Is he looking at me?

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    Nov 13, 2010 4:45 PM GMT
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    Have you ever been in the situation where there is a really cute guy looking over at you. Then he smiles and says hi and before you can cough up any words the response comes from behind you. You then realize that the guy was looking over your shoulder at the girl behind you. She struts over and sits next to him and you walk away with vanished hopes.
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    Nov 13, 2010 5:32 PM GMT
    Nope but I've had some (creepy) guys stare at me in the streets which have made me quite uncomfortable. icon_sad.gif lol

    But your scenario seems much worse.
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    Nov 13, 2010 7:04 PM GMT
    Lol, I guess I'm the only one.
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    Nov 13, 2010 7:05 PM GMT
    It has happened to me countless times by now. Definitely know where you are coming from. Feel like the ugly fat girl sometimes.
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    Nov 13, 2010 7:53 PM GMT
    Happened to me a couple times.
    The second time I turned around to her and screamed,
    "HE WAVED AT ME BITCH, BACK OFF!!!!" icon_mad.gif
    LOL!
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    Nov 13, 2010 7:57 PM GMT
    GigoloAssassin saidHappened to me a couple times.
    The second time I turned around to her and screamed,
    "HE WAVED AT ME BITCH, BACK OFF!!!!" icon_mad.gif
    LOL!


    Now that is something youtube would have loved.

    Happened with me one time, but it turned out he was waving at another guy. Not sure if that was any better or not. LOL
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    Nov 13, 2010 8:13 PM GMT
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    GigoloAssassin saidHappened to me a couple times.
    The second time I turned around to her and screamed,
    "HE WAVED AT ME BITCH, BACK OFF!!!!" icon_mad.gif
    LOL!


    Now that is something youtube would have loved.

    Happened with me one time, but it turned out he was waving at another guy. Not sure if that was any better or not. LOL


    Then you should've done what I did, hahaha!
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    Nov 13, 2010 8:17 PM GMT
    Oh actually thinking back: a few years ago I had a 'crush' on this guy -- no wait, let me rephrase, a few years back I loved a guy for 2 years...but I deluded myself so much that I thought the feeling was reciprocal. My energies revitalized every time I spoke with him, my troubles and insecurities seemingly melted away every time I saw him and I thought about him every day every second, unable to let go. But alas, what was so good to be true was indeed a, beautiful nightmare. He crushed my soul the day I saw him with a girl and I took a long, long time forcing myself to unlove the guy who bestowed upon me the toxic feeling of love. But I never blamed him for anything, because it was never his fault...

    So no, I never experienced a cute guy who I thought was calling out to me, but I certainly did experience a guy that innocently broke my heart and taught me a vital lesson in life.

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    Nov 14, 2010 6:46 AM GMT
    lol, been there too!
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    Nov 14, 2010 10:09 AM GMT
    This is where my height comes in handy.
    Fairly sure they can't get away with doing the whole looking behind me thing because Im too short. To look at me they normally have to literally look down.
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    Nov 14, 2010 10:36 AM GMT
    mnboy saidThis is where my height comes in handy.
    Fairly sure they can't get away with doing the whole looking behind me thing because Im too short. To look at me they normally have to literally look down.
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    this height fact may work for me too.
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    Nov 14, 2010 10:39 AM GMT
    GigoloAssassin said
    asnextdoor said
    GigoloAssassin saidHappened to me a couple times.
    The second time I turned around to her and screamed,
    "HE WAVED AT ME BITCH, BACK OFF!!!!" icon_mad.gif
    LOL!


    Now that is something youtube would have loved.

    Happened with me one time, but it turned out he was waving at another guy. Not sure if that was any better or not. LOL


    Then you should've done what I did, hahaha!


    ha this is so funny icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 14, 2010 12:33 PM GMT
    YES, I HAVE!!! and the worst thing about it was the guy looking at "me" happened to be my crush. Disappointing...
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    Nov 14, 2010 1:40 PM GMT
    mnboy saidThis is where my height comes in handy.
    Fairly sure they can't get away with doing the whole looking behind me thing because Im too short. To look at me they normally have to literally look down.
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    Aw that's cute lol. icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 14, 2010 1:47 PM GMT
    Never have had that happen honestly, but with me I'm not sure I'd be in the kind of situation. I wouldn't worry about it however, someday you'll probably be the recipient and you probably won't even realize it!

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    Nov 14, 2010 2:15 PM GMT
    boulderic said6a00e54f9e16d78833011279420c8828a4-500wi

    Have you ever been in the situation where there is a really cute guy looking over at you. Then he smiles and says hi and before you can cough up any words the response comes from behind you. You then realize that the guy was looking over your shoulder at the girl behind you. She struts over and sits next to him and you walk away with vanished hopes.


    Thank god this never happened to me lol. That sucks!

    PS : I hate Sean O pry.

    mnboy saidThis is where my height comes in handy.
    Fairly sure they can't get away with doing the whole looking behind me thing because Im too short. To look at me they normally have to literally look down.
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    Haha so cute...
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    Nov 14, 2010 5:12 PM GMT
    Happens all the time to me,

    I'm 6,5" so people are always looking or glancing at me with the "wow, he's tall look"- even on the streets of New York where people usually don't exchange eye contact.

    When a cute guy does it that really messes me up and my gaydar goes into overdrive, I start analyzing context, etc... But why would some of these cute guys keep glancing back? Haven't they ever seen a tall guy before?

    Ever since I've moved to NYC my gaydar has been all messed up.
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    Nov 14, 2010 5:15 PM GMT
    Mister you're a sky scraper!icon_eek.gif
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    Nov 14, 2010 5:41 PM GMT
    GigoloAssassin saidHappened to me a couple times.
    The second time I turned around to her and screamed,
    "HE WAVED AT ME BITCH, BACK OFF!!!!" icon_mad.gif
    LOL!


    This is probably the best response ever. I'd have loved to see that
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    Nov 14, 2010 8:35 PM GMT
    Ehanson said

    Ever since I've moved to NYC my gaydar has been all messed up.


    Maybe you are getting interference from a gay weather balloon.