I just came out to my girlfriend

  • SolidRanger

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    Nov 04, 2010 5:10 AM GMT
    Just informed my girlfriend that I am gay. I was thinking it was time, but she beat me to it and confronted me about not letting her in and always having my guard up.

    She took it surprisingly well, but I can tell she's really hurt.

    Feels bad man
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    Nov 04, 2010 5:34 AM GMT
    Did you tell her while you had pancake over your face?
  • SolidRanger

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    Nov 04, 2010 5:39 AM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidDid you tell her while you had pancake over your face?
    Yes, it really eased the blow
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    Nov 04, 2010 5:44 AM GMT
    I bet she said, "I guess it is all for the best I wouldn't want to marry a guy with a pancake on his face."
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    Nov 04, 2010 9:13 AM GMT
    I hope you can find happiness with a man instead! You did the right thing, and she will thank you for it. Hey, perhaps she will become your fag hag!
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    Nov 04, 2010 9:24 AM GMT
    Nice Halloween costume bro. What were you, the Jolly Green Carrot Top?
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    Nov 04, 2010 9:30 AM GMT
    5ebastian saidis that a serious question?
    Well yeah, you look like a combination of these two babes:

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    Don't get me wrong...you look WAY better than either of them. I mean you pulled it off rather well and with high fashion. Fergie would be proud.


    5ebastian said
    whats with all the thread hijacking?

    You tell me Mr. I post pictures of Disney cartoon character penises and fisting. (Although I admit that was pretty trend-setting.)


    5ebastian said
    Went to several vegas parties, was suppose to be mad hatter but makeup artist showed up on Saturday. went as green giant, and mad hatter the next night.

    Ah, well the wig threw me off. I thought you were hybriding costumes.
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    Nov 04, 2010 9:49 AM GMT
    5ebastian saidI resented you for some of the comments that you made earlier about my appearance thats why I stopped coming here cus too much drama.

    Let get some facts straight because you start getting all Tom Cruise on me with lies.

    1. You flamed me first in some other thread.
    2. I flamed you back. Good times.
    3. You didn't even have a picture up at the time of the flame fun.
    4. Nothing was mentioned about your appearance.
    5. You have no thread to back up your claims.
    6. You lose.

    Oh here's where this all happened.


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    5ebastian said
    I just realized ... we all are insecure and if it makes u feel better, im uglier than you. im over it, so i dont want to make snide comments at you. anyways, ***hugs***


    It's not a good idea to pull out the minority card for false reasons, because when you finally need it everyone will ignore you. And I'll be climbin in yo window, snatchin yo kids up.
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    Nov 04, 2010 9:59 AM GMT
    5ebastian saidI was drunk... but can I ask you something, wot makes you bring up someone's appearance as a punchline? almost everytime... I mean I noticed that you got rejected by some guy that thought you were fat... (I dont think you are fat)... so why do you go out of your way to ridicule someone else's appearance? ie-I think you said I looked like Bin Laden's hot niece...

    Can I ask you something? I only mentioned your costume in this thread, and nothing else about how you look in any other thread. So how am I suddenly making fun of how everyone looks in every post? Sounds like a fake flame war to me.

    If you had a thread to prove what you're saying, people would believe you. But you don't. Troll. Someone's appearance is the last thing I bring up in flaming. I flame based on stupid posts and audacity, which you apparently have both of. Note: posts does not equal your appearance.


    5ebastian said
    I thought that was fucked up... it just makes me scratch my head that someone as intelligent as you would stoop so low.

    It just makes me scratch my head why you are bringing up a topic that does not exist. I can sniff out straw man fallacies, and yours is painfully obvious.


    5ebastian said
    I mean ... I have asian and jewish, straight and gay friends... I just figured that someone in the know would not marginalize people further.

    No idea what this means, but yes you are a troll. Thanks for identifying yourself.
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    Nov 04, 2010 10:12 AM GMT
    5ebastian saidno the thread existed, I deleted my account...

    No pics then it never happened. You said I made comments on your appearance "earlier" but how much earlier? You've been registered under this current account since JUNE. If this did happen, it must have been a LONG time ago....icon_eek.gif


    5ebastian said
    dunno seems like you've been here awhile anyways.. not that it matters enuff with the f@g drama. it was some time ago. Was making a comment how funny it is that no matter how much things change some things always remain the same.

    Nah, you were blowing things out of proportion saying, and I quote you:

    "wot makes you bring up someone's appearance as a punchline? almost everytime..."

    I'm a dick on the board. I flame people all the time. But I go through pains not to make fun of someone's appearance, unless they make fun of mine first. I don't think how anyone looks matters with what they say. And I certainly don't make fun of people for being fat. I'm notorious for hitting on thick guys.

    So don't say I bring up someone's appearance as a punchline almost every time. Because that's not true.
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    Nov 04, 2010 10:17 AM GMT
    ^=> http://encyclopediadramatica.com/RealJock
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    Nov 04, 2010 10:25 AM GMT
    AAAAAHAHAHAHAH I'm featured on Realjock. Amazing. I remember that thread. They got mad at me because these crunk white losers refused to make rainbow cupcakes for some fags. [brooklyn accent]So I says[/accent] they should catch cookie AIDS. No one seemed to understand that ludicrousy that cookie AIDS in fact does not exist, but decided that I was immature and unrepresentative of the gay community (lol um what?). Anyway, good times.
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    Nov 04, 2010 10:28 AM GMT
    5ebastian saidenuff with the f@g drama.


    omg I LOVE fag drama. Rub it all over my tits. Lube it up and spray it when you say it. Throw down that Urban Outfitters hipster belt and lets get some action!
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    Nov 04, 2010 10:28 AM GMT
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    Nov 04, 2010 10:34 AM GMT
    ^

    And then there's DanielH

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    Nov 04, 2010 12:03 PM GMT

    SolidRanger, good luck. Your taken control of your life is an inspiration to all of us who fear the unknown. Thanks for sharing and I wish you a long happy life.



    DanielH: Point could be made but poster not needed. I would hope of all places a gay website would not make fun of the defenseless.

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    Nov 04, 2010 12:13 PM GMT
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    5ebastian saidenuff with the f@g drama.


    omg I LOVE fag drama. Rub it all over my tits. Lube it up and spray it when you say it. Throw down that Urban Outfitters hipster belt and lets get some action!


    Just meet up for a fuck and get over it you two.
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    Nov 04, 2010 12:16 PM GMT
    Worst month evvarrrrr! lol!
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    Nov 04, 2010 12:17 PM GMT
    It's gonna be weird at first for you, but I do feel she's gonna be a good friend to you. Naturally she's hurt because she loves you, but that shouldn't stop potential friendship.

    The fact that she took it well should mean something to you. I used to date a girl once at work and we broke up, after a few months, I started to feel something for this guy who was also from the same office. It was very weird and difficult to hide but me and the guy was able to hide our relationship for a year and a half.

    Eventually I came out to her after I broke up with the guy, she said she sorta knew. You feel awful thinking of how you're making her feel but in the long run you did her a favor even before getting into something deeper of a relationship than what you have right now.
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    Nov 04, 2010 12:22 PM GMT
    SolidRanger saidJust informed my girlfriend that I am gay. I was thinking it was time, but she beat me to it and confronted me about not letting her in and always having my guard up.

    She took it surprisingly well, but I can tell she's really hurt.

    Feels bad man


    Congrats. I did the same thing a long time ago and it was the best thing that ever happened, although it was an awkward time. Best of luck going forward.

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    Nov 04, 2010 12:26 PM GMT
    SolidRanger said
    AvadaKedavra saidDid you tell her while you had pancake over your face?
    Yes, it really eased the blow
    LMAO! icon_lol.gif

    Congrats on coming out!
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    Nov 04, 2010 12:34 PM GMT
    Best of luck to you man.
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    Nov 04, 2010 12:53 PM GMT
    You did the right thing -- it's much better that you told her now, instead of in 15 years when you're married with children. It shows that you're unselfish icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 04, 2010 1:00 PM GMT
    That was a big step. Good for you, man. And it was the RIGHT decision.
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    Nov 04, 2010 1:11 PM GMT
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    DanielH: Point could be made but poster not needed. I would hope of all places a gay website would not make fun of the defenseless.



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