CUM DAMMIT!

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    Nov 08, 2010 8:57 PM GMT
    Maybe its just me, but do you find it annoying when your partner/boyfriend/fb/trick/sugar daddy takes forever to cum? I mean like, Ive-came-3-times-already-and-my-dick-is-raw forever, you-fall-asleep forever, your-jaw-locks-up forever, you-turn-over-so-you-don't-have to make-an-interested-face-anymore forever, or your-planning-your-xmas-list-for-next-year-while-he's-fucking-you forever.

    You don't want to say "HURRY THE FUCK UP!" because A, that might distroy the moment (just a little), or A, it might make him nervous so he takes longer.

    Anyone have any tricks for getting even the slowest cock out there to shoot its load? I know some of its psychological but you never know what might help. And it will be something to keep it interesting while he's taking forever.
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    Nov 08, 2010 9:12 PM GMT
    You know, sex is 2-way thing. How about you hold off ejaculating? Perhaps you are making him nervous with your speedy delivery.

    Other than that, why don't you let him stop fucking you and let him just jack off.
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    Nov 08, 2010 9:14 PM GMT
    hapakun saidMaybe its just me, but do you find it annoying when your partner/boyfriend/fb/trick/sugar daddy takes forever to cum? I mean like, Ive-came-3-times-already-and-my-dick-is-raw forever, you-fall-asleep forever, your-jaw-locks-up forever, you-turn-over-so-you-don't-have to make-an-interested-face-anymore forever, or your-planning-your-xmas-list-for-next-year-while-he's-fucking-you forever.

    You don't want to say "HURRY THE FUCK UP!" because A, that might distroy the moment (just a little), or A, it might make him nervous so he takes longer.

    Anyone have any tricks for getting even the slowest cock out there to shoot its load? I know some of its psychological but you never know what might help. And it will be something to keep it interesting while he's taking forever.


    Blindfold them ( sense of touch is heightened slightly and mentally more turned on, capable of 'letting go'). Works like a treat ;]



    That is all.
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    Nov 09, 2010 1:10 AM GMT
    redheadguy saidOther than that, why don't you let him stop fucking you and let him just jack off.

    Good suggestion, that I've done myself. There are many reasons why I may be unable to get a guy off (despite my brilliant techniques icon_wink.gif ). I ask him if he thinks he might do better himself, and then I offer to help him.

    Lick and fondle his balls while he jacks himself, rub his legs, his chest, bite his nipples, whatever he wants. Or just lie next to him and talk sexy encouragements to him, maybe stroke myself while he watches.

    The immediate aim is that he pop. How we make that happen isn't a matter of me, but a matter of him. I'm there to help, not to hinder. If I don't bring him off all by myself on this occasion, I will on another. My ultimate goal is to participate in a way he likes, so he'll want to come back for more.
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    Nov 09, 2010 1:49 AM GMT
    Maybe?

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    Nov 09, 2010 3:22 PM GMT
    GAMRican saidMaybe?

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    Thats horrible, lol.
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    Nov 09, 2010 4:02 PM GMT
    Haha, I'm surprised a guy as hot as you has this sort of problem!

    I think there are some times, for whatever reason, that a man finds it difficult to orgasm. I guess if you've already shot your load and they are taking a while, the only polite thing to do is to try and get them off however you can.

    BUT if you have tried and failed, I don't see the harm in you saying "Can we take a break and try again later?"

    Then you have some time to refuel the engine and can have a second helping, hopefully they will pop the second time around.
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    Nov 09, 2010 10:03 PM GMT
    redheadguy saidYou know, sex is 2-way thing. How about you hold off ejaculating? Perhaps you are making him nervous with your speedy delivery.

    Other than that, why don't you let him stop fucking you and let him just jack off.


    Where is it that I gave you any evidence that suggest I was cumming to quickly. I can hold off but you know, a long time is a long time whether you hold off or not.

    Anyways, yes the letting him finish by jacking off is an option but thats not what I was asking now was it?
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    Nov 09, 2010 10:05 PM GMT
    GAMRican saidMaybe?

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    If that were the case, he wouldn't have asked me over in the first place. Ive actually had a couple of guys say I gave them performance anxiety... so its quite the contrary.
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    Nov 09, 2010 11:58 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    redheadguy saidOther than that, why don't you let him stop fucking you and let him just jack off.

    . Or just lie next to him and talk sexy encouragements to him, maybe stroke myself while he watches.



    yesssssssssssssssssssssssssss!

    sometimes if I'm having a weird day, all I need is a few whispers in my ear, and a hand on my chest to make me go fucking crazy.
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    Nov 10, 2010 12:21 AM GMT
    Babe, maybe your hottness makes them nervous, they don't want to finish to fast because they want to impress you?, maybe casually mention, " Hey, ya know make loving is great, but sometimes I just want a nice fast fuck". good luck
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    Nov 10, 2010 1:38 AM GMT
    Just as a side-note. Thanks to my anti-depressants it can take me forever to come. There are times when I just give up. I'm not so focused on the big O anyway.
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    Nov 10, 2010 2:48 AM GMT
    bhp91126 saidJust as a side-note. Thanks to my anti-depressants it can take me forever to come. There are times when I just give up. I'm not so focused on the big O anyway.


    I know a guy who just doesn't come anymore because of his anti-depressants, but he's totally into that whole "use me like a fucktoy, cum in me and keep me blindfolded until you leave" shit, so he's not missing much. has a Daddy who will call him up and he's got to be clean and blindfolded within like thirty minutes.
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    Nov 16, 2010 9:29 PM GMT
    At times I have "stimulation overload" and can't relax and cum.

    I would just say to the guy "Is there anything I can do to help you out?" He should be cool with that.
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    Nov 18, 2010 4:52 AM GMT
    It is sometimes helpful for the one that tends to take longer to cum to start solo (edging I think it's called). That way he's closer to the finish line when his partner joins in.
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    Nov 18, 2010 7:28 PM GMT
    Foreplay works very well. You might just be in it for sex but maybe he isn't. He might actually want to spend time with you. Another good thing about foreplay is it you get worked up so when your ready to go at it, pretty much anything works.

    Everyone experiences life differently. Whats going to work for other people isn't necessarily gonna work for you. If you wanna solve a problem, try to work at it from another angle? icon_twisted.gif
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    Dec 05, 2010 3:39 AM GMT
    hapakun said...Anyone have any tricks for getting even the slowest cock out there to shoot its load? I know some of its psychological but you never know what might help. And it will be something to keep it interesting while he's taking forever.


    I just came looking at your photos.
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    Dec 05, 2010 4:13 AM GMT
    mickeytopogigio said
    hapakun said...Anyone have any tricks for getting even the slowest cock out there to shoot its load? I know some of its psychological but you never know what might help. And it will be something to keep it interesting while he's taking forever.


    I just came looking at your photos.


    lol... good point! have you tried to be striper? or watching porns. I know the second one is close to 'he is just not that into you'.
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    Dec 05, 2010 5:31 AM GMT
    Lucky bastards! lol

    I take forever to cum, sometimes if at all. That's more to do with the anti-depressants I'm on, and want to come off in the new year. Before I started taking them, I lasted a good amount of time. Now, even jerking off can be frustrating.icon_evil.gif