I love this site ... But hate the superficial gym rats with a chip on they're shoulder.

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    Oct 28, 2010 5:28 AM GMT
    i just re-joined this site after a hiatus ... i love realjock ... but whats with the huge population of cocky dudes who think the only thing that matters is a six pack and ripped abs. in the long run ... how important is it?

    doesn't say much about gay people as a collective ... superficiality and cocky gym rats dominate a huge portion of this site.

    ripped up tight bodies aren't even sexy to me ...

    there are a lot of sexy dudes who are in good shape with meat on them and have really sexy facial features. that's so hot to me. not a fitness model with expectations and an agenda.

    im so sick of gay dudes with a chip on they're shoulder who shove they're preference for gym rats down everyone's throat ... god forbid you hit them up to say whats up. how dare you.

    get over yourself motherfuckers ... when your looks fail you in your old age ... i look forward to the young guy who won't want anything to do with you and looks the other way.


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    Oct 28, 2010 6:13 AM GMT
    Rugged13 saidi love realjock ... but whats with the huge population of cocky dudes who think the only thing that matters is a six pack and ripped abs. in the long run ... how important is it?
    eyeknowrite?
    These fuckers need to learn that biceps rule the world. Fuck all that other shit. icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 28, 2010 6:37 AM GMT
    Ah man, don’t be hate’n, ripped guys need love too.
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    Oct 28, 2010 7:12 AM GMT
    Good post man; 99.999% of gay men are superficial and shallow and worth only the energy it takes to laugh at their pathetic asses.


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    Oct 28, 2010 7:18 AM GMT
    It's a fitness site. What did you expect to find here? Nuns?
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    Oct 28, 2010 7:27 AM GMT
    Sarcadonic saidGood post man; 99.999% of gay men are superficial and shallow and worth only the energy it takes to laugh at their pathetic asses.




    As is true also of trolls...
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    Oct 28, 2010 7:31 AM GMT
    Caslon16000 saidIt's a fitness site. What did you expect to find here? Nuns?
    Certainly not priests...everyone here is of legal age.
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    Oct 28, 2010 7:50 AM GMT
    i def expected to find guys who were in shape

    what i didn't realize ... is that pretensions and gay fitness must be synonymous
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    Oct 28, 2010 7:58 AM GMT
    Unfortunately a lot of attractive guys develop massive egos, and they do so to shield the fact they are actually incredibly insecure!

    I don't give a second thought to guys who are rude, disrespectful and think they are a cut above everyone else. Like you say, looks fade, pecs will sag, what really counts is heart, soul and personality. That's what these people don't realise - they spend all their time working on their body and nothing else. I think to be truly healthy and an attractive person, you should develop your mind, body and spirit in equal measure (sorry to go all Oprah).
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    Oct 28, 2010 7:58 AM GMT
    Rugged13 saidi def expected to find guys who were in shape

    what i didn't realize ... is that pretensions and gay fitness must be synonymous
    Nah, there are a few down2earth buff guys.
    I saw one once at Starbucks.
  • tajsreve

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    Oct 28, 2010 8:07 AM GMT
    superficial is superficial.
    bitchy is bitchy
    fat or skinny, buff or flab.
    When I was single...
    I had guys turn me down because I wasn't buff enough, and they weren't as buff as I was.
    I also had guys turn me down who were more buff. so whatever.
    I was no longer interested in someone if all they were interested in was phyical appearence.
    I was also not interested in people who were more interested in eating, sitting and chilling out than exercising, or the reverse. Life has way more to offer than extremes of any kind.
    Give me someone who can find balance in their lives.
    and AMEN to this.
    "im so sick of gay dudes with a chip on they're shoulder"
    But in contrast to the op... I would say that if someone has worked damnned hard to get a rock hard body... well cocky is just gonna happen!

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    Oct 28, 2010 8:32 AM GMT
    tajsreve saidBut in contrast to the op... I would say that if someone has worked damnned hard to get a rock hard body... well cocky is just gonna happen!
    I literally practiced being cocky just to pull off the looks I want to show in pics. icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 28, 2010 9:38 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    tajsreve saidBut in contrast to the op... I would say that if someone has worked damnned hard to get a rock hard body... well cocky is just gonna happen!
    I literally practiced being cocky just to pull off the looks I want to show in pics. icon_lol.gif


    but, can you do "cocky"... with your cock? icon_lol.gif
  • OJ89

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    Oct 28, 2010 9:44 AM GMT
    I can see what you mean.
    I'm a cardio guy personally, I don't think I'll ever sport as a rippling wave of muscle, but my fitness is really high.
    There's nothing wrong with guys being confident; proud of what they've worked hard for. But I agree, less attitude the better :-)
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    Oct 28, 2010 12:02 PM GMT
    Rugged13 saidi just re-joined this site after a hiatus ... i love realjock ... but whats with the huge population of cocky dudes who think the only thing that matters is a six pack and ripped abs. in the long run ... how important is it?

    doesn't say much about gay people as a collective ... superficiality and cocky gym rats dominate a huge portion of this site.

    ripped up tight bodies aren't even sexy to me ...

    there are a lot of sexy dudes who are in good shape with meat on them and have really sexy facial features. that's so hot to me. not a fitness model with expectations and an agenda.

    im so sick of gay dudes with a chip on they're shoulder who shove they're preference for gym rats down everyone's throat ... god forbid you hit them up to say whats up. how dare you.

    get over yourself motherfuckers ... when your looks fail you in your old age ... i look forward to the young guy who won't want anything to do with you and looks the other way.



    I thought you people were supposed to be jolly.
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    Oct 28, 2010 1:28 PM GMT
    Caslon16000 saidIt's a fitness site. What did you expect to find here? Nuns?


    Fitness and Nuns in the same thought.. Sorry I just got the idea for a new magazine.. Religion Fitness Monthly.

    Paul, never change, you crack me up.

    As for the OP.. Do you think that your post will really change anything? It comes off as just mean/hot headed babble... Just roll with the punches, you can't be expected to like everyone.. Why try? Also welcome back, There is a reason you came back, focus on that and not what bothers ya. =)
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    Oct 28, 2010 2:02 PM GMT
    Rugged13 saidi just re-joined this site after a hiatus ... i love realjock ... but whats with the huge population of cocky dudes who think the only thing that matters is a six pack and ripped abs. in the long run ... how important is it?

    doesn't say much about gay people as a collective ... superficiality and cocky gym rats dominate a huge portion of this site.

    ripped up tight bodies aren't even sexy to me ...

    there are a lot of sexy dudes who are in good shape with meat on them and have really sexy facial features. that's so hot to me. not a fitness model with expectations and an agenda.

    im so sick of gay dudes with a chip on they're shoulder who shove they're preference for gym rats down everyone's throat ... god forbid you hit them up to say whats up. how dare you.

    get over yourself motherfuckers ... when your looks fail you in your old age ... i look forward to the young guy who won't want anything to do with you and looks the other way.



    I thought you people were supposed to be jolly.
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    Oct 28, 2010 4:00 PM GMT
    Well you did join a site specifically catered to athletes and bodybuilders. You had to expect that, right? Personally, I feel like you're kind of shoving your preferences down our throats. Sorry I'm generally not attracted to non-athletic guys; it's just the way I am.

    Besides, if these guys annoy you, why not just ignore them?

    Rugged13get over yourself motherfuckers ... when your looks fail you in your old age ... i look forward to the young guy who won't want anything to do with you and looks the other way.

    Who cares? Young girls don't icon_twisted.gif

    Sarcadonic saidGood post man; 99.999% of gay men are superficial and shallow and worth only the energy it takes to laugh at their pathetic asses.

    lol icon_rolleyes.gif

    Anyway, why all the hate? Don't we all get enough of that?
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    Oct 28, 2010 4:02 PM GMT
    tajsreve said
    paulflexes said
    tajsreve saidBut in contrast to the op... I would say that if someone has worked damnned hard to get a rock hard body... well cocky is just gonna happen!
    I literally practiced being cocky just to pull off the looks I want to show in pics. icon_lol.gif


    but, can you do "cocky"... with your cock? icon_lol.gif
    Of course! Wanna see? icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 28, 2010 4:34 PM GMT
    In the time I've been here I haven't really seen any bad attitude towards out of shape guys who are sincerely trying to get into shape. It is a fitness site after all however there is a great number and probably increasing number of guys who have absolutely zero interest in it. They're only here to chat and add to their virtual "friends" list
  • HndsmKansan

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    Oct 28, 2010 5:14 PM GMT
    There are many here (and I mean many) who look beyond the hot picture and value the person of quality they perceive as they chat. It isn't just about gym bunnies.

    I love fitness, my exercising, what I've accomplished, but my conversations and friendships here aren't based on hot photos.
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    Oct 28, 2010 5:33 PM GMT
    Rugged13 saidi just re-joined this site after a hiatus ... i love realjock ... but whats with the huge population of cocky dudes who think the only thing that matters is a six pack and ripped abs. in the long run ... how important is it?

    doesn't say much about gay people as a collective ... superficiality and cocky gym rats dominate a huge portion of this site.

    ripped up tight bodies aren't even sexy to me ...

    there are a lot of sexy dudes who are in good shape with meat on them and have really sexy facial features. that's so hot to me. not a fitness model with expectations and an agenda.

    im so sick of gay dudes with a chip on they're shoulder who shove they're preference for gym rats down everyone's throat ... god forbid you hit them up to say whats up. how dare you.

    get over yourself motherfuckers ... when your looks fail you in your old age ... i look forward to the young guy who won't want anything to do with you and looks the other way.




    You forgot that the majority of them don't even play sports and still consider themselves jocks and athletes. icon_confused.gif
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    Oct 28, 2010 6:56 PM GMT
    Rugged13 saidi just re-joined this site after a hiatus ... i love realjock ... but whats with the huge population of cocky dudes who think the only thing that matters is a six pack and ripped abs. in the long run ... how important is it?

    doesn't say much about gay people as a collective ... superficiality and cocky gym rats dominate a huge portion of this site.

    ripped up tight bodies aren't even sexy to me ...

    there are a lot of sexy dudes who are in good shape with meat on them and have really sexy facial features. that's so hot to me. not a fitness model with expectations and an agenda.

    im so sick of gay dudes with a chip on they're shoulder who shove they're preference for gym rats down everyone's throat ... god forbid you hit them up to say whats up. how dare you.

    get over yourself motherfuckers ... when your looks fail you in your old age ... i look forward to the young guy who won't want anything to do with you and looks the other way.



    You could leave again, I suppose.
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    Oct 29, 2010 2:53 AM GMT
    OP - Do you need a hug?icon_smile.gif