PLEASE HELP!

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    Oct 26, 2010 9:05 AM GMT
    I am so desperate and miserable. I was abandoned by my family and my father almost killed me(for being gay). I am from Iraq but now a refugee and my morale is almost zero that I tried to kill myself many times but did not have the guts. The worse thing is that I am faithless because I stopped believing in God after my mother was killed in a terrorist attack, why did that LOVING GOD allow this bad thing happen to this nice woman?and every time I remember how she died in painful way i just start crying(and i am crying while writing this) I was a post-grad student with a loving family but now my life is totally ruined!

    WHAT SHOULD I DO???
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    Nov 16, 2010 6:53 AM GMT
    get up dust yourself off and keep on living. as cold as that may sound u have to keep living.
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    Nov 16, 2010 3:00 PM GMT


    It's a good idea to separate god from religion. Religion will tell you god meddles in the affairs of men, but that's not true. People killed your Mom, bad people.

    I'm very glad you didn't kill yourself, because what you are saying is important and opens the eyes of those that think being gay does not make life more difficult, because it can. It can also be wonderful.

    hugs -Doug

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    Nov 16, 2010 4:57 PM GMT
    admen saidWHAT SHOULD I DO???
    I have no idea what to do in your situation, but you can contact The Trevor Project and they might be able to offer some assistance.
    Here's the link to write them directly:
    http://www.thetrevorproject.org/node/add/dear-trevor
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    Nov 16, 2010 5:04 PM GMT
    I'm sorry to hear about your loss. It would be much better for you to honor your mother by living than by dying. Make yourself into something she would be proud of! Also, take happiness in the little things in life. Food to eat, clothes to wear, and the beauty of the natural world.
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    Dec 27, 2010 12:08 AM GMT
    Hey I am very sorry for what's going on in your life. I can't believe not many bothered to post a least a few words of encouragement and comfort. There are endless posts on those stupid "rate the guy above you" posts.... but when it comes to a post from a person seeking advice, they turn away. How sad.

    Anyway, my advice for you is to hang on, okay. I know it's hard and it's not going to be easy, but suicide is not the answer. Keep hope alive and know that there are people out there that want to help you. If you need any help, please message me when you want. I will do anything I can to help you. Please stay strong and look to the future with hope. Take care, okay!