saying no or cancelling dates

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    Nov 10, 2010 1:29 PM GMT
    Just wondering,

    I've been seeing someone out of nowhere, came into my life completely unexpected and lives right across me! I really like him but I also have dates with few other guys I promised I'd see after I had some free time after exams.

    I'd like to make it exclusive with this guy I'm seeing in the near future since he really makes me happy but I'm not sure what's the right way to go about regarding the dates with the other guys I have. They're pretty awesome guys so I dont want to hurt them but at the same time I don't want to waste their time out of respect, what should I do?

    I'd like to keep in touch with them since they were good people.
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    Nov 10, 2010 1:42 PM GMT
    PrinceOfArya saidI'd like to make it exclusive with this guy I'm seeing in the near future since he really makes me happy but I'm not sure what's the right way to go about regarding the dates with the other guys I have. They're pretty awesome guys so I dont want to hurt them but at the same time I don't want to waste their time out of respect, what should I do?


    Here's a totally unique, outrageous and to some people's eyes, scandalous suggestion - BE HONEST

    Just say to them that you think they are great and you were looking forward to meeting them but you've met someone that you'd like to see exclusively for the time being and see how it goes.

    Really not that hard! I wonder how some people get out of bed in the morning icon_razz.gif
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    Nov 10, 2010 2:36 PM GMT
    NickFit said
    PrinceOfArya saidI'd like to make it exclusive with this guy I'm seeing in the near future since he really makes me happy but I'm not sure what's the right way to go about regarding the dates with the other guys I have. They're pretty awesome guys so I dont want to hurt them but at the same time I don't want to waste their time out of respect, what should I do?


    Here's a totally unique, outrageous and to some people's eyes, scandalous suggestion - BE HONEST

    Just say to them that you think they are great and you were looking forward to meeting them but you've met someone that you'd like to see exclusively for the time being and see how it goes.

    Really not that hard! I wonder how some people get out of bed in the morning icon_razz.gif


    haha sounds good thanks! just needed some backing icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 10, 2010 3:08 PM GMT
    That's some of the kindest truthful wording for turning down dates I've read in awhile!

    "Just say to them that you think they are great and you were looking forward to meeting them but you've met someone that you'd like to see exclusively for the time being and see how it goes."

    -Doug
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    Nov 10, 2010 3:32 PM GMT
    I agree, nothing worse than being led on by someone. Just be sure to let them know you enjoy their company and hope to keep them in your life.