Dumb bitches at the Gay Bar: IT HAPPENED AGAIN!!!!! what the helll????

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    Oct 30, 2010 1:10 AM GMT
    soooo.....remember this thread waaaaaaaaaayyyy back called "Dumb Bitches at the Gay Bar"? hahahha well! The gay bar did it to me again!!!!

    This time I went out for coffee with this guy a week ago and last night I saw him at the local bar......HE COMPLETELY ignored me!!!! we made I contact and everything and AND I said hi to him and he said "hey" and turned back to his friends. Weird thing is since we had coffee we have been texting, calling and flirting with each other everyday!

    what is going on???? he was obviously embarassed of me......icon_confused.gif right? or felt his fugly bogan friends may not approve?

    thoughts?
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    Oct 30, 2010 1:17 AM GMT
    He's trying to make you feel submissive by frustrating you. Obviously making a thread is consoling your feelings. But what you really need to do is take care of the situation by yelling at him and calling him out on his shit. Club drama is fun. Let him know to his face (no seriously don't be nice about this) that you think he's a fucking moron. That way when he tries to ignore you in the future, he'll know that you hate him and want him to ignore you. So he will lose.

    START SOME MAD DRAMA!!!!
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    Oct 30, 2010 1:22 AM GMT
    Personally, I think the guy must be totally blind!! Who, in their right mind, could possibly ignore YOU???
    Perhaps, he was with his b/f...who he just happened to forget to mention in previous encounters with him... maybe he just got caught with his "pants down" and I don't mean in the literal sense.
    OR, just maybe he IS a total SNOB, which I would take as a RED FLAG and dump his ass!!
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    Oct 30, 2010 1:24 AM GMT
    crazycool saidsoooo.....remember this thread waaaaaaaaaayyyy back called "Dumb Bitches at the Gay Bar"? hahahha well! The gay bar did it to me again!!!!

    This time I went out for coffee with this guy a week ago and last night I saw him at the local bar......HE COMPLETELY ignored me!!!! we made I contact and everything and AND I said hi to him and he said "hey" and turned back to his friends. Weird thing is since we had coffee we have been texting, calling and flirting with each other everyday!

    what is going on???? he was obviously embarassed of me......icon_confused.gif right? or felt his fugly bogan friends may not approve?

    thoughts?

    What is your assessment of this guy?
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    Oct 30, 2010 1:31 AM GMT

    Oh the games people play...things sure haven't changed much.





    Oh the games people play now
    Every night and every day now
    Never meaning what they say now
    Never saying what they mean

    And they wile away the hours
    In their ivory towers
    Till they're covered up with flowers
    In the back of a black limousine

    [Chorus:]
    La-da da da da da da da
    La-da da da da da de
    Talking 'bout you and me
    And the games people play

    Oh we make one another cry
    Break a heart then we say goodbye
    Cross our hearts and we hope to die
    That the other was to blame

    Neither one will give in
    So we gaze at our eight by ten
    Thinking 'bout the things that might have been
    It's a dirty rotten shame

    [Chorus]

    People walking up to you
    Singing glory hallelulia
    And they're tryin to sock it to you
    In the name of the Lord

    They're gonna teach you how to meditate
    Read your horoscope, cheat your faith
    And further more to hell with hate
    Come on and get on board

    [Chorus]

    Look around tell me what you see
    What's happening to you and me
    God grant me the serenity
    To remember who I am

    Cause you've given up your sanity
    For your pride and your vanity
    Turns you sad on humanity
    And you don't give a da da da da da
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    Oct 30, 2010 1:31 AM GMT
    JAKEBENSON saidHe's trying to make you feel submissive by frustrating you. Obviously making a thread is consoling your feelings. But what you really need to do is take care of the situation by yelling at him and calling him out on his shit. Club drama is fun. Let him know to his face (no seriously don't be nice about this) that you think he's a fucking moron. That way when he tries to ignore you in the future, he'll know that you hate him and want him to ignore you. So he will lose.

    START SOME MAD DRAMA!!!!



    Jake don't you worry! i'm gonna do just that!!!!


    David: very interesting....I didn't think of that, and thanks for the compliment icon_smile.gif

    Caslon: I don't know, he's hard to read.....the weird thing is he would always strike convo with me! whether call or text. So its just confusing and frustrating! he's gonna have to be put on the NEXT BUS!
  • mizu5

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    Oct 30, 2010 1:34 AM GMT
    He sounds like a cunt.

    I dont think he could be embarrassed by you, you are gorgeous.

    I'd call him out on it. Ask what he was thinking.
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    Oct 30, 2010 1:35 AM GMT
    I heard this happens a lot to guys that don’t look like me…
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    Oct 30, 2010 1:49 AM GMT
    Maybe he has a BF and doesn't want his friends to know that he's interested in other people. Perhaps he has some interest in one of his friends at the table with him.

    Besides, all you did was have coffee with him, right?

    Gay men are bitches. At least he did acknowledge your hello, but it can be awkward especially if you met him online. He could've had coffee with seven men since you.

    I wouldn't really give anymore power to the situation; just leave it alone.
  • disasterpiece

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    Oct 30, 2010 2:10 AM GMT
    Well, maybe he saw your Scream rendition video on youtube ? That would be an explanation I guess...

    I juz kiddin ! icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 30, 2010 2:47 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidAny guy that would sext with you and then ignore you later at a bar is a psycho in my book.
    Sadly.. there are way too many munts in this world. You just need to weed them out of your life and find a new sexting partner that will be excited to see you when you walk in the door... I'd have introduced to my friends and bought you a drink,,, not turned on heal and ignored you...icon_rolleyes.gif


    What he said. The dude is insane. STAY AWAY and move on. There's no justifying what he did.
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    Oct 30, 2010 3:07 AM GMT
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    Disasterpiece saidWell, maybe he saw your Scream rendition video on youtube ? That would be an explanation I guess...

    I juz kiddin ! icon_lol.gif

    Ouch! Let me step outta the way while he Bitch Slaps you into next week! Ooooh Whoooo!!! *grabs crotch and tilt's hat*


    dont grab your crotch, here let me hold it for you.
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    Oct 30, 2010 3:11 AM GMT
    I'm not usually a fan of starting drama, but it sounds like this bitch needs to get called the fuck out. Go insane! icon_twisted.gif
  • conquer

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    Oct 30, 2010 3:26 AM GMT
    thats incredibly rude. i would have sent him a text and asked him why he did that, i don't have patience for people. then i would have tell him to lose my number
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    Oct 30, 2010 3:44 AM GMT
    Ditto. Not that the behavior wasn't rude, whatever motivated it, but why in the world wouldn't you call and just ask him?

    Did you meet online? Some people are very self-conscious about that and don't wanna make explanations to their friends.
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    Oct 30, 2010 5:10 AM GMT
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    Oct 30, 2010 5:37 AM GMT
    When Im with my friends yah Ill say hi to people I know but Im with my friends which obviously the other person isn't quite yet.
    Like I tell most people I dont know at parties . I came here to be with my friends not to make new ones. But at that point one of us has probably pissed a large number of people off and we are about to fight.
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    Oct 30, 2010 5:42 AM GMT
    crazycool saidsoooo.....remember this thread waaaaaaaaaayyyy back called "Dumb Bitches at the Gay Bar"? hahahha well! The gay bar did it to me again!!!!

    This time I went out for coffee with this guy a week ago and last night I saw him at the local bar......HE COMPLETELY ignored me!!!! we made I contact and everything and AND I said hi to him and he said "hey" and turned back to his friends. Weird thing is since we had coffee we have been texting, calling and flirting with each other everyday!

    what is going on???? he was obviously embarassed of me......icon_confused.gif right? or felt his fugly bogan friends may not approve?

    thoughts?



    Clearly the guy needs to be fitted with a pair of cement slippers and thrown in the lake. Shall I call my Uncle Vinny? icon_eek.gif
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    Oct 30, 2010 6:00 AM GMT
    If you have his phone # why don't you just call him or text him and say hi and then calmly bring up what happened. Bars (especially if crowded ) can be awkward to break from friends and start a new conversation ( maybe he might have had one too many as well and was embarrased ) . See what he has to say before you judge too quickly. If he still blows you off..Douchebag!
    Time for the delete stroke.
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    Oct 30, 2010 7:16 AM GMT
    Thanks for the support fellas....I agree I HAVE kicked him to the curb....cause you know what??? that dumb son of a cunt sexted me again tonite and said "hey sexy what are you doin tonite? wanna come over ;)" I think this guy must be seriously fucked! So I texted him and said "I'm actually thinkin about what an asshole you were to me last night at the bar! so either give me an amazing explanation or fuck off!" I haven't heard from him since.......NEXT!!!!


    to all the shady men out there all I have to say is.......


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    Oct 30, 2010 7:32 AM GMT
    JAKEBENSON saidHe's trying to make you feel submissive by frustrating you. Obviously making a thread is consoling your feelings. But what you really need to do is take care of the situation by yelling at him and calling him out on his shit. Club drama is fun. Let him know to his face (no seriously don't be nice about this) that you think he's a fucking moron. That way when he tries to ignore you in the future, he'll know that you hate him and want him to ignore you. So he will lose.

    START SOME MAD DRAMA!!!!



    Jake sounds like he could be a real jerk in a lot of his comments, but holly shit, they crack me up every time I come across them. Funny guy!


    Anyways, to answer your question I think you...what the hell, do what jake says!
  • tajsreve

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    Oct 30, 2010 7:42 AM GMT
    Ohhh HELL NO:...
    there is not explanation that can cover that.
    Because if he is that much of an asshole, he will have some really good excuse to get you come over. and explain it all away. Ohh hell no!
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    Oct 30, 2010 8:13 AM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidAny guy that would sext with you and then ignore you later at a bar is a psycho in my book.
    Sadly.. there are way too many munts in this world. You just need to weed them out of your life and find a new sexting partner that will be excited to see you when you walk in the door...

    Yeah I had this one friend who would sext some WILD stuff and when we would eventually link up would decline all of my advances...But then as I'm driving home he'd text and start up again...SMH...It was so frustrating...eventually I had to cut him off completely because he was driving me nuts.
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    Oct 30, 2010 8:13 AM GMT
    Time for a golden oldie::

    RUDE!!!!

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    O YES I DID!!!!!!!
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    Oct 30, 2010 8:17 AM GMT
    crazycool saidThat dumb son of a cunt sexted me again tonite and said "hey sexy what are you doin tonite? wanna come over ;)" I think this guy must be seriously fucked!

    Wow, yeah I thought the guy that did this to me was the only one like him out there...Guess there's a breed of nuts out there...