More pitiful me!

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    Mar 12, 2008 11:34 PM GMT
    I am so sorry guys. I only seem to come here when there's something I'd like to nag about. But it makes me feel good, as I don't have anyone to talk to about my feelings. And I thank all those that respond in whatever way. Thnx!

    Anyways, I am stuck in this huge web of students. They're all having fun, enjoying their lives, expressing their lusts etc. etc. And I on the other hand am not. The annoying part is that all guys are soooooo extremely hot! And even more annoying is that French guys are effeminate in a strange sexy way. (Which is confusing, because they're all into girls)

    But there are several guys I am trying to play a game with to discover their sexuality, but I am not getting anything back. However, there's this one guy. A freshman, who approached me on a party and asked for my number. I was shouting to a friend telling him that he should call me if they went to a club. And instead this freshman guy offered to call me. I didn't pay so much attention until I noticed his cuteness. And then I got carried away for 5 minutes. He was smiling at me and I didn't ask for his number. I have his number though, but I will not call him. I added him on facebook already. But when I saw him today at this event, we didn't say hello. Does this mean that he might like me and is just being shy, or does he feel intimidated by me? I don't know. I don't understand signals!!


    Anyways, this is the story of my life. If you have any tips on how to recognize a gay guy please tell me. I am suffering. Thanks for the attention, I can go and sleep now! See ya guys.
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    Mar 12, 2008 11:36 PM GMT
    The easiest way...just ask him.

    If the answer is yes...great, if it's no...move on, there are plenty of out gay men in the world.
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    Mar 12, 2008 11:38 PM GMT
    ShawnTO saidThe easiest way...just ask him.

    If the answer is yes...great, if it's no...move on, there are plenty of out gay men in the world.


    I know I know I know, but I am not out yet. And I know that I should accept the difficulty of meeting a guy this way. But I'd like to get it of my chest now and then. Thnx icon_surprised.gif
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    Mar 12, 2008 11:38 PM GMT
    Treat others as you would want to be treated.

    When you analyze a situation, just think how you would want the other guy to treat you and do that.

    Would you want him to call you, then you call him.
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    Mar 12, 2008 11:45 PM GMT
    Caslon saidTreat others as you would want to be treated.

    When you analyze a situation, just think how you would want the other guy to treat you and do that.

    Would you want him to call you, then you call him.


    Hey that's actually a very simple but extremely good idea.

    I want him to say "hello"! So, if I see him tomorrow, I'll say hi instead.

    All right, now I am heading to bed!
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    Mar 13, 2008 1:03 AM GMT
    O MY GOSH CALL HIM! I dont know if you are aware of the heart-wrenching story of MY life...but the cute guy I WANT may not even be gay...let alone a phone number! You are lucky! Call him now!!!
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    Mar 13, 2008 1:24 AM GMT
    Trocks797 saidO MY GOSH CALL HIM! I dont know if you are aware of the heart-wrenching story of MY life...but the cute guy I WANT may not even be gay...let alone a phone number! You are lucky! Call him now!!!


    What Trocks hasn't told you is that HIS guy ASKED for his number and he didn't give it to him.....
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    Mar 18, 2008 8:22 PM GMT
    Hey Guys, thnx for your comments!

    I haven't done anything though.

    He just texts me, if I am coming to this party. And I said no, because I am having a cinema night with others.

    If I only knew this upfront. Aaargh, now I have to wait for his response. Hate this.
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    Mar 18, 2008 8:25 PM GMT
    Hmm, maybe it was a group message though. Because he didn't mention my name.

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    Mar 18, 2008 8:28 PM GMT
    Go to the party, forget about the cinema.
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    Mar 18, 2008 8:38 PM GMT
    He didn't reply to my message. So I think it was a group message. icon_neutral.gif