First time anal sex?

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    Nov 13, 2010 9:17 PM GMT
    Bout to bottom for the first time and want to know what I should do to prepare? I know everyone says lots of lube but wat else? All advise is welcome!
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    Nov 14, 2010 8:23 AM GMT
    use an enema (or don't eat so much an hour beforehand), it really helps if you use fingers before you insert a cock, lots of foreplay, push gently 'out' like you're taking a dump when something is being inserted, being on top is good for controlling the intake of cock, doggy is great for deep and easier penetration and take your time (keep still when it starts to hurt, when it subsides put a bit more cock in).
    the arsehole has two passages (the first is the one you come in contact with which is quite shallow, the second is where the crap is usually stored the main chcamber), the most uncomfortable part is when the dick breeches the main passage of your arse so be prepared to use a bit of pressure to get it in there.
  • Beeftastic

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    Nov 14, 2010 7:34 PM GMT
    Make sure you man goes down on you and rims your ass really good. Nothing better to open up than a talented rimmer and some gentle fingering. Definitely get an enema, it gives both you and your partner some assurance that everything will be sexy and clean icon_smile.gif
  • tokugawa

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    Mar 08, 2011 5:59 PM GMT
    Actually, the first time turns out badly for many gays. Many tops are only looking to score once and then abandon the bottom after a "quick one."

    The longer you know the top, the better the outcome.

    Be assertive, try different positions if necessary.

    Best possible outcome is a monogamous LTR (long term relationship.) The fewer partners you have, the lesser the chance of catching a STD (sexually transmitted disease.)

    Using a condom is "safer sex," there is no such thing as "safe sex" with anal.

    Things to watch out for: putting the condom on backwards, having the condom "slip off" or (with a cheap or old, expired condom) having the condom tear.

    The most dangerous time for something to go wrong with a condom is the first time; if the top is also a newbie, take extra care. Practicing ahead of time could save a lot of grief.

    Beware of being swept up in the moment and forgetting the condom altogether.

    And if the top refuses to wear a condom, it should be a deal breaker. Since the top and the bottom are both equally at risk for AIDS, the top refusing to wear a condom could mean he doesn't care about catching AIDS because he is already HIV positive.

    By the way, blow jobs result in almost zero AIDS transmission.
  • tokugawa

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    Mar 08, 2011 6:01 PM GMT
    jakeblack saidBout to bottom for the first time and want to know what I should do to prepare? I know everyone says lots of lube but wat else? All advise is welcome!


    I just looked at the date of your post.

    D'oh!!

    How did it go?