The Guy That's Just Too Perfect

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    Nov 01, 2010 1:29 PM GMT
    Have you ever met a guy/ dated a guy that just seemed TOO perfect?

    it happened to me, and I kept feeling uncomfortable around him,...Everything about him fit, and everything was just what seemed to be right.... it was just like there were no flaws and I wound up feeling all flawed myself, like all the failures in the pair were mine... I was "the flawed one" to my own understanding... and it made me feel totally down being around him

    this ever happen to you?


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    Nov 01, 2010 1:39 PM GMT
    I would think Mr Perfect would have that wonderful knack to have you feeling good about yourself whenever you're around him. You know, like making it obvious how good you make him feel when he's around you. If not, then he doesn't sound so perfect to me. icon_wink.gif

    -Doug
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    Nov 02, 2010 12:58 AM GMT
    meninlove said I would think Mr Perfect would have that wonderful knack to have you feeling good about yourself whenever you're around him. You know, like making it obvious how good you make him feel when he's around you. If not, then he doesn't sound so perfect to me. icon_wink.gif

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    THIS! i never found mr perfect, but i found mr perfect for me. Thats all I can ask for. It takes hard work, but without the work, the relationship wouldnt really be fullfilling wud it? if he was perfect then im afraid the relationship wud be rather unfullfilling. no arguments, no adversity to overcome, no tests of faith and love. They may seem like bad things at the time, but its down the road you realise how much they make u thankful for what u have worked so hard for.
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    Nov 02, 2010 1:08 AM GMT
    Yes i did over a year and a half ago. I kept consciencly and unconsciensly pushing him away. It was mainly because I was afraid and protective of my heart and my energy.
    This/My experience with this man I am very sure is different from yours but.... Let go and let love happen at some point.
    Gosh I feel like the wrong guy to say this but, good gosh I was the biggest sceptic on the table.
    All My Best To You!
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    Nov 02, 2010 1:19 AM GMT
    Nobody is perfect, the only reason you might feel that way is that you think he is too good for you and he will leave you for someone better. I guess you have issues with self confidence dating wise.
    But that is just what I think.
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    Nov 02, 2010 1:20 AM GMT
    I think its just your own insecurities that you're letting get the best of ya. If he's with you, and he's so perfect, then obviously he thinks highly of you otherwise he'd dip for the next guy. I think guys just get freaked out when something good comes along.....it's that thing you've been searching for, for god only knows how long, and you're just worried you're not up for it. Well I say stop worrying about it and give it a shot, worse comes to worst you dated a perfect guy for a while.
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    Nov 08, 2010 1:02 AM GMT
    meninlove said I would think Mr Perfect would have that wonderful knack to have you feeling good about yourself whenever you're around him. You know, like making it obvious how good you make him feel when he's around you. If not, then he doesn't sound so perfect to me. icon_wink.gif

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    Wow.....I couldn't have said it better myself. A person could never be perfect for me unless he had that "wonderful knack" that you speak of. That wonderful knack = the essence of sexiness and masculinity.

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    Nov 08, 2010 4:44 PM GMT
    I have. It was a while ago when I first started dating guys. My insecurities got the best of me and he got away. Funny thing is now my perception of him has completely changed, I don’t view him as the “be all end all” of gay guys, in fact I have no interest in him at all. I’m not an egotistical guy, but I really do believe now that I am too good for him. I guess I created a false image of who I thought he was yet now I see him for who he really is.