RJ friendships

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    Nov 05, 2010 3:43 PM GMT
    Ok I am curious as to how serious u guys take the friends you add on ur page. Like are they net friends, do u consider them real friends or are they just ppl u add to ur page to look popular. I am also curious as to how many stay in contact with your friends on your list.
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    Nov 05, 2010 3:52 PM GMT

    Damn good question!! I TRY to stay in contact with all of the guys on my Buddy List...sometimes, just to say "HI".
    Not one of them was EVER added without personal contact first!! There just happen to be a lot of GREAT guys on RJ...and it am pleased as hell that this is NOT a hook-up site!! Sometimes, I just "cruise" through my Buddy List and contact someone I haven't heard from in a while... and like I said, I TRY...but I'm far from perfect at staying in touch!!
    So, with this post, I would like to say "HI" to all my buds...and I'll TRY to do better!!! You guys are the BEST!!!!
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    Nov 05, 2010 3:54 PM GMT
    Fenix_Stone said "Ok I am curious as to how serious u guys take the friends you add on ur page. Like are they net friends"

    YES

    " do u consider them real friends"

    YES

    "or are they just ppl u add to ur page to look popular."

    LOL, NO


    "I am also curious as to how many stay in contact with your friends on your list."


    It's a two way street. And there's this: good friends are like stars; you don't always see them but they're still there.
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    Nov 05, 2010 3:55 PM GMT
    I tend to stay in contact more with the ones I've met in person, talked to on the phone, and intend on meeting in person.
    The rest I still consider buddies, but it's really hard to know a person till you've met them in person or talked a significant time with over the phone.
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    Nov 05, 2010 3:56 PM GMT
    I love chatting/e-mailing with RJ buddies, there's a few that I talk to quite a lot and a few that I just check in with every week or so - they might not be 'real life' friends (yet) but I appreciate the contact and discussions we have.
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    Nov 05, 2010 4:00 PM GMT
    I don't connect with anyone on RJ on a personal level. It's strictly a read and post type of thing for me. After all, it's the net which I don't take seriously. icon_confused.gif
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    Nov 05, 2010 4:09 PM GMT
    I try to make contact but ppl read and dont reply one guy thou talk to a lot but we argue, he likes me, and it gets annoying at times but from my past experience its hard at times to take net friendships seriously because of the unknowns like how much of them is real.

    And I agree this is not a hook up site but once u add the private and adult tabs it can shift that way. This site juss lacks the porn and butt plug ads.
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    Nov 05, 2010 4:15 PM GMT
    I take them seriously. A small pct I had more contact with in the past, not so much now, but with most, I stay in touch with on a regular or semi-regular basis. They are outstanding guys, have great qualities, and I take pride in having them as buddies. Sometimes the contact is via messages, occasionally by phone, and sometimes I keep up with them by reading their forum messages.
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    Nov 05, 2010 4:19 PM GMT
    I am also noticing more of the older men posting in here on it. So do u think young guys have diff motives on here as opposed to older guys on this site and if so why do you think so.
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    Nov 05, 2010 4:28 PM GMT
    Fenix_Stone saidI am also noticing more of the older men posting in here on it. So do u think young guys have diff motives on here as opposed to older guys on this site and if so why do you think so.
    Everyone has different motives. Nobody is going to be honest about their motives online. If they are honest about their motives, nobody will believe them unless they say they want to get laid.
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    Nov 05, 2010 4:28 PM GMT
    Friends are friends. The internet has replaced the old 'penpals' but I consider each one on my buddies to be friends, some I contact more than others, but I too try to contact everyone at least once or twice a month.

    As for age, no doubt we understand, as vintage men, the value of friendship in our lives. As far as younger guys, I have both older and younger on my list and wouldn't pigeon hole with regards to age, but rather to one's upbringing and value system..............Keithicon_cool.gif
  • aiko14

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    Nov 05, 2010 4:33 PM GMT
    i am developing some good... no, great friendship here on RJ... well i always try to message them from time to time... but some of them apparently "just like to add you on their buddy list"..... but yeah it would be nice if the people who add you would not be limited to a message saying "i have buddy listed you"
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    Nov 05, 2010 4:39 PM GMT
    aiko14 saidi am developing some good... no, great friendship here on RJ... well i always try to message them from time to time... but some of them apparently "just like to add you on their buddy list"..... but yeah it would be nice if the people who add you would not be limited to a message saying "i have buddy listed you"


    I totally agree. But also does a person name help u determine if u want them as. Friend for example barebackbear or thickdick lol. If u saw these handles would consider or instant reject
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    Nov 05, 2010 4:42 PM GMT
    Well ill consider some friends more than others, the people I have on my friend list I actually talk to like if they were my friend in real life. I consider them net friends inti or if l ever meet them in real life to see if they are the same or not.
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    Nov 05, 2010 4:42 PM GMT
    Fenix_Stone said
    aiko14 saidi am developing some good... no, great friendship here on RJ... well i always try to message them from time to time... but some of them apparently "just like to add you on their buddy list"..... but yeah it would be nice if the people who add you would not be limited to a message saying "i have buddy listed you"


    I totally agree. But also does a person name help u determine if u want them as. Friend for example barebackbear or thickdick lol. If u saw these handles would consider or instant reject


    well it is not a plus but i would not instantly reject them LOL....if you would look in my profile it actually states there that im only looking for friendship... lol so mr.bareback wouldnt hurt me at all icon_razz.gif

    what are the good names anyways?

    RiversideMD?
    CoolestGymRatInTheSiteAndYouWillNotFindAnyoneCoolerThanMe?
    SmartFucker69?
    BrainyCock?
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    Nov 05, 2010 4:53 PM GMT
    aiko14 said
    Fenix_Stone said
    aiko14 saidi am developing some good... no, great friendship here on RJ... well i always try to message them from time to time... but some of them apparently "just like to add you on their buddy list"..... but yeah it would be nice if the people who add you would not be limited to a message saying "i have buddy listed you"


    I totally agree. But also does a person name help u determine if u want them as. Friend for example barebackbear or thickdick lol. If u saw these handles would consider or instant reject


    well it is not a plus but i would not instantly reject them LOL....if you would look in my profile it actually states there that im only looking for friendship... lol so mr.bareback wouldnt hurt me at all icon_razz.gif

    what are the good names anyways?

    RiversideMD?
    CoolestGymRatInTheSiteAndYouWillNotFindAnyoneCoolerThanMe?
    SmartFucker69?
    BrainyCock?


    To me or in my opinion a decent name is one with out sexual content. Its like you wouldn't use that type of name for a business transaction but I guess to each his own
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    Nov 05, 2010 5:02 PM GMT
    bigeasydude saidI don't connect with anyone on RJ on a personal level. It's strictly a read and post type of thing for me. After all, it's the net which I don't take seriously. icon_confused.gif


    Ooooh you just dated yourself BADLY icon_rolleyes.gif

    My friends are all people I have talked to and most of them I still talk to. There are 3 who have left the web and who I´ve spoken to (or speak to) on the phone which from Europe is not nothing....

    one just left the site today icon_sad.gif another hardly posts any more

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    Nov 05, 2010 10:24 PM GMT
    I don't keep in touch with as many as I should, but connect with them all. If you make the friends list it's usually because we've taken the time to actually share conversation, comments and thoughts. In some cases, even met for a cup of coffee or a beer (after a workout of course! ) LOL
  • BIG_N_TALL

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    Nov 05, 2010 10:38 PM GMT
    First off, I have made some of the closest friends I've ever had on RJ. All of the guys on my Buddy List are people I've talked to before. There are few on there I talk to nearly on a daily basis - some everyday. I do not add "hot" people just to look popular. I think a lot of guys on RJ do that to bolster their 'status' in the RJ community, and it is just lame. I am not in high school anymore. I don't have time for that crap. I'm only interested in legit friendships.

    I'd like to add that I've met one guy in person, and hopefully I'll get to meet more soon.
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    Nov 06, 2010 12:50 AM GMT
    There aren't many folks on my friends list here. Most of them are friends I've made in person, who have accounts here on RJ. Others are folks that I just have a large agreement with, and have always shown the same like-mindedness as me.

    The ones I don't know personally, I don't take very serious. Internet friends are usually fickle, and come and go often. icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 06, 2010 1:01 AM GMT
    Well one friend I have on here is import known him for years before rj we still maintain a odd and corky friendship
  • Neon_Dreams

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    Nov 06, 2010 1:11 AM GMT
    My "friends" on Realjock are simply pen pals. Actually, I hardly chat on RJ any more because I'm just too busy running, being social in real life, and other activities. icon_biggrin.gif


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    Nov 06, 2010 1:16 AM GMT
    I stay in contact with about 5 of the 17 that are on list on a regular basis pretty much as i have them on FB. 1 of them is actually a really good friend of mine here in Ny who i got to sign up. I rarely chat on here, i just pop on check emails and i'm off.
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    Nov 06, 2010 1:41 AM GMT
    I TRY to keep in touch with a few guys here, but I find most of us here are flakey; some of them dont even respond back. Quite annoying. Well it takes two to tango, so if people cant even spare a sec to say hi, DELETE!
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    Nov 06, 2010 1:42 AM GMT
    lies, all of it!