Morality...

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    Nov 14, 2010 7:53 AM GMT
    be evil to be feared in hopes to lose your fear of others?
    be good to better yourself in hopes to better others?

    Which does the gay man choose? (or bisexual!)

    knowing that both exist in society and that it may be pretty split, i feel like picking the second one is useless because of those who exist as the first. but yet i still choose the second!
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    Nov 14, 2010 9:30 AM GMT
    jayyp13 saidbe evil to be feared in hopes to lose your fear of others?
    be good to better yourself in hopes to better others?

    Which does the gay man choose? (or bisexual!)

    knowing that both exist in society and that it may be pretty split, i feel like picking the second one is useless because of those who exist as the first. but yet i still choose the second!


    I am evil only by the misconceptions of others. I have no desire to be feared by or to better those around me just to accept them and they I.
    One man's God is another man's Devil.
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    Nov 14, 2010 9:40 AM GMT
    The second one....Although the first one is tempting....

    The only entity I fear and love the most is The POWER THAT BE
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    Nov 14, 2010 2:44 PM GMT
    Morality is subjective and overrated. Just be yourself. Some will like it, others will not.
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    Nov 14, 2010 2:47 PM GMT
    jayyp13 saidbe evil to be feared in hopes to lose your fear of others?
    be good to better yourself in hopes to better others?


    Being good doesn't work because most gay men will think you find them attractive and when they realize you are just "being good" they'll viciously attack you for not having sex with them. It's best to be evil right off the bat.
  • TadPohl

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    Nov 14, 2010 2:52 PM GMT
    For me, I see things/ actions labeled good and evil as being relative.
    No one ever said that to be a good person means that you should let yourself get walked all over.
    No one ever said that evil people don't have moments where their humanity shines.
    No one ever said that morality is in black and white.... even the Christian Bibles confuses itself and contradicts itself.

    Forget concepts of good and evil. Live this life with no regret. Make you decisions without looking back. Do as you please and be prepared to face the consequences of your actions.
    There is no good or evil. There is only acting out from a place of security or lashing at the world because of a sense of fear covered in a bunch of other words we use to hide our true insecurities.

    I know it's a little Oprah-ish, but this is how I have come to interpret this question about morality at this very moment in my life.

    If this is about relating to men... I think that it's best to be honest. Again, there's no evil or good here.
    If you meet someone and you're not interested, or you're interested, but shy, or someone's working your nerve..... there's no reason to be cunty or to be too delicate. Speak from your heart and buy them a beer if they're having trouble understanding you. For some reason, I've noticed that guys.... gays sometimes have issues with being dry and honest.... speaking from their hearts.

    Still examing.

    Any thoughts?