GRAB AND MOLEST ME IN A CLUB, SAY HELLO TO MY FIST

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    Nov 02, 2010 7:56 PM GMT
    Why guys think its okay if they grope and caress your stomach, crotch, lower back or your ass when they walk past you?!

    Being molested publicly is supposed to make me suddenly attracted and wanna talk to them? By copping a feel?

    Now I know what women have been bitching about for the last 40 years.

    The worst are the guys who touch my hair (I have long dreadlocks) from behind me or when I'm walking by!

    WHO TOUCHES ANOTHER STRANGE MAN'S HAIR AND THINKS THAT'S COOL?!

    Can I at least know his name before his hand touches my crotch in public? (sarcasm)

    One day you guys are gonna see me post a thread about punching a guy in a club, smh.

    I'm a masculine top guy so I dunno if that has anything to do with it but I respect people in clubs so I don't grab anyone...if I want to get your attention I tap your arm or shoulder, not squeeze your ass.

    Sigh. Rant over. That is all. LOL.
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    Nov 02, 2010 8:14 PM GMT
    Draper saidThey have no class. Women can have you arrested if you touch them inappropriately, but what man is going to report another man who touches his dreadlocks or crotch?

    Depending on its delivery, a punch could stun him but get you in a whole lot of other trouble. And I'm not really sure what being a masculine top has to do with it. Does a feminine top not respect and grab people?
    Oh wait, nobody ever says they're a feminine top.icon_rolleyes.gif


    Right. It's dumb and alcohol has nothing to do with it either as some guys will try to claim...From my observation the guys that like being molested in clubs are sluts or they have very low self esteem...

    If disrespected I will always take offense, no matter where I am...If it leads to a dude getting a fist sandwich then so be it, he earned it. *SHRUGS*
  • mizu5

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    Nov 02, 2010 8:24 PM GMT
    I don;t mind is someone walks by and gently brushes my arm as a kind of hello.


    But my bum is mine.

    LUCKILY I'm short, for once i say luckily to this, as it's more awkward for someone to grab my bum/crotch lol
  • jgymnast733

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    Nov 02, 2010 8:57 PM GMT
    Everyone, and i mean Everyone grabs my arms.....it kinda pisses me off but i always tell the squeezer '' Now its my turn to grab something''....I try to turn it into a funny instead of getting angry..
    Now, if someone grabbed my Ass or crotch, thats another story and HELL yeah i'd punch their lights out.... unless he's cute.....or drives a nice car..LOL
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    Nov 02, 2010 9:00 PM GMT
    amen.


    I was once at a club with a friend and there was this song playing and the lyrics were "ICE ICE" [no it wasn't Ice Ice Baby] and this guy came up to me and on one of the "ICE" parts he slammed his crotch into my ass and whispered "ice" into my ear and grabbed my package. Not cool. I wasn't even on the dance floor. I was standing at a table with some friends. There was an altercation and I got an apology from him. People should expect to get hit for doing that. If you groped a straight man, you'd get punched. Gay guys just expect everyone else to be whores I guess.

    I don't get what goes through some peoples minds.
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    Nov 02, 2010 9:15 PM GMT
    kdsbil saidamen.


    I was once at a club with a friend and there was this song playing and the lyrics were "ICE ICE" [no it wasn't Ice Ice Baby] and this guy came up to me and on one of the "ICE" parts he slammed his crotch into my ass and whispered "ice" into my ear and grabbed my package. Not cool. I wasn't even on the dance floor. I was standing at a table with some friends. There was an altercation and I got an apology from him. People should expect to get hit for doing that. If you groped a straight man, you'd get punched. Gay guys just expect everyone else to be whores I guess.

    I don't get what goes through some peoples minds.



    Pretty sure I still would have knocked him out
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    Nov 02, 2010 9:34 PM GMT
    Indy404 saidWhy guys think its okay if they grope and caress your stomach, crotch, lower back or your ass when they walk past you?!

    Being molested publicly is supposed to make me suddenly attracted and wanna talk to them? By copping a feel?

    Now I know what women have been bitching about for the last 40 years.

    The worst are the guys who touch my hair (I have long dreadlocks) from behind me or when I'm walking by!

    WHO TOUCHES ANOTHER STRANGE MAN'S HAIR AND THINKS THAT'S COOL?!

    Can I at least know his name before his hand touches my crotch in public? (sarcasm)

    One day you guys are gonna see me post a thread about punching a guy in a club, smh.

    I'm a masculine top guy so I dunno if that has anything to do with it but I respect people in clubs so I don't grab anyone...if I want to get your attention I tap your arm or shoulder, not squeeze your ass.

    Sigh. Rant over. That is all. LOL.


    And 10 or so years from now, when the entire club or bar ignores you because you look over the hill, will your sense of abject rejection inspire another rant?

    Be grateful for the attention you receive--even that from the uncouth. The day may come when you will receive none.
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    Nov 02, 2010 9:37 PM GMT
    kdsbil saidamen.


    I was once at a club with a friend and there was this song playing and the lyrics were "ICE ICE" [no it wasn't Ice Ice Baby] and this guy came up to me and on one of the "ICE" parts he slammed his crotch into my ass and whispered "ice" into my ear and grabbed my package. Not cool. I wasn't even on the dance floor. I was standing at a table with some friends. There was an altercation and I got an apology from him. People should expect to get hit for doing that. If you groped a straight man, you'd get punched. Gay guys just expect everyone else to be whores I guess.

    I don't get what goes through some peoples minds.


    Well, you are only 23.
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    Nov 02, 2010 9:37 PM GMT
    I would rather receive no attention, then unwanted attention
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    Nov 02, 2010 10:15 PM GMT
    hotguyxxx saidI would rather receive no attention, then unwanted attention





    i have to agree with this one he would have been sleeping on the ground without a doubt.
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    Nov 02, 2010 10:48 PM GMT
    Um, that is what you get for having dreads. I had dreads for a bit icon_cool.gif
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    Nov 02, 2010 10:51 PM GMT
    People assume that it is OK to be more sexually aggressive to men because, socially, we are supposed to want it.

    I went to a gay bar in Sac, and I swear I got groped by more straight chicks than I did guys (kinda pissed me off, I mean its a gay bar, why are you looking for guys?)

    Its how it is. Straight friends of mine complain the same way, when women are hitting on guys, they get hyper sexually aggressive because the guy is supposed to "want it."

    Its a double standard.
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    Nov 02, 2010 10:53 PM GMT
    Grope and molest me in a club, and put money in my thong. Plz.
  • laguna07

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    Nov 02, 2010 11:08 PM GMT
    I think you are all over-reacting just a little bit. Usually when people are at a club they are drinking, and it's dimly lit and many times crowded. I am not saying it is right, but when people drink they do things that they would normally not do and it is not unusual. I think you just have to laugh it off and take it as a compliment unless it is persistent and annoying. Okay, now start ranting.
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    Nov 02, 2010 11:09 PM GMT
    Okay GRAB AND MOLSET?
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    Nov 02, 2010 11:20 PM GMT
    try to jsut take it as a compliment. obviously it doesnt do it for u and thats more than fine. but if people are doing it its because they find u attractive.
  • Regina_Guy

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    Nov 02, 2010 11:36 PM GMT
    Hahaha, well I'd be fine if it happened to me a little more often! icon_wink.gif
  • neosyllogy

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    Nov 02, 2010 11:36 PM GMT
    Chainers saidPeople assume that it is OK to be more sexually aggressive to men because, socially, we are supposed to want it.

    I went to a gay bar in Sac, and I swear I got groped by more straight chicks than I did guys (kinda pissed me off, I mean its a gay bar, why are you looking for guys?)

    Its how it is. Straight friends of mine complain the same way, when women are hitting on guys, they get hyper sexually aggressive because the guy is supposed to "want it."

    Its a double standard.


    It's also that men are more physically powerful and statistically more prone to violence. If I feel I have to I can physically remove a woman's (or another man's) hand from my body. A woman cannot. That difference in power completely changes the dynamic. So it's not simply a double standard, there's a degree of reason to why women (and gay guys) feel more comfortable groping guys.

    I'll bet you 4/5 times (for gays) that the groper is not significantly stronger than the gropee. Even if unconciously, I think most people are very aware of the power element involved.
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    Nov 03, 2010 12:26 AM GMT
    When I cop a feel at the club, 95% of the time the guy likes it, smiles, cops right back at me, and all is good.
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    Nov 03, 2010 12:27 AM GMT
    Indy404 said
    Now I know what women have been bitching about for the last 40 years.


    Fuck women. Those cunts get in free all the time, and despite crying about not having equality still haven't opened up nearly the same amount of male stripper clubs as males have female stripper clubs. Moreover, women never feel me up and I feel left out. What a bunch of fucking prudes. I spend over a decade looking fucking hot and not even ONE dick squeeze?!?
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    Nov 03, 2010 12:29 AM GMT
    JAKEBENSON saidWhen I cop a feel at the club, 95% of the time the guy likes it, smiles, cops right back at me, and all is good.


    I think everyone on this board would let you cop a feel.
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    Nov 03, 2010 12:30 AM GMT
    Chainers said
    JAKEBENSON saidWhen I cop a feel at the club, 95% of the time the guy likes it, smiles, cops right back at me, and all is good.


    I think everyone on this board would let you cop a feel.

    I agree. at least i would icon_cool.gif
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    Nov 03, 2010 12:30 AM GMT
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    Nov 03, 2010 12:31 AM GMT
    ...go to a different club or quit bitching about getting any attention......icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 03, 2010 12:34 AM GMT
    Sporty_g said...go to a different club or quit bitching about getting any attention......icon_biggrin.gif


    hahahaha no shit!!!

    When I walk in and I'm the hottest guy in the club (subjectively obviously) and everyone stares at me and people touch my ass as I walk by, I think to myself that one day I'll be old and ugly and WISH this was happening to me. Therefore, I love it.