Is this love again?

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    Mar 13, 2008 7:27 AM GMT
    I've been in to this guy since like well first sight actually. Sounds stupid but since I firt saw him I kind of already knew that he was someone I wanted to know but not like one of thoes oh bang me now kind of things. It was like another kind of spark. The more and more i think about where we are now after being friends well actually best friends for two years now the more I know that he's the the guy I want to start my life with. I had a fiance that passed away and its taken me a long time to move on from that and with this new guy I feel like its alright to do that. I guess because we approach it from the aspect of a friendship first before oh this is the guy Im dating or my bf. The idea of sex with him scares me though. Anyone experinced this? or am I just tripping?icon_question.gificon_neutral.gif
  • zakariahzol

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    Mar 13, 2008 12:57 PM GMT
    Is he gay in the first place? Friendship didnt necessary mean love. I have a lot of straight friend who treat me so nicely, but they are straight . So make sure you know before you get emortionally hurt.

    By the Ryan, you look amazing. You must have really lose a lot of weight. You look really good . Congratulations
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    Mar 13, 2008 1:25 PM GMT
    Have I experienced this? Yes with my life partner. We became friends before we became partners. We knew each other for 15 months before dating. Like you I sensed a spark from the moment I lay eyes on him. Not just because of his looks, but also because of the way he carried himself.

    The best of luck in getting to know him better.
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    Mar 13, 2008 10:37 PM GMT
    He actually is gay I mean that is a given. His family finds it hard to accept and im just a friend to them even though they do well mainly his mom and sister suspect something. I mean I actually like this as it is its just like wow. sometimes im like maybe this wont work and then bam like something just happens that im like this dude is to awesome and im so lucky to have him in my life.

    PS.: Thanks! Its been a lot of hard work but actually its been fun and i enjoy it. the gold's gym membership has paid off and the classes are just amazing! I dont even want to know what I weighed before but I know it was getting close to like 285 if not more. Urgh.. in that pic I had just hit 245 and went from a 42" wasit to a 36" Waist. I still need a 38 though for some styles. gott to much of a ghetto booty going on. lol.