what should i do for this?

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    Nov 05, 2010 12:18 PM GMT
    im a 19 yr-old living in HK and recently met a guy in China
    at first we talked like we never end our chats online n we were dying to
    meet. he cooked for me and it was very nice both of us love indian food coz hes indian and im 1/4 indian .

    i knew it wasnt right to meet a guy im really into at home coz it shouldnt involves sex in our first date if both of us are serious
    but it happened , after that i went back home and feel like he became indifferent to me and doesnt talk like he used to

    i asked wt he wants coz im cant bare anymore i knew im already so into this guy and im quite a guy who easily attach emotions on a guy i really like
    but he said he juss want casual date or sex and be good fds wif me and he'll still be honest wif me abt his everything

    he also said he has nice feelings on me and dun wanna hurt my feelings and he would have told me b4 our 2nd meeting if i didnt ask him..


    should i still go for it? i dunno y i juss keep thinking maybe he'll change his mind after all we juss met once and tats me who make him decide our relationship rightnow ; ( icon_sad.gificon_sad.gificon_sad.gif(icon_sad.gif

    it confused and depress me a lot hope someone could give me some advice and tell me wt i possibly should go for thzzz a lot icon_sad.gif
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    Nov 05, 2010 1:54 PM GMT
    You could go for this, but I don't think it's what you want, or need. You want a serious relationship, he does not.

    -Doug
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    Nov 05, 2010 2:49 PM GMT
    dont go, let him find casual sex in china. I mean isn't there like over a billion ppl to choose from?


    Meet a nice guy who is interested in a relationship like u.

    Fuck this other dude, it's a waste of time. he's only gonna fuck u in the end, no pun intended icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 05, 2010 2:56 PM GMT
    Import saiddont go, let him find casual sex in china. I mean isn't there like over a billion ppl to choose from?


    Meet a nice guy who is interested in a relationship like u.

    Fuck this other dude, it's a waste of time. he's only gonna fuck u in the end, no pun intended icon_smile.gif


    i think u r very right..
    im not mentally ready to experience such kind of casual date
    but i think looking for a guy i really into here in HK is extremely difficult for me
    coz i dun really turned on by chinese / hongkongers at all