KardioKing saidHow does one initiate wrestling in briefs? Do you guys hang out together in your underwear? Seriously, I'm curious. Either way, I don't think that could be considered straight behavior by any means.
Wrestling in underwear does not make a gay guy. When you're in the military there's very little privacy and everyone sees you naked all the time. You even shower together with other dudes and we sometimes get playful (towel smacks, wedgies, whatever). That stuff is just normal cuz you know the guys and ur pretty relaxed. Doesn't mean they're all gay. Sometimes there's wrestling too when people are bored. Usually shirtless or in shorts cuz it's just easier to wrestle that way. I wouldn't say the guy is gay because he wants to wrestle in underwear. I know it may seem like a homoerotic wet dream for most of you but really it's just not a big of a deal, especially if he trains in MMA seriously. The culture is just different. Most ppl don't understand it. I get why gay guys fantasize over this stuff but it's cuz they just don't get it.
In sports or other activities with lots of strong guys and testosterone flowing, dudes will always be messing around in ways that seem sexual but arent'. Like players smakcing each other asses or kissing after scoring a try/goal. I ve had str8 friends grab my junk or ass regularly and it's no big deal either. I know for sure some are not gay. But you can always tell the ones who want some dick from the ones who just play around...lol.
I disagree with guys on here saying ur bud is gay for sure or that he just doesnt wanna come out. I mean it could be that hes gay but just from the wrestling or showering you can't form that opinion. Just talk to him. if he knows you're gay and he is too, maybe that will let him know it's ok to do something. but dont expect him to be all over this shit. it could be that this is all in ur head.