Oct 26, 2010 3:20 PM GMT
    if being single is boring, then ur doing it wrong icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 26, 2010 3:28 PM GMT
    I don't find it boring at all. My life is full of so much excitement and adventure everyday.
    It's kinda a drag when guys text me and expect me to respond right away, because sometimes I'm just busy.

    Sure having a boyfriend is nice, but if he's not the 'one' you're gonna be with until you're old; He's a waste of time.
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    Oct 26, 2010 3:30 PM GMT
    I love being single.I love all of freedom that comes with being single gay
    man alot.
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    Oct 26, 2010 3:34 PM GMT
    hauptstimme saidbut if he's not the 'one' you're gonna be with until you're old; He's a waste of time.

    Why is he a waste of time if he's not with you until you're old?
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    Oct 26, 2010 3:34 PM GMT
    kennyj08 saidNot exactly... Yeah it would be nice to share the good times with some one special but if you have your family and friends thats all that should matter. No need to eat alone or watch a movie by yourself when you have people in your life, like your friends/family, that can eat/watch with you. icon_smile.gif


    I completely agree. It really doesn't have to be all that lonely and boring. Plan things with friends and keep yourself busy. Relationships are great but if it's not with the right person it can feel very lonely, boring and frustrating.
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    Oct 26, 2010 3:43 PM GMT
    I agree with whoever said if its boring you're doing it wrong. You gotta be able to meet people at random and just have fun. No stress about it makes it way easier to have fun and care a lot less. Play the game for sure
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    Oct 26, 2010 3:44 PM GMT
    running11 saidI agree with whoever said if its boring you're doing it wrong. You gotta be able to meet people at random and just have fun. No stress about it makes it way easier to have fun a care a lot less. Play the game for sure


    Can you come out to play?
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    Oct 26, 2010 3:48 PM GMT
    MeOhMy said
    running11 saidI agree with whoever said if its boring you're doing it wrong. You gotta be able to meet people at random and just have fun. No stress about it makes it way easier to have fun a care a lot less. Play the game for sure


    Can you come out to play?


    Only if I'm getting a good night kiss
  • kencarson

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    Oct 26, 2010 4:02 PM GMT
    Yes, it can be lonely. But being single is a great time to look within and figure out you a little bit more. When you have a relationship, you have someone else your responsible for taking care of (on some level). When your single, all you you have to worry about it your feelings, your motivations, your life. It's a great time to figure out what you really want and to work for it.

    And figuring that out, will make you a better boyfriend when you do find someone.
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    Oct 26, 2010 4:05 PM GMT
    kencarson saidYes, it can be lonely. But being single is a great time to look within and figure out you a little bit more. When you have a relationship, you have someone else your responsible for taking care of (on some level). When your single, all you you have to worry about it your feelings, your motivations, your life. It's a great time to figure out what you really want and to work for it.

    And figuring that out, will make you a better boyfriend when you do find someone.


    Well said!
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    Oct 26, 2010 4:09 PM GMT
    being single is the dogs bollocks, you can do what you like when you like, throw routines out of the window, date different guys to test the water, go out with friends, and enjoy having your alone time where you can blast your favouurite songs (missy elliott) whilst dancing at home in ur boxers, eat yor favourite meals everyday, meet new and interesting people as and when you please, or old friends when ever you get that lonely/bored feeling....and then go back to your kick ass single self. icon_cool.gificon_cool.gif

    I think a relationship with your ideal guy, or one who becomes your ideal guy would be f-ing ace, but otherwise, imo, a relationship with somebody just for the sake of not being alone ends up being suffocating claustrophobic and entirely aggrovating.

    Great friendships can fill that void. Relationship (for me) are for when you get knocked off your feet and loose all sense of dignity and composure for the intoxicating feeling of love for somebody which more than likely appeared out of the blue....Gd times.
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    Oct 26, 2010 4:11 PM GMT
    running11 said
    MeOhMy said
    running11 saidI agree with whoever said if its boring you're doing it wrong. You gotta be able to meet people at random and just have fun. No stress about it makes it way easier to have fun a care a lot less. Play the game for sure


    Can you come out to play?


    Only if I'm getting a good night kiss


    Fiiiine.
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    Oct 26, 2010 4:12 PM GMT
    Sage_Humour saidbeing single is the dogs bollocks, you can do what you like when you like, throw routines out of the window, date different guys to test the water, go out with friends, and enjoy having your alone time where you can blast your favouurite songs (missy elliott) whilst dancing at home in ur boxers, eat yor favourite meals everyday, meet new and interesting people as and when you please, or old friends when ever you get that lonely/bored feeling....and then go back to your kick ass single self. icon_cool.gificon_cool.gif

    I think a relationship with your ideal guy, or one who becomes your ideal guy would be f-ing ace, but otherwise, imo, a relationship with somebody just for the sake of not being alone ends up being suffocating claustrophobic and entirely aggrovating.

    Great friendships can fill that void. Relationship (for me) are for when you get knocked off your feet and loose all sense of dignity and composure for the intoxicating feeling of love for somebody which more than likely appeared out of the blue....Gd times.


    Damn that's well said bro. I'm gon give an amen to that one!
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    Oct 26, 2010 4:15 PM GMT
    MeOhMy said
    running11 said
    MeOhMy said
    running11 saidI agree with whoever said if its boring you're doing it wrong. You gotta be able to meet people at random and just have fun. No stress about it makes it way easier to have fun a care a lot less. Play the game for sure


    Can you come out to play?


    Only if I'm getting a good night kiss


    Fiiiine.


    Oh not from you, from one of your sexy friends. ;) sorry bro should've clarified: D






    I kid I kid
  • Regina_Guy

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    Oct 26, 2010 4:16 PM GMT
    I think you have a little bit of "the grass is greener on the other side" syndrome. Enjoy being single while you have it. Like many other people have said, go out and have fun. Be confident in who you are, and don't worry about not having a bf. The perfect guy always seems to come along when you're not looking icon_smile.gif