THE "ADJOURNMENT" OF CHUCKYSTUD

  • HndsmKansan

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    Mar 13, 2008 1:25 AM GMT
    So it looks like we are absent a member (now former) member of the Realjock community. It looks like Chuckystud was either removed or decided to retire from this site.

    First let me say I encountered the outspoken Chucky with my first post last spring. I asked for input on the whole "drinking of pop" (soda), since its really my only bad habit. Chucky responded and I took notice quickly. I think the term used was "idiot" or the like. Chucky and I never really had any issues and several times he made supportive comments on threads
    I had made.

    Chucky was certainly knowledgeable. He knew and had good experience in the gym and had much he could share and offer many of us on this site that would be productive and helpful. He did make reasoned comments many times. He could have been a great teacher.

    But as many have observed here, he didn't teach many times, he attacked. I for one didn't like his referral of a friend of mine on this site as "mentally ill", nor his unwarranted criticism of individuals or groups. He seemed to lack any respect for other people, their issues and backgrounds.... and thats what I want on this site!! Its what most people have on here.

    Many here have strong views on politics (especially right now), religion and many more. I hope that our disagreements can be based on our views...not on how "we" are as people. Thats when it gets ugly.
    Thanks to Jeff and the rest for keeping RealJock as one of the best sites available.

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    Mar 13, 2008 1:29 AM GMT
    now THAT'S a eugoogily.
  • Timbales

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    Mar 13, 2008 1:32 AM GMT
    He was a delicate little flower.
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    Mar 13, 2008 1:39 AM GMT
    Is it just me, or are the RJers who live with beagles among the most decent and considered on this site sometimes? Nice eugoogooley, Hndsm.

    Now, that said...where's the party? I want cake and cookies.

  • HndsmKansan

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    Mar 13, 2008 1:41 AM GMT
    zdrew78 saidIs it just me, or are the RJers who live with beagles among the most decent and considered on this site sometimes? Nice eugoogooley, Hndsm.

    Now, that said...where's the party? I want cake and cookies.





    I'll have it in an hour, just keep the cake away from Buddy!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 13, 2008 1:44 AM GMT
    jms84 saidnow THAT'S a eugoogily.


    Think of it less as a eulogy and more as praise for good community here.
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    Mar 13, 2008 1:47 AM GMT
    I think many kinda stop posting now. I know I have.
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    Mar 13, 2008 1:59 AM GMT
    Hmmm... is HndsmKansan running for RJ's Miss Congeniality award? icon_rolleyes.gif

    Nicely stated Handsome!

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    Mar 13, 2008 2:10 AM GMT
    If one sifted through what they found offensive or off-putting when he provided fitness and health tips/advice/expertise, they would've found nuggets of gold.


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    Mar 13, 2008 2:38 AM GMT
    Oh damn, are we going to have to be all grown up and reasonable now? What the hell am I going to do with all these effigies I made?
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    Mar 13, 2008 2:47 AM GMT
    Channel your angst into cookies, JP. Then send them to me. Then I'll tell you why Goofy walks on two legs and not four.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Mar 13, 2008 2:53 AM GMT
    jprichva saidOh damn, are we going to have to be all grown up and reasonable now? What the hell am I going to do with all these effigies I made?


    Well I thought about it JP, but I thought a reasoned approach might be more appropriate than effigy burning..... um, actually I like the "Wizard of OZ"
    analogy...LOL
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    Mar 13, 2008 3:07 AM GMT
    Oh good Lord. There's not a regular poster on here who hasn't shown his ass on more than one occasion.

    People get brutalized for their grammar, their politics, their bodies, their MANNERS, their age, their youth, their shame about being gay, their hypermasculinity, their effeminacy, their religious beliefs, their being in the closet, ad inifinitum.

    It's all about appearances, apparently. An earlier case in point: Some people got upset because the profile questionnaire asked about preferred sex roles. They insisted repeatedly that this isn't a "hookup site" even though the same questionnaire lists "hookups" as a reason for being here. But, to maintain appearances, the option of designating role was removed...even though HIV status was still requested, because, you know, HIV status is very important when discussing your training routine.

    Sorry, but I prefer the presence of sometimes abrasive characters over the unctuously well-mannered, who are as effective at hiding their controlling ways and rudeness behind preachy language as the abrasive are at hiding their lack of manners behind the rhetoric of "tough love."

    Perhaps we should write our own eulogies.

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    Mar 13, 2008 3:12 AM GMT
    Oy.

    Obscene, you insist on being a grownup.
  • dfrourke

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    Mar 13, 2008 3:25 AM GMT

    although AMAZINGLY abrasive...we [perhaps] have missed the opportunity to influence chuckystud's attitude and values here...

    I don't agree with silencing a voice...although I realize with everything we say, we are also responsible for the message being received...

    I am curious as to what he could have possibly said "this time" to warrant his removal...or his departure from the site...

    - David
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    Mar 13, 2008 3:25 AM GMT
    Oh, the boys will soon enough anoint a new asshole, JP. It's like a re-run of Lord of the Flies.
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    Mar 13, 2008 3:29 AM GMT
    Sick
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    Mar 13, 2008 3:32 AM GMT
    lord of the flies? then i say sucks to your asthmar icon_razz.gif
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    Mar 13, 2008 3:33 AM GMT
    obsceneOh, the boys will soon enough anoint a new asshole, JP. It's like a re-run of Lord of the Flies.


    Or any halfway decent reality show!
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    Mar 13, 2008 3:37 AM GMT
    dfrourke askedI am curious as to what he could have possibly said "this time" to warrant his removal...or his departure from the site...


    I think it was his posts this afternoon in the thread about transexuals and his response to a brand new RJ member who asked about losing weight (and got a pretty nasty version of the standard reply).
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    Mar 13, 2008 3:42 AM GMT
    Puma84 saidlord of the flies? then i say sucks to your asthmar icon_razz.gif

    Good God, those words haven't floated through my brain in a few, um, decades. Poor Piggy. Poor everybody.
  • Squarejaw

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    Mar 13, 2008 4:00 AM GMT
    Can we get some official word on whether he left voluntarily or was removed?
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    Mar 13, 2008 4:06 AM GMT
    Squarejaw saidCan we get some official word on whether he left voluntarily or was removed?



    What did I miss? Is CHUCKYSTUD MIA?icon_question.gif
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    Mar 13, 2008 4:38 AM GMT
    So first. I thought Chuck was funny as hell. Yes, abrasive and insistent. I don't think it always comes through in his posts, but I think he had a weird sense f humor and some more colorful ways to say things. And by colorful, I mean inappropriate and kinda twisted. But for what its worth he added some spice to things. i think we should stop being so aggressive to each other on these posts anyway. Only makes it weasier tfor things to go to far. And for people to start pushing the rules.


    But all that, this may not be a hook up site. But if you are giving people web cam access and asking us to count how many guys think are hot. Well. There is something more than just a gay man's jocks club. I mean we are gay men...

    PEACE OUT Chuck.
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    Mar 13, 2008 5:06 AM GMT
    Chucky, R.I.P.
    Upon whom will I bestow my noogies and wedgies? Sure, he was a dick, but I've never been afraid of dick. Some of my best friends are dicks. We should have a dick site.