NYC Dating Scene

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    Oct 29, 2010 4:21 AM GMT
    How's the New York dating scene.

    I've heard the New York dating scene is incredibly hard for young single people- even straight people. I recently moved to the city and am a bit put off by this as I'm ready to finally start dating.

    Is it really hard in NYC? One of the draws of this city is that there is someone for everyone for single people and people here are pretty social. Maybe people who think it's hard are trying are trying to force it...? Maybe online dating works better than going out to bars and clubs icon_confused.gif
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    Oct 29, 2010 4:44 AM GMT
    Hmmmm, I think the dating scene in NYC is pretty intense. Finding someone won't be a problem. You're right. There's someone for everyone here. The problem is that there are 5 to 10 for everyone, so guys are often looking for the next best thing...lol.

    Not sure what your looking for, but if it's fun...there'll be lots of it. If you're looking for something real, you'll have to dig a little deeper (past the superficial) and you'll find that too.

    Best of luck!

    Dax
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    Oct 29, 2010 4:52 AM GMT
    daxmillion saidHmmmm, I think the dating scene in NYC is pretty intense. Finding someone won't be a problem. You're right. There's someone for everyone here. The problem is that there are 5 to 10 for everyone, so guys are often looking for the next best thing...lol.

    Not sure what your looking for, but if it's fun...there'll be lots of it. If you're looking for something real, you'll have to dig a little deeper (past the superficial) and you'll find that too.

    Best of luck!

    Dax



    Well said!
  • Iakona

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    Oct 29, 2010 1:30 PM GMT
    When I was living in NYC, I just found it intimidating.... a lot of guys out there, in there little groups... I did end up dating, but it was guys that I met online. It was much easier to talk to them, especially when they were apart from their "herd"icon_biggrin.gif
    You'll be fine, just be patient!