smitten with a one date/night stand

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    Oct 28, 2010 2:44 AM GMT
    Hi, I finally decided to meet this guy I've been chatting and texting with last sunday. We really hit it off...we talked and went to a bar then a comedy club. He was so hot everyone was looking at us when we walked in...well at him maybe. At the comedy club we weren't even listening to the comedian because we were too busy kissing each other passionately...we couldn't control ourselves.
    I went to his place. and we were so crazy with each other...we did it three times ...coming back from the lounge...then around 5 am then after waking up....I didn't showered cuz I wanted his smell to linger on me as I went to my class the same day.

    I can't get this guy off my mind!!! I texted him to say hello and how his day was but he hasn't replied...I'm going nuts!!! I am so smitten by him.

    at bed when he drifted back to sleep we were embracing and cuddling and I was stroking his long blond hair. I was thinking I could really love this guy.

    I thought there was really a spark between us... or is he maybe just scared?
    I haven't texted him back since he hasn't replied but I am going nuts! I really can't stop thinking of him.Help guys!!!!icon_sad.gificon_sad.gificon_sad.gificon_sad.gif
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    Oct 28, 2010 4:44 AM GMT
    Dude, back off and give him the space to respond on his own time. If he still hasn't then it was a one-night stand.
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    Oct 28, 2010 4:51 AM GMT
    RainNYCI was thinking I could really love this guy.



    uhm... love him?! After your first time hanging out? icon_eek.gif Perhaps that spark you felt between you was just lust. Don't mean to rain on your parade here, just saying don't get your hopes up too high. There are tons of guys who hit it and quit it, and they can REALLY fool you.
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    Oct 28, 2010 4:52 AM GMT
    Bear this rule of thumb forever: If he is not responding or initiating any text messages, emails, or phone calls, he's not really interested in you. I learned it the hard way and it finally is starting to sink in.
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    Oct 28, 2010 4:58 AM GMT
    Sounds like you had a good time. Don't ruin the chance of another one by being too persistent and coming on too strong.

    At best you get another chance at awesome sex and maybe something worthwhile.

    At worst, he doesn't call back hence isn't interested.

    Either way you had a blast so enjoy that moment.
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    Oct 31, 2010 2:08 PM GMT
    based on the title, u seem to know that it's a one-night-stand, so don't give ur hope up.
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    Oct 31, 2010 2:20 PM GMT
    RainNYC saidHi, I finally decided to meet this guy I've been chatting and texting with last sunday. We really hit it off...we talked and went to a bar then a comedy club. He was so hot everyone was looking at us when we walked in...well at him maybe. At the comedy club we weren't even listening to the comedian because we were too busy kissing each other passionately...we couldn't control ourselves.
    I went to his place. and we were so crazy with each other...we did it three times ...coming back from the lounge...then around 5 am then after waking up....I didn't showered cuz I wanted his smell to linger on me as I went to my class the same day.

    I can't get this guy off my mind!!! I texted him to say hello and how his day was but he hasn't replied...I'm going nuts!!! I am so smitten by him.

    at bed when he drifted back to sleep we were embracing and cuddling and I was stroking his long blond hair. I was thinking I could really love this guy.

    I thought there was really a spark between us... or is he maybe just scared?
    I haven't texted him back since he hasn't replied but I am going nuts! I really can't stop thinking of him.Help guys!!!!icon_sad.gificon_sad.gificon_sad.gificon_sad.gif


    I'm glad I am not taking the same class as you.

    Leave it alone - both of you cum dumped. If he's into you he will contact you.
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    Oct 31, 2010 2:50 PM GMT
    dude, you need to get out do something. the only thing you are doing is making yourself crazy. why don't you get out and go see some friends or go and get a workout. do anything to distract you. anyhow, it is probably a one night stand. if he hasn't contacted you back then that is probably what it was. however, i am hoping you both feel the same way.
    oh yeah, do not contact him back again. if does not respond to your text then it is a sign he is not interested