What do you look for in a guy?

  • brownbear787

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    Nov 07, 2010 7:34 PM GMT
    I ask this because someone told me that guys are always looking for someone but they can be too picky. I was also told by someone else that I should have high standards.

    I don't know....but am I being too picky? Post what you look for in a guy:

    This is my criteria I have. It doesn't seem much...friendship/relationships is what I'm looking for.

    -Someone who is attractive: nice smile, build, not skinny and not fat
    -A person I can relate to: whether it is age, career/academic plans, social interests, values

    What are your thoughts? Thanks for the feedback and comments!
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    Nov 07, 2010 7:40 PM GMT
    brownbear787 saidI was also told by someone else that I should have high standards.
    Last time someone told me that, I said "ok, I guess that means we won't be having sex."
    Nipped that in the butt really quick. icon_wink.gif
  • brownbear787

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    Nov 07, 2010 9:06 PM GMT
    so for sexual encounters...its perfectly okay to have high standards...but for relationships and friendships, standards don't have to be as high?
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    Nov 07, 2010 9:28 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    brownbear787 saidI was also told by someone else that I should have high standards.
    Last time someone told me that, I said "ok, I guess that means we won't be having sex."
    Nipped that in the butt really quick. icon_wink.gif



    nip something in the bud:

    Fig. to put an end to something before it develops into something larger. (Alludes to destroying a flower bud before it blooms.)
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    Nov 08, 2010 12:29 AM GMT
    I'm easy to please

    Little or no baggage
    S&P or shaved head
    Can see toes over stomach
    No bad breath

    I can work with the rest
  • safety43_mma1...

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    Nov 08, 2010 12:43 AM GMT
    in a guy i look for someone that is smart real honest and a heart of gold. he has to be confident and have a style all his own. it isnt the only thng but he has to be in shape also and love the outdoors. i look more for what is on the inside not the outside. and the most impotant has to be a romantic also.
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    Nov 08, 2010 4:57 PM GMT
    spirit
    soulful
    broadcasts positively from eyes
    accountability
    compatibility
  • ohioguy12

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    Nov 08, 2010 5:04 PM GMT
    I'm having a tough time finding a guy with similar interests as me, that's a good start, everything else is just icing on the cake...
  • ohioguy12

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    Nov 08, 2010 5:07 PM GMT
    brownbear787 saidso for sexual encounters...its perfectly okay to have high standards...but for relationships and friendships, standards don't have to be as high?


    Yes, you should have high standards for relationships, but remember nobody is "perfect" I think a lot of people forget that sometimes and create unreal expectations...
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Nov 08, 2010 5:20 PM GMT
    a sense of humor, a zest for life, a commitment to living a healthy fitness-minded lifestyle, goals and a game plan how to achieve them.